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    I met this man in the club a few months ago and you wouldn't know it by his looks but he lways has ALOT of cash...... he told me he never gets any dances and girls never approach him that he wasn't getting any dances that night and would come back next week because it was closing time when i met him.. So he came back and got several dances tipped me $40 per song (did like 10 songs or more)he also went into the champaign vip room with me gave me $600.Now he comes in all the time to see me getting dances from just me............WELL .. girls have picked up on this and now there swarmed all around him and i can not even go over to him because there is 3-5 or more ,girls sitting there with him,until they ALL leave!( i donot intrude onto others )He will say hi and motion for me to come sit but i just say hi and shy away cause i don't want anyone to get pissy at me...i tell him i will come back later..
    I understand he is not just "my customer" and all that.........but now when i do finally get to dance for him he doesn't have as much money to spend on me cause he's bought several dances from others too and now he gives me only $25 every 2 songs i do!! 2 for 1 he says ............like all the other girls at my club do 2 for 1's I DO NOT do 2 for 1's and it is not a set price for dances,dances are $25 ..this 2 for 1 is something girls there do just so they can get a dance and now it has corrupted this guy and that's all he wants to pay....most likey these girls are charging him $25 for 2 songs and it has ruiend it for me............................................im thinking about just letting the girls all fight over him so they seem to be doin......LOL and im just not going to waste my time on him anymore.............im just venting really.
    Has anything like this ever happened to you? or what would you do??

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    I think you made the mistake of not sitting down with him when HE waved you over to do so. He maybe was trying to get away from the girls and have only you. But your pride kinda got in the way,because girls where sitting there?. Well whats done is done,he is now curropted. Next time you get another big spender,go to him when he waves you over no matter if there is girls there or not! That is if you are working to make $.

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    Maybe he's sitting there with all these girls around and wishing, hoping, longing for you to come over. He is probably upset that you are not making a point to sit with him. So, he's spending money on other girls.

    Establish some sort of contact (email or phone) so that he is YOUR exclusive regular. You gave him special treatment. You made him feel like a king. You did your job. The others are just trying to ride the coattails of your success. Don't let them! INTRUDE! It's not rude. He came for you and they know this.

    If the situation is too messy, sit with him for a minute when he comes in and leave so that he knows you are not like the mooches. This way, he'll probably want to spend time with you in the future, when he is tired of the swarm.

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    Make it clear that your waiting for him to get rid of the other girls. Say, "I'll come back when you're done with so and so." Don't let him tell you what your going to charge. You tell him that! I would say, "you know I don't do two fer ones baby, but since your so awesome we can make it $20 a song." If he asks why you won't do two for ones just tell him you aren't that desperate, or you aren't that kind of girl, or why charge less when all your customers are willing to pay you more.



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    Just surprised that girls are allowed to do 2 for 1s? In my club you cannot undercut rates... you will get suspended. All it does is hurt income of everyone else.... like youre experiencing.. have you spoken to management about this?

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    I would say eff it and let the other (desperate) girls nab him unless the club is empty or you need the money to tip out. Like, still be nice to him in case he comes around and starts paying for your attention again, but until then, you have bills to pay.

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    this guy is totally taking advantage of the situation... he tried to rope you in by initially tipping you very well, and now that hes got you he's being rather stingy... i don't think i would bother wasting my time if i were you.... this prob isnt the first time this guy has tried this tactic at other clubs....

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    Quote Originally Posted by LOGANLAKEN
    I think you made the mistake of not sitting down with him when HE waved you over to do so. He maybe was trying to get away from the girls and have only you. But your pride kinda got in the way,because girls where sitting there?. Well whats done is done,he is now curropted. Next time you get another big spender,go to him when he waves you over no matter if there is girls there or not! That is if you are working to make $.
    Exactly. If a guy's been coming in to see you, getting dances from only you, and other girls start HORNING IN but he still waves you over - GET YOUR ASS OVER THERE AND WORK YOUR SHIT. He obviously liked you and by letting the other girls have first dibs you screwed yourself. Custies never stay with just one girl forever, but you don't have to let other girls screw your business around like that.

    Live and learn. You can't fix it now, but you can learn for next time. When a spending custy wants you to come over, don't waste a second getting to him, whether other girls are there or not. The don't-barge-in-where-other-girls-are-sitting rule does not apply when custy asks you over. Especially if he's been a regular of yours already.

    Be assertive or these girls will continue to screw up your money.

    But yeah, with this guy I'd write him off and work other guys. He's been corrupted and nothing you can do about it. No need to waste your time on half price dances. I might even look for another club where girls aren't undercutting like that - it's very bad for business.

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    i agree with what Kamyrnanne said....that's what i am begining to think also....im just not going to waste my time with people like that...i do fine without that persons money.

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