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    Default Do Dancers usually kiss customers on the lips?

    Got a vip with a dancer first time I tried her had a good time plu some fun. We both had some common intrests and I got her number the same night.

    So I'd talk to her every now and then but I yet to hangout w/ her outside of the club.

    Then I go and see her again and at the end of the vip dance she kisses me on both of my checks and then on my lips and she's like 'nothing wrong with a little kiss right?' I got up to leave and she signaled me to kiss her again.

    I figure hmm maybe she's on something or drunk or whatevver. But then it still surprised the hell out of me and got me thinking. Of course I didn't mind.

    Then the next two times I see her she did the same thing. She would look at me in eyes pause and say..."you know what...you are a real sweetie u know that?" and then kiss me

    Of course every person is diff so it's hard for me to judge what she is up to. It's very possible she's just tryin to keep me comming back but then usually kissing on the lips is too intimate just to keep some one commin back eh? I figure maybe she likes me (I really doubt it) but then if she does I def would not mind one bit.

    I have not seen her do this with anybody else and at most a hug or a kiss on the check.

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    Default Re: Do Dancers usually kiss customers?

    i often will kiss a guy on the cheek, but never on the lips. So yeah, it is not uncommon for a girl to kiss a customer on the cheek, but I don't know why she would kiss you on the lips.... not a common thing

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    Default Re: Do Dancers usually kiss customers?

    I agree, this is not common, and for your sake I hope this girl doesn't do this to all her custies!

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    Default Re: Do Dancers usually kiss customers?

    I think she does like you, as a customer that is (and I'm not only alluding to the money you spend), and wants to keep you coming back, which she appears to be doing a good job of. Don't read too much into it.

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    Default Re: Do Dancers usually kiss customers?

    I've seen it happen before,but no,it's not common.In fact in a lot of clubs you will get in trouble if you get caught.Kissing on the cheek is very common,especially at our club,but that's just being friendly to people that we have known for years,we don't do it to people we don't know or meet for the first time.Well,maybe she does like you...

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    Default Re: Do Dancers usually kiss customers?

    Ive only had one dancer give me a full blown lip locker. This happened up in the LD area. WOW! The few other times Ive been lip kissed felt more friendly than passionate. Could be club rules or maybe personal aversion. In any case, youre more likely to just get a cheek peck or maybe an air kiss. Or even more likely, no kiss at all.

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    Default Re: Do Dancers usually kiss customers?

    Ive kissed cheeks but only for my regs. Not for new custy's unless it was a huge night from them.
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    Default Re: Do Dancers usually kiss customers?

    Eh...I guess that depends on your definition of common.

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    Default Re: Do Dancers usually kiss customers?

    i dunno

    I met the "kissing whore"

    I bought dances.

    She didn't live up to the hype.

    but holy shit was she hot.

    All I got was this lousy t-shirt, and a silouette of a black heart on my right cheek.

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    you guys are too much. LOL
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    Default Re: Do Dancers usually kiss customers?

    A nice hug and a kiss to the cheek can signify affection and/or invitation to return for more dances next time, NBD. A lip kiss would seem to signify something more, a pleasant mystery so far. If you are in a position to return for more, some more passive exploration might be interesting. At least some genuine affection at the club will be nice, if doesn't get destructive.

    Most likely the following will not be an issue, but... If it goes somewhere beyond the club, make sure her objective is not to get into your wallet. Oh, and if it goes out the door, absolutely play safe. Right now you know nothing about her and her motives.

    I've only had one of these, but she wanted DFK and I hate that unless something else is in deep too.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    I think what you are trying to get at is, does she like you. The answer is maybe, but.........that doesnt mean she's going to act on it. She may find you attractive enough to kiss on the mouth. She may even be living out HER own fantasy by being a bad girl. However, she probably has her own personal rules about not dating people she meets in the club.

    Either that or she's just trying to juice you and she was a little drunk. Whatever the case is, don't expect anything to happen if it hasn't happened already. She flirts with you, you give her money. That works for her and she's probably not going to do anything to change that.

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    Damn stripper messin w/ my head!

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    Default Re: Do Dancers usually kiss customers?

    Some do it frequently, some only do it to guys they're comfortable with, and some don't do it all.

    I've never considered it a neccesity considering that its relatively easy as it is to spread germs in an environment like a club, but all of my faves knew a little peck on the cheek can raise a guy's spirits, even when its just a friendly gesture. There's something tremendously earthy about that, and yes it helps a gal stand out. Hugs are nice too though.


    I've gotten liplocked a couple of times too, but I suspect that had more to do with the dancer's consumption of alcohol (or other intoxicants), than my animal magnestism (cough) (cough).
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    Default Re: Do Dancers usually kiss customers?

    I've had a few liplocs in the VIPS, what is more common is putting my finger in the dancers mouth (no kidding) this has happened with several dancers both in the VIP and the open lap areas.

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    You are aware in fact that among other things, herpes is spread through kissing. Sorry to bring up a nasty topic but hey be very careful. I know thats the last thing on your mind in the heat of the moment with a hot entertainer so give it some thought now. Same kinda thing when guys are trying to get my nipple in their mouth. If I were a gal who allowed that to happen (I am not) think about all the other customers that would have already slobbered on my tits. You are in fact just sucking off the last customers saliva. YUK! Have fun but keep it clean.

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    Default Re: Do Dancers usually kiss customers?

    I must be sheltered, but I've NEVER seen a dancer kiss a customer.

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    Ok they removed my post but they didnt say why. My name is kikin and I am new here. I just wanna say regarding kissing in the club that many dancers dfk me during private dances, and then some also kiss me on the lips on the floor as a way to say hello when I first walk into the club. I don't know if this is a new trend or something but I like the dfk very much...there's something cool about deep kissing a total stranger...although I try to be selective about the dancers I let kiss me like that, i.e. they must be healthy-looking and have a stunning face and body.

    just my $0.02


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    Re: Do Dancers usually kiss customers?

    Quote Originally Posted by holaback
    Damn stripper messin w/ my head!
    Ya, thats what u paid her for isn't it?
    You are paying for the fantisy and she gave you a great one as well as a story to tell all your friends.

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    Default Re: Do Dancers usually kiss customers?

    Only gotten a kiss on the cheek from ATF or ones that I spent a lot of money on in a night and only as a gesture of goodnight.

    Only lip kissing, I've seen was some ugly chick who plopped down in my friend's lap as soon as we sat down in the club one night. She started to kiss him after like 2 sips of her drink. My ATF and another familiar dancer were sitting next to me and they were saying "yuck that's disgusting, what a slut giving all dancers a bad reputation."

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    Default Re: Do Dancers usually kiss customers?

    For some reason Ive been kissed alot. I dont know if its done to get more $$$ or what, But I can see how it works. Sometimes I would get all paranoid thinking who else have they kissed and whats on my lips, but usually I would be to drunk to think about it more then 2 min.

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    Kissing on the cheek is common. Kissing on the lips is not. NOW if she plants one on ya OTC...then she definitely likes you.
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    Default Re: Do Dancers usually kiss customers?

    From the posts here its obvious that in-club kissing varies from dancer to dancer, from club to club, from city to city and even from geographical region to geographical region. A dancer giving out kisses in CA might come across the wrong way if the business climate there doesnt require that level of familiarity. OTOH a dancer in podunk USA may have to go to that extent to get the customers attention. Blanket statements about whos a slut blah blah simply dont work.

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    If not a kiss on the lips, what are the chances of a long, slow, passionate handshake?
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    I would never kiss a custy, but i see makeout sessions in my club all the time, and I don't think it's worth the $$$$

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