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    Totally new here to posting so Hi and nice to meet you.
    I recently left my very conventional office job I am a graduate living in the UK, born in US. Anyway I have had this fantasy of dancing for a couple of years now. So I started researching like a good girl should. Checking out this site and others. I went to visit a club in Birmingham on a few days ago and I was really impressed by the management, the girls were a little stand offish, but hey they probably thought I was eventually going to be compitition so thats cool.
    The manager was totally real and he called today to see what I was thinking. What put me off though is that it was nude. I saw that and I thought 'oh', not what I had planed.
    Anyway part of me just wants to fly the coup of the normal and just do it, but there is this part of me that is holding back because its nude. But I also need some cash as I recently split from my boyfriend and there are some out standing bills. I like to make my own money and am very self sufficient and resourceful.
    I also thought as my boyfriend and I share the same social circle it would be a good way for me to keep myself busy and sort of socialise.
    So yeah I have that all out there. What to do....

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    When I was first scoping out clubs, I only wanted to do topless and that's it. I wouldn't even consider a nude place. But, since I'm under 21 and the topless club I wanted to audition for wouldn't let me in unless I was doing the amateur night, I decided to check out a nude club that was supposed to be the best in the area (not to mention the most money).

    So I went there, checked it out, and loved it. The atmosphere was relaxed, the management was great, most of the girls got along and they weren't "snobbish" like I heard the girls at this particular topless club were. So I figured "hey, it's just a little piece of fabric, you're basically naked up there anyway, you might as well pick a club where you'll have the most fun and make the most money along the way."

    I say check out some topless places and check out some nude places too. If you really like a particular club and it happens to be nude, think about whether you're comfortable or not with that level of nudity. If you're not, don't do it. There's no sense in you feeling shitty every night you come home from work and to keep going back just for the money. If you're not comfortable, you're going to be miserable.

    Good luck and let us know what you decide!

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    The reason I chose this club in particular after researching, and knowing the buzz about the other clubs was that it would be a good 'beginer club'. I felt they were the real down home sort that want to make sure the girls are happy and no 'funny' stuff is going on. Bless. They even had a tin of wrapped chocolate on the desk as you went in for the girls and the customers.
    I don't know if I am right or not, but I have this impression that you are shy about taking off your panties at first, then once you do it, you feel sort of proud and pleased with yourself. (Not to mention what the customer feels!) I think I look good nude, but I don't know if any one else will think so.... but I mean come on if he thought no one else would think so he would not want me to work there.
    The manager just said that I should come along one night and give it a go, if I did not like it I could always go no problem. Its just that I have never thought about getting totally naked in front of a stranger. Topless yeah. Thinking...
    Hmmmm....

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    Im new here too but wanted to wish you luck eithr way

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    I work in a nude club, and the first night I worked I was so nervous, but after I took my bottoms off the first time, it was really easy after that. The first time you do it is the hardest, and it's smooth sailing after that.

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    I did not go last night. I did not feel like I could just drop in on their busiest night without talking to the manager first. Plus I was being slightly lazy as I had been out all day and came home and had a glass of wine and did not want to shave, and my friend who is in Oz was going to email me.

    I will talk to the manger and see if we can arrange something. I feel that the best thing for me to do would be to practice on some one who is not a customer first, like work with another dancer for an hour in the afternoon. Then they can turn me loose, so to speak.
    Will keep you updated.

    Oh I bet I will blush when I take my undies off. But I have heard some men find blushing quite erotic. Who knows.

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    hey..i'd prefer to just to topless as well, trouble is here in the uk i'm yet to find a topless only club...

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    Good luck to you sweetie,and don't worry about working in a nude club.You'll get used to it within a couple of weeks.It's always hard the first time,I thought I couldn't do it either,and now...11 years later,still doing it.

    BTW,is that a Sphynx in your avatar?Looks very cool.

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    Oh you clever lady, thanks! Its actually my Devon Rex, Sidney, but he was quite young in that pic so his coat was not all the way in. The little lady by his side is an oriental short hair, Polly. AKA Fanny Adams.

    Yeah the odd thing is the manager called me again today and said that he his really trying to raise the profile of the club and that if I did not want to do nude and just do topless and stage work I could. ???? I asked about the other girls, he said it did not matter. I was like OK? He said if they felt they did not want to do nude they did not have to either. It just feels like it is too big of a 'thing' now.

    He knows that I used to dance like clothed and was a cheer leader etc. so he thinks probably that I could do okay stage work. But I am not sure what he is thinking with right now if you know what I mean. I told him I would come up on Wed. night. So we shall see....
    Hell I kinda just want to get it all off now!

    I am thinking how do do the do down there. Little triangle in front short back and sides I think.

    (Listen I tried to spell check this but could not get it to work sorry for any mistakes) You know also I am having trouble trying get an image on my signiture and gallery. Any advice?
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    Ok, one thing I am wondering, is why is this manager calling you repeatidly? I have never heard of a manager doing that, no matter how hot and nice you are. Well ok once, when a manager at a club I worked at got transfered to another one in town he called me at home asking me to come work at his new club, but I found out that as because he had no girls at his new club, and the club was in serious trouble. So just make sure you are going to a good place, and like he said, if you don't like it you can leave. You should have free pay out on the first day so it won't be a biggie.

    Just ask yourself: "Is this club in a good area of town?" "Are girls attractive looking or at least average?" "Were there a good number of customers in the club?" If your answers are yes then you should be fine unless he wants a blow job or something.

    But also, dancing is not a good way to socialize. 99% of the girls are going to be bitches and the customers are just going to want to get in your pants. But good luck!

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    I work in a nude club, like I said before, and we got a new girl in last week who had only worked in topless clubs before this. Our manager told her that she could keep her panties on for her first few sets, or just pull them down a little until she got used to it. Well she ended up taking them off her first set. Its easiest if you just get it over with right away I think. And I think keeping your panties on in an all nude club might hurt your money a little, because guys are used to seeing the girls totally nude, so if you aren't nude, they might not tip as much... but who knows.

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    The lengths men will go to to get a BJ....

    You know it has been a couple of days since I posted, but the guy is like calling every day. He woke me up this morning calling at 9:30. I did not answer, but he left a message I have not bothered to listen to. Now I am just avoiding his calls. I am a little worried about him calling me. I just don't trust the situation now. I sure know how to pick em.
    Trouble is, if he was not calling I could probably just go and make a few buck, pounds whatever.
    I really need the money.
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    Update as I listened to the message he left. He just says he really wants me to work there and its no pressure and that he will leave me alone for a while. He was relly nice about it so fair play really. I suppose recruiting is always a tricky one. I think the club is fine. The one thing that I really worry about it drug culture and getting sucked into something or a kind of atmosphere I will feel un-happy with. And also getting a reputation that means I can't get back into nine to five work when I am ready to.

    Its tough at the moment as my best friend is in another country and really busy and then I have just split with my bf so my friends on his side are not available to bounce ideas off of etc. Feeling a bit sorry for myself, most likely due to the hang over I have
    You only live once. (Don't know who said it but I think it all the time.)

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    Will they think you look good? Of course they'll think you look good. Read the "fat kitty" thread in General, especially the men's comments. Your naughty bits are naughty bits, and that's special -- unless they're seriously diseased or hugely lopsided or something, men will just hyperventilate! Go for it. But watch out for that manager. :-)

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    That made me smile.

    naughty bits. Hooray.
    You only live once. (Don't know who said it but I think it all the time.)

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    Well I did it. Last night was my first night.
    Thank god for the girls there who were very very nice and helpful. I need to read the hustle hut.
    Also referred several women to the site so we shall see if we get some new posters from the UK.
    Great group of people there.
    You only live once. (Don't know who said it but I think it all the time.)

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