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    I dunno why this bugs me, but somehow it does. Once in a while, I'll be hanging out with people (usually slightly younger than my 21 years), and they'll mention that they were "playing stripper." Example: "Yeah, once, in high school, my best friend and I put on a lingerie review for the all of our guy friends, stripteased for them, and gave them all lapdances." Am I looking down on them as "dirty" like other catty girls do, or am I annoyed because I've actually been in the business, so I see their actions the same way a war veteran sees kids playing with toy guns? Maybe it bugs me off because I used to be that way, naive and unaware of how it really was.

    I'm not letting it get to me or anything, I'm just wondering why I feel a bit annoyed when someone mentions that they were playing stripper. Do any of you feel the same way?

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    Most definitely. I'm one of those double standard strippers. While it was good for me, I'd probably want to lock my daughter in the house if she wanted to do it.

    Same way I feel when I see a brand new 18 yr old. I don't feel catty but it definitely gets my protective side up.

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    Yea I see lots of girls on myspace that are wannabe strippers and I think "you have no idea whats its like". You think you know but you have no idea. hehe Never let it get to me I just know they are in for a big surprise.
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    Well, it probably has a lot to do with me thinking, "If this girl was really in a strip club, she'd be prissing out and wouldn't be able to to stand it for 5 minutes." I think that they're mostly doing it for sexy shock value, as they're too naive to know how strippers really have it. They think that all guys will be as innocent and awkward as their teen boyfriends who won't do anything more than blush, or that not all guys will make you feel like a sex object in a good way.

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    So then KrazyJane, it looks like you are feeling protective, not catty, because you actually worry about them.

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    I guess... but then again, this is the same kind of annoyance I feel when dumb, naive, histrionic girls declare their "bisexuality." You know, the "bisexuality" that started when they were at a bar and all the guys were yelling, "make out, make out!" and you have to remind tham that they like girls too (Omigod, those guys are sooooo hot. Uh, aren't you bisexual? Oh yeah... well, that girl is sooo hot and I'd sooo fuck her). This "bisexuality" is prevalent in teen girls who want to be histrionic and PC and love the attention they get from guys when they claim to like girls. Part of bisexuality is being ATTRACTED to both sexes, which they seem to be missing.

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    Very true. I think it takes away from true bisexuality and actually adds to the stigma of it when these girls act this way. Making out with the same sex is hardly the same as being attracted to it.

    Histrionics are part of being a young girl. So I've learned to just shake my head and walk away knowing they will grow up to be just as jaded as the rest of us someday!

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    Doesnt bother me none if they want to pretend... or if they decide to dance... its their choice and they'll soon learn its not thousands of dollars a night to swing on a pole... or let them have some fun... as long as theure not underage and giving friends dances who really cares?

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    My parents and their friends took us (the kiddies) to Vegas when I was 8. We saw topless dancing girls if I remember correctly (in advertisements all over if not on stage), and after that we would play 'stripper' in the basement. I would dance around the iron pole they had and fake lap dances. How the hell that stuff got in my little head, I don't know...These games went on until we were around thirteen. We also used to to 'fake drink' and play bartender with my parents' bar. Kiddies love the imitation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DylanAngel
    Histrionics are part of being a young girl. So I've learned to just shake my head and walk away knowing they will grow up to be just as jaded as the rest of us someday!
    Oh yeah... damn, I'm forgetting what it's like to be young. My inner child is dying! Soon, I'm going to be such an unsympathetic, unempathetic square!

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    That kind of crap is annoying to me because those same lil twats will look down their noses at us because we do it for money

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    i say if you're not down with it don't play with it.

    if you have a problem with strippers...don't pretend to be one, even for your 'friends'. if you have a problem with gay girls (true bi and les women), or think we're disgusting...then don't pretend to be one just to get attention. pretenders and hypocrites get on my damn nerves.

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    we shouldn't let kids play doctor either?...if they dont want to be a doctor?

    My girlfriend isnt a stripper...but if she wanted to give me a lapdance...should I say no?

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    ^^ I didn't say no A.
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    I agree it's pretty fucking annoying, for the same reason that B mentioned. It bugs me when anyone *plays* anything, though.

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    I don't see it as wrong. It's not their fault if they're naive. I do have a problem with it if they actually do look down on the real thing, and say "but I'd never do that". Like "oh it was just playing stripper I'd never do that, that's nasty" or "oh we were just making out, I'm not really like that".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    That kind of crap is annoying to me because those same lil twats will look down their noses at us because we do it for money
    Bulls-eye!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AinNY
    we shouldn't let kids play doctor either?...if they dont want to be a doctor?

    My girlfriend isnt a stripper...but if she wanted to give me a lapdance...should I say no?
    It's not because they're not strippers. It's because they want to think they're above strippers

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    It's not because they're not strippers. It's because they want to think they're above strippers
    It's the same principle of teen girls considering themselves to be virgins despite that they've given and received oral sex. They assume that a "lite" version = guilt free. If they feel the need to prove that it's not so bad, they find other things to compare themselves against, such as people who have really had sex or real strippers.

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    Here's another idea to consider... "these ignorant girls have no idea what is going on; they dont even realize they need me (not me, you) as a mentor, after all I've (not I, you) gone thru it all and I (not I, you) know they are playing with fire."

    Anyhow, aren't they just playing around with that idea (since they are getting used to sex being fun), and then, before anyone remarks about how catty that 'sex worker' would be for themselves, the kids just downgrade the whole idea? You know how kids are, not taking things very seriously.
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    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    ^Which equates with my analogy of war veterans who see kids playing with toy guns.

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    Just saw a King of Queens earlier where Doug saw women talking a pole dancing class at the local gym and thought it would be a good idea if Carrie, his wife would learn some tricks and installed a pole in the bedroom. Strangely enough Doug was better at it then she was. Years of being an audience member I suppose. It was one of the funnier episodes involving people "playing stripper" I have ever seen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Krazyjane
    It's the same principle of teen girls considering themselves to be virgins despite that they've given and received oral sex. They assume that a "lite" version = guilt free.
    Don't get me started. Too late . Those girls who have sex like 2 million times but they play up the fact that it was the same boyfriend, so a girl who supposedly did some random guy once is a total skank. Excuses excuses.
    No, try girls who look at porn and but "it's for their wedding night so they can know what to expect"??? WTF? I mean people actually try to pull this. Grown women too. I mean grown. Oh yeah, this little girl once too like age 10, she saw the movie Showgirls, because hey it's just a regular old movie. Suuure, that's why you saw it. I mean you just randomly picked it, it was between that and Flubber. You didn't even notice any showgirls IN it. Fess up trick, I says to her, no I didn't but I coulda

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    I played stripper all the time before I did it. Its no big deal. Ya'll are getting all bent out of shape about it. Now that I'm not dancing, I guess I'll have to "play" stripper again. Hell I did it with friends this weekend already, I'll give any girl a lapdance in the right environment, lol!

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    while I haven't been in the stripper business long enough to really get jaded on it, I've been a dominatrix for quite a while. I know it irritates me sometimes when girls 'play domme' and say they are so badass and knowledgeable about BDSM when they have no clue what they are doing and could possibly hurt someone out of ignorance. So in that case, I guess I would be more on the protective side (as you somewhat admitted to at some point in this thread).

    I play porn star sometimes with my boyfriend, although I wouldn't consider actually getting paid to fuck anyone but him on camera. I suppose it's all in fun with these girls. So long as they don't make a mockery of it or no one gets hurt, it's alright by me. If these boyfriends of theirs are getting off on it and the girls enjoy it, I just see it as an improvement on the sex lives of the population.

    Fucked up story:
    Christina Aguilera (sp?) once came into our club (before I worked there) and one of the dancers was a huge fan of hers. Because it was so crowded that night, it was difficult getting some room to do lap dances on the VIP room couches. The girl very politely asked Christina if she could move over a little bit and give her some room to make money. I guess Christina didn't like to be asked to move (or was jealous?) and said to the girl, "how does it feel to be a whore?".
    I find it ironic that Christina shows more ass in her one video than our dancers normally do!!
    This is a chick who makes money being sexy, and then degrading others for doing the same.

    Sometimes there is a double standard with these girls. We are all just trying to be appreciated, and some of us are trying to make money.

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