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    I have seen tons of asian girls with white guy couples, but even in this day and age it is still relatively rare to see an asian guy/white girl coupling. Just wondering how the ladies on the site view asian dudes as possible dating partners...

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    I went out with a Korean guy when I was in high school. He was adopted by white parents when he was a baby, and we had a great relationship. After we broke up I went out with another Asian guy who had Asian parents, and our relationship only lasted a few weeks. He didn't treat me well at all. I don't know if it was just him, or if it was the way he was raised, but it really sucked. I agree that it is more common to see white guys with asian girls than white girls with asian guys, but I'm not sure why.

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    My partner is Singaporean, his a hottie, he grew up ova there and moved here 3 years ago, i met him through my hobbies and we grew to love each other from there. Some asian guys are rude and obnoxious but i guess you can say that about all races and cultures.

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    I like Asian guys. Never dated them, though, because I never met any in school believe it or not. My schools weren't the most diverse in the world. For example, we had 2 black guys. Two, and they were brothers. Everyone else was white. I didn't have good experiences with Asian guys when I danced though :/. I did had a major crush on "Ioki" from "21 Jump Street". I totally wasn't into Johnny Depp. It was all about Dustin (Nguyen). He was HOT!

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    I like Asian guys, and I find the Asian-Canadian young guys among my favourite to dance for. Or that's what my favourite regular is anyway. He's cute, polite, and spends. Just how I like them. I would definitely date an Asian guy, but I haven't before. I just haven't dated much at all, frankly.

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    I am dating an asian man - pakistani, and we have been together for over 4 years now and his parents dont know about us. He thinks that his parents might not approve of our relationship, I get set knowing our future is held in his parents hands really gets me upset sometimes. But I just take each day as it comes. I really hope we can live together and the get married. I wish I could see my future,hehe.
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    I dated a Chinese guy. He was nice, it was fun, but it just didn't work out. I don't have anything against Asian guys or anything. I don't succumb to the stereotype of Asian guys being pansies. I dunno why I haven't dated more Asian guys. I think that one reason is that a lot of the ones with traditional families put immense pressure on their sons to "keep the bloodline pure." I'm half-Japanese, and my ex's grandpa was in Nanjing when the Japanese massacred it. If his grandpa found out, he'd have a massive heart attack. Plus, his mom is always trying to hook him up with other Hong Kong girls. I guess another reason is that Asians are sociologically much more gregarious. On campus, if you see one Asian guy, you see 5 others with him, making it harder to talk to him in the first place. Plus, there's not a huge Japanese population where I live.

    The reason why WM/AF couplings is because it's the most commonly accepted biracial couple, plus there are so many stupid Asiaphiles out there who see us as arm candy. That's why I'm so happy to see AM/WF couples.

    I'm half-Japanese, and people are always asking why I've dated mostly white guys. Mind you, these inquisitors are mostly the same people who still use the word "Oriental" (non-PC and old-fashioned in America, simlilar to "Negro" or "Colored"). They're not racist or anything, they're older people who are naive about Asians and think that we're all alike. I tell them, "Uh, what am I supposed to do, go up to them and say hey, you're Asian. I'm Asian too!" I don't even look Asian, plus I grew up 100% red blooded American girl. People say, "But you're Asian too..." I'm not Asian in the Asian sense. In Japan, China, Thailand, etc, ethnicity = nationality. I'm whitewashed, genetically and culturally. I respond, "You have German blood in you, but I don't see you wearing leiderhosen, eating bratwurst, and celebrating Oktoberfest."

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    I also like Asian men (and the penis size thing is a total myth, by the way). There are certain silly sterotypes that prevail about Asian men - that they're sexless, that they're geeky tech types. I think the media and Hollywood liked to perpetuate this stereotype for a long time - remember Long Duk Dong in 16 Candles? Could it have been a form of retribution/revenge for the fact that up until the Gulf War, all of our military action took place in East Asia?

    I lived in Japan, and it's true that many men there behave more passively and are a little awkward around girls, most due to the single-sex education system. I had trouble with native Japanese men. But when it comes to Asian-Americans (or Australians, Brits, and Canadians) there's no such issue for me.

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    Oh, one more reason that I haven't gone for more Asian men: if they're foreign born, they might not have the best teeth, which is an automatic strike out. Dental care isn't as emphasized overseas. I refuse to kiss a guy whose breath smells like a manure pit or has brown teeth. Then again, this applies to all men, not just Asian guys.

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    I don't date Asian men because I am an atypical Asian woman.I am boisterous,very outgoing,outspoken and I am not built like a typical Asian woman.Traditional Asian men wouldn't know what to do with me.
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    I'm an amerucan badass with a cock of steel and a heart of gold and I don't know what I would do with ya Hun!

    You're like an anomolie! But in a good way!

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    My last long term boyfriend was Chinese, born in Hong Kong. His teeth are good. He wasn't always nice to me, but in 8 years anyone is bound to have their off days. I think any relationship has its down times - I really don't think it was because he was Chinese.

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    If he treats you well and is a gentleman then I tthink any guy including asian would be great to date. But the small penis thing from my experience is true. I worked in a massage place. And when the got naked, I am serious all of the east asians were tiny! Just my experience

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tigress
    But the small penis thing from my experience is true. I worked in a massage place. And when the got naked, I am serious all of the east asians were tiny! Just my experience
    maybe just flacid. I heard asian guys are growers not showers...

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    I'm half vietnamese and I like my boys so white, they're almost translucent. Just a preference. I've dated asian guys but they just don't do it for me. My mother is a funny little woman. When I was a teenager she said, **put on your best Margaret Cho for this** "no marry asian man. He try boss you around all the time. Find nice white boy, you can be boss!" Now she realizes that no man (or woman), regardless of race, can be bossier than me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by havokk_15
    maybe just flacid. I heard asian guys are growers not showers...
    No this was erotic massage the guys were hard!! But I could still have only seen the small percentage!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    I'm an amerucan badass with a cock of steel and a heart of gold and I don't know what I would do with ya Hun!

    You're like an anomolie! But in a good way!

    I swear to god tampadancer, if you correct that...innocent blood will be spilt
    lol.

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    My white mom married an Asian and had me. My American Asian cousins tend to get hitched to white girls, while my Asian on Asia family marry other Asians.

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    I went out with 3 asians in my life 2 vietnamese and a japanese. I like asian guys they are so cute. One off them grew up in Vietnam and he was only hanging out with asians so I was always with asians and I could see the difference in mentality (they want the girls to work and stuff was weird compare to my other boyfriend before that was italian), he was very very jealous but I don't think it as to do because he's asian, and I loved him so much and the sex was great. The 2 other ones were really like any white people and didn't really hang out with ohther asians.

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    Harvey, I think this is a thread for women to talk about Asian guys, not vice versa. However, I know where you are coming from. I feel an (almost) irresistible urge to share my (mostly negative) experiences as an Asian-American, but instead I'll point you to http://www.bitterasianmen.com for an eponymous point of view on this subject.

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    Wow,I can't believe there is a site devoted to that type of thing.
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    OMFG that sitre is hilarious...the tsunami song funny but messed up. ROFL....Alot of bitter people I must say. Im convinced there is a internet group for all kinds of poeple.
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    Basically, what I took away from the site was that these guys don't get enough attention from any kind of woman. Like we all haven't been there or something. You don't see me bitching about coming up white trash and having a tough time about it.

    But if it makes them feel better, I guess...
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    OK,speaking from an Asian woman,the reason why I don't date Asian men is because they don't have the charismatic personality like American men do.The pearly white all American smile,the skin tone,eye and hair color and muscle tone are all major "turn ons" for an Asian woman like myself.
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JC2006
    Harvey, I think this is a thread for women to talk about Asian guys, not vice versa. However, I know where you are coming from. I feel an (almost) irresistible urge to share my (mostly negative) experiences as an Asian-American, but instead I'll point you to for an eponymous point of view on this subject.
    Oh that is something else! They make a web site for everything these days!

    A lot of words though. I turned speech on my Apple and am listening to the web site right now.

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