I've only been retired for a few weeks and I'm having withdrawal symptoms. I feel like I have no way to express my sexuality. The fiance and I are starting to do better and I can strip for him anytime, but it's not the same.
I have danced on and off for many years. I even had a break of 3 years at one time. I guess it's just that I know I'm really done that is getting to me.
My question is...for those of you who have truly retired for good? How do you deal with this? I feel so not sexy anymore! Smart and confident with the impending new job, yes, but not sexy!
Everytime I hear a cool song, I just want to jump up somewhere and start swaying. My clubs were heartbroken that I was leaving for good. Maybe I should just visit once in awhile and jump up for old time's sake, dunno.
AAAHHHHHH....just feeling blah and not in tune with myself...is this making sense?



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). However, that is only get harder, and it becomes more and more a part of yourself. It isn't healthy and it isn't real, and it never gets easier. So I wouldn't go dance as a hobby. I would try to embrace your sexuality in a more "orthodox" way - buy some sexy underwear and some seamed stockings, right? It's hard to get used to, and you will likely always remember those moments I like to call "rock star moments" - when you just feel so tough and euphoric. But it is better to remember them with nostalgia than stay in the business until it completely subsumes your self-esteem and self-worth, and letting it sink you.
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