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    Hey, this is my first post but I just had to rant and rave to a group of women that know what I'm taking about...

    I just started working as a massage girl (the neck kind) at a strip club. I also do lapdances for private stags. Anyway, on my third shift at the club (the other shifts were great, made great cash and had fun), I had the most horrible night ever. First off, I saw someone that I knew who would tell a good friend that I was working there. Then, as I was giving a massage to someone, this group of well-groomed, seemingly, 40 year olds began to throw quarters and loonies at my back, attempting to make them stick to my sweaty bare back.

    All this was inititiated by the only women at the table. As I kept on turning around, confused (the coins really hurt when they hit). Anyway, after I figured out who it was, I took the loonie from my back and asked "Is that absolutely necessary? That really hurt and was rude."

    Being new to the business, I have almost gotten over trying to get men to stop touching me. But this is unacceptable! It's such a shock. Wouldn't they be offended if I went into their office and started to throw coins at them!

    I'm usually in a school environment. With people respecting my opinions and asking me questions. I try to bring that side of me to the club. Make the custys realize that I am more than a cup size.

    Well, the night ended with someone sitting with their chair on my foot. I made shitty money and left in a even shittier mood.

    How do I go back?

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    You should've told the bouncer about this. Someone throwing coins at your back is considered assault, plain and simple. Even get the police involved.

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    Yeah if it happens again, definetely tell someone.... No matter what job you do, whether you work in a strip club, a law office, a hospital, or a school.... you should not put up with being physically hurt while you are at work.... Just go to work tomorrow and do your job, and if anything happens again, let management or a bouncer know about it...

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    That's AWFUL! Plain and simple, and such a reflection on THEM. I would almost toy with the idea of (if said incident happened again, which it probably won't) of having some rolls of coins in your possesion, and fling them back at the "patrons"! --Yes, I know this is fighting fire with fire and really NOT adviseable...but winging a big roll of coins in their general direction with the statement of "gee, here's a return on your investment mf's!" would be kinda funny...if just to think about!
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    It's despicable that guys think they can act like this and get away with it. I am really sorry it happened to you. And as the others said don't be intimidated by these numbskulls, go back there and do your job and don't put up with that kind of behavior. Get them kicked out or something.

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    This horrible...Did you say that it was a woman customer throwing the coins?They can be much worse than the guys.It seems like they want to degrate us as much as possible to make themselves look better in front of the men they're with.

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    Thanks for the encouagement ladies! Yeah, sometimes the women are more horrible than the men. It was a Friday night and there were tons of ladies at the club. They kept on giving us all dirty looks. I used to go to Strip clubs all the time, even by myself, and was always super nice and tipped well. Usually we can control the men, but the women are unstoppable!

    And they mess with our money. Men never want anything to do with us when their girlfriends are breathing down their necks! LOL.

    Yeah, next time I'll go the bouncer. Hadn't really thought about it at the time. But thats why they are there!

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    They were complete jerks, and deserve the bum's rush at minimum. As kids surely they threw rocks at dogs from the safety of the other side of the fence. Mean people suck, to borrow the cliche. They only did it because they thought they could get away with it and that you were powerless, but you know the bouncers and they don't.

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    I had another dancer egging her male friends on to throw quarters at me when I was dancing onstage- they did, but missed me. So I went to my cashbox on the floor & opened it and made as if I grabbed something out of it. They stopped. (Everyone knew I carried all kinds of stuff in there..LOL)
    If it was a random woman, tell management. If it was a woman that works with you, corner her in the back. Heh.

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    Ok first,I've got to know, what is a massage girl? And what is a private stag, a customer? I have never heard of massage girls being in strip clubs, I am guessing you must be overseas. Is what you do different then the other girls in the club? Sorry, I am curious!

    A couple of times I have had a quarter or two tossed at me from some drunken frat guy, I usually turn around and throw it back. Just don't let them get you done.

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    I've gotten massages in lieu of dances from LMT's before at clubs but it was never offered as a service by the club they were just OK with girls doing it...actually liked it quite a bit more than dances because I leave feeling relaxed and satisfied rather than worked up and hornier than hell. What's a "loonie"?

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    The club I worked at in Denver has a massage/shoeshine girl for the customers most nights if not every night. They use one of those fold up portable massage chairs. They almost always seemed like they were busy so I assume the do ok. It was a great perk to have them around for those days I was sore and cranky at the end of a shift. A quick massage always made me go home with a smile . There are even customers who buy them for dancers on occasion.

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    A loonie is a canadian dollar coin.

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    This is why we don't get tipped much either, because it is frankly degrading to have coins tossed at us on stage (even if the coins are one and two dollars). Are you working out west? Alberta or BC? Coin tossing is more common there. I would not work with that crap going on. I would ask for them to be thrown out.

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    As Molly said the coin tossing thing is fairly common in Alberta.
    I think it developed as a result of some old laws that required (liquor serving establishments to only have stage dancers).
    So after their set girls will walk around with rolled up posters of themselves(like a funnel) and have the guys try and pitch loonies and toonies into them, if they succeed they throw them the poster.

    Its was a whole different system out there, girls were usually scheduled to do 3 or 4 shows a day, no table or lap dancing so the primary way to make money was this pitching coin things....

    Im not judging but its not for me ...the coins are fairly heavy and I think they must hurt if they hit the girls.


    Im sorry these fools ruined your evening Darling, I agree next time signal the bouncer, hopefully they will care whats going on and embarass or boot these fools out.
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    Ummm actually they don't throw coins in BC. At all. Ever. I'm from Vancouver and I've danced everywhere from Vancouver to Winnipeg and all points in between and north. Coin tossing is predominant in Alberta so if you're dancing somewhere else in Canada chances are those guys might have been from Alberta and were trying to pay you a compliment. All you really need to do is ask "Hey are you guys from Alberta? Well actually we don't do that out here but thanks for the thought!" And ya know what? It's no joke. I use to walk off stage with $150 in loonies and twonies in Alberta. Are you guys saying you'd turn that down? Come on now! This is something that American girls aren't gonna understand unless they've been there and actually seen how it's done. FYI most Canadian strip clubs have "massage girls" who do back rubs for $10 or $20 a song. And also FYI... Canada isn't overseas it's actually just north of you and no we are not all French.
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    From my own experience, being hit with the coins (sometimes you set up for custys to throw coins at your tummy to knock off a coin you already have there.. at least thats what I did - no promo yet) wasn't painful. And its awesome for tips cause they just keep tossing and tossing them. They don't really aim for the head. Then again, that's just my experience, but the girls warned me to keep my mouth shut incase someone tried to knock a tooth out. so maybe it can get ugly?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Foxey
    And also FYI... Canada isn't overseas it's actually just north of you and no we are not all French.
    Well, that is what I get for assuming a loonie was a English thing. But for the record, I am well aware that Canada is to the north of me and that you are not all French.

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    Sorry about the lonnie thing. Just part of my "Canadian" lingo or something...LOL. Thanks, everyone for being so encouraging. Went back to work tonight and had a great time. It's just the Friday crowd that sucks!

    Anyway, I didn't know that they did the loonie coin toss in Alberta. I'm from BC and have NEVER seen that. Regardless, it was a menacing throw not to tip me, I'm sure. Apparently, they thought that I was some low class creature from the bottom of the sea!

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    OH you're so sweet. LOL. Some people are just stupid! In fact, I just remembered- one of my ex-guy friends got drunk and was throwing coins at a stripper.....I wasn't there but he told me after the fact & I said, What the heck! That was messed up! (I think he was upset he met me at my job & was taking it out on someone else....I would have been perfect otherwise to him : p )

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