Hi
Im currently working on my degree down at bournemouth (South West England), studying product Design. Today i was talking to my girlfriend, who annoced that she is planning to become a sripper at the new FYEO in Croydon(South London). Both of us live there, me in Purley and she lives in Selsdon. We went through school together and have now been properly dating for a couple of years, both of us seem confident about the future and could easily see us spending the rest of our lives together!
But due to this whole stripping issue??? Im so scared about what could happen to us and just want to find out what the industry is all about and what everyone else thinks?
Im just worried that she is downgrading her self (no disrespect to any dancers out there)?
Im worried our relationship could get damaged?
Im worried about what other men will think of her?
Im worried about her safty?
Im worried about drugs?
There are soo many things that i am worried about, regarding her becoming a dancer. Could anyone reply to this and say what they think or any tips to how i should approach this issue?
Currently she does not want to talk about this whole thing becasue she does not want me to get annoyed at her. But its making it worse becasue i need to clear my mind of everything that is worring me.
Thanks a lot
Ian
PS. if she is confident that this is wht she wants to do then i would respect her decision and support her all the way, its just im woriied about what might happen thats all!


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