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    Those in a relationship

    Just curious....

    How long have you been with your SO?

    I've never been in a long term relationship(due to the types i've been with in the past & my age too, 24). Never made it close to 6 months. The one i'm in now has been the longest so far(10 months) & i'm very happy. I know ten months sounds like nothing too, lol. It has it's ups and downs. But I hope it lasts forever....

    *sorry to make some of you barf*

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    Well...let's see. I have to travel all the way back to...well...jr. high!

    Mox and I got together at the end of 8th grade...

    Almost 7 years later, we're still together!

    We're also 3 months married, too!

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    Hubby and I have been together for 5½ years. 3½ of those, we've been married. I've always had long relationships though. Dated 2 guys (seriously and long-term, that is) through school. Married the first Husband after we'd been together a year, and that one lasted 7 years.

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    As of January 19th Dea and I will have been together 10yrs
    As of july 6th we will have been married 10 yrs

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    My hunny and I have been together just over two years... we're moving in together in Feb I met him when I had sworn off men... wanted nothing to do with relationships. So I guess I lucked out.
    Blade thats awesome you n Dea were able to get married so soon and be together this long!

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    Before I met my girlfriend I think my longest relationship had been like four months... hell, the longest time I'd lived in one state before I came here was seven months! We've been together for a year now, and I love it but it's soooo weird.



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    [QUOTE=Cally]I met him when I had sworn off men... wanted nothing to do with relationships. So I guess I lucked out.[QUOTE]

    Same for me.

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    We met almost two years ago while I was married (the marriage lasted a little over 4 years). Crazy relationship twists due to my marriage ending, a rather intense relationship he began with someone else around the same time he met me and which continued after I moved in with him, and other assorted drama ensued for the first year or so. Around the beginning of 2005 we buckled down, then broke up in August, and got back together again with a better relationship about a month after that. So...... hard to say, it depends on what counts and what doesn't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena
    Before I met my girlfriend I think my longest relationship had been like four months... hell, the longest time I'd lived in one state before I came here was seven months! We've been together for a year now, and I love it but it's soooo weird.
    Oh, I know how you feel about the weird part. This is what made me ask.
    It's weird on how you feel something so strong for someone, and the same in return back. Like this person is not only your lover, but your best friend. never saw other guys like that before. Always had shit/short relationships.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    We met almost two years ago while I was married (the marriage lasted a little over 4 years). Crazy relationship twists due to my marriage ending, a rather intense relationship he began with someone else around the same time he met me and which continued after I moved in with him, and other assorted drama ensued for the first year or so. Around the beginning of 2005 we buckled down, then broke up in August, and got back together again with a better relationship about a month after that. So...... hard to say, it depends on what counts and what doesn't.
    I had to read this twice, lol.

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    LOL! Believe it or not, that's the simplified version.

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    Three years now.
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    Paige: best three years of my life.

    *Smooch*

    But...you think you could loosen the hand straps so I can type? My pee pee is getting a callous. <Spelling?>
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    Hey, you're the one who wouldn't let me encase it in wax. Deal with it.
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    I've been with my s/o for 6 years. 10/9/99 first date, married 10/31/99, and we're still burning strong.
    Pay attention to your dreams, if you dream of them, then their in your head good, and there is a hi chance of compatability.
    It also seems that you have to NOT want it to get it. I'd sworn off of men when I met him, and was convinced I'd find myself a cute lil fem dike. Funny how things work.
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    Well me and my honey have been married going on 19yrs -( or 35 pounds ago ) ohh my how the time goes by . Its been great - and its been work at times - the key is it takes a lot of work to keep it going by both partners .

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    together for 7 and 1/2 , married for 4 and 1/2...... happily..... very

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    Got you all beat by quite a bit, but I'd prefer that you use your imagination.

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    Broke up a 5 yo relationship about 3 months ago. It has been my longest (of too many)

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    I've been with my husband for a bit over 7 years.. been married 6 months. We started dating in high school (I was 15 he was 17) and just never stopped.
    I don't feel myself today
    Just a figure in a big monopoly game
    Struggle is the price you pay
    You get just enough just to give it away
    I'm sinking but I'm floating away
    Throw me a line so I can anchor my pain
    The fabric is about to fray




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    My husband first saw me wehn we wer ein Junior high . . . I did not know he existed (seriously!) in 1981.

    I met him in 1986, working at Wendy's. We became best friends.

    Lost touch with him in 1990 or 1991, about the time I joined the Army.

    Got back in touch in 1998.

    Started dating in 1999.

    Got pregnant in 2000. Moved in together in 2000. Kid born in 2001.

    Married in 2002.

    So like Yekfah pointed out, it all depends on whay you count and what you don't.


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    Been together for 8.5 years, and married for 5.5 years.

    There are moments, but like anything else in life if you get lazy or neglectful there will be a price to pay later. We are very happy together and couldn't imagine life any other way.


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    Just the other day was mine & my boyfirends 1 year anniversary. Hes the greatest man, i love him to death

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    My partners have been with each other for 11 years. I've been with them for a year and a half. Couldn't be happier. Okay, that's not true. I could be happier if we were all zillionnaires. :-)

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    My last (and only) long term relationship lasted for 3.5 years. We broke up shortly after our 3 year anniversary... then got back together for a short period before breaking up permanently. I'm glad it ended as it wasn't meant to last. It served its purpose: teaching me what I want in a SO.

    ATM I havn't really been in any real relationships. I do not NEED one however I wouldn't mind one as that last long term relationship was near 5-6 years ago.... so I'm not necessarily "on the hunt" even tho' I'm open to it happening if it happens.


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