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    When anyone first started stripping, we're they nervous about like guys just gawking at you and making obscene jestures and what not? Also, what did anyone do that made it easier? Was anyone a little nervous about dancing topless in front of strangers?

    How long did it take before you really got in to it and just let go?

    Also, does anyone have any husting tips?

    Also, when people turn you down for a lap dance are they really mean about it?
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    Default Re: what type of mindset should i have?

    I don't typically recommend it but I had a drink or two to help with stage fright. Once, I started making money I didn't care any more. It's a good thing if guys are looking that means they are interested. I don't mind gawking as long as they are tipping. Of course there are those few that will look and won't tip at all. Housemom, if you have one, should help you. Ask the other girls for advice too because each club is different. However, I wouldn't recommend getting too close to any of your competition. If I make a lot of money I can really get into it or if I actually like the guy. I don't meet many I like though. But I tend to be distrusting in general. Good luck, hope you make a lot of money.

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    My first time I was so nervous. I work in a small club, and when it was my turn to go on stage for the first time, all the girls cheered for me. I was shaking as I was walking up there, but as soon as the music started, I was fine. I was still kinda nervous, but one of the other girls sat by the stage and told me when to take my top off, when to take my bottoms off, and she kind of gave me tips while I was up there, so that was cool. Just go in it thinking "Ok tonight I'm gonna make some money and have a lot of fun."

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    I could be very wrong, but it sounds like you've never been inside a strip club. I suggest visiting one with a good friend of yours and seeing what it's like and how the customers act. It's not as bad as you think. Bring some money for stage tipping and go ahead and buy a lap dance so you can see what it's like.

    You'll want the guys to look interested. It's part of how you make your money--if you can't get them interested, how can you sell them a lapdance or get stage tips?

    There ARE gross guys in this business, but I think you'll find that they represent a much smaller percentage of the guys that frequent strip clubs than you think.

    Visit the Hustle Hut and dig into some of the older links too to find out tips about hustling. But most of your homework now will be finding out if this is really something you want to do or not. For me to find out, I had to just do it, and I discovered it's something I really enjoy doing. Perhaps you'll have a similar experience, perhaps not. Good luck!!
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    I was totally unprepaired for guys asking me out 24/7, trying to grope me and offering me 100 for sex in a scummy hotel room. (gee thanks 100 to sleep with you...no need to win the lottery now!) lol.

    It took me until the 2nd time dancing to totally feel good and confident in my own self and skin. The 11th month...some its faster.

    The girls at my 1st club were real nice to me b/c I never walked into a SC until I wanted to work there. Totally went at it the wrong way. Those 'white night' customers where nice until I realized what they wanted.

    Oh my legs shook for the 1st month every single time I was on stage. My moves were not liquid either..sorta fumbling. Looking at customers while on stage made me nervous ALOT. I felt like "youre looking at me naked, I dont even know you, youre looking at my cooch"..oh god but after I let go and had fun I felt very differently.

    Hustling tips are all in the hustle hut hun. A plethora of information there. We were all new once..things change. I just know its about money and I have real goals I can reach now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by katrina428

    Also, when people turn you down for a lap dance are they really mean about it?
    I've probably been pretty lucky so far but I haven't had anyone turn me down for a dance and be mean about it. I've been dancing for 2 months and only working 1-3 nights a week though.

    I just try to act very sweet and understanding if they turn me down. I usually say something like "Well that's alright sweety, enjoy the rest of the night" which I think helps make any rude comments really unnecessary.

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    Quote Originally Posted by katrina428
    When anyone first started stripping, we're they nervous about like guys just gawking at you and making obscene jestures and what not? Also, what did anyone do that made it easier? Was anyone a little nervous about dancing topless in front of strangers?
    How long did it take before you really got in to it and just let go?
    *this was immediate for me. Stage fright lasted until I actually got on stage, then I was fine.
    Also, does anyone have any husting tips?
    *Hustle Hut, or Dancer Wealth Seminar.

    Also, when people turn you down for a lap dance are they really mean about it?
    *Sometimes, but usually not. Most guys are pretty nice if they don't want a dance. It is when they want one that they get weird.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Default Re: what type of mindset should i have?

    don't be nervous ! Have a couple of drinks but don't get wasted,it will take the edge off. a glass of wine or two will do it. good luck

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