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    Default I Just Want To Die,Or At Least Be In a Comatosed State.

    My ex-husband is back in town from a one year deployment in Japan.He showed up at my apartment today with Starbucks and a smile.We were just sitting around talking about old times and he was playing with the dogs while he was here.The conversation we were having was extremely smooth and pleasant and it reminded me of the old days of being married to each other.The thing is,I REALLY miss that.All the old feelings I have for him that I thought I buried,resurfaced and all I wanted to do was hug him and never let go.I am still so in love with him.I still want to be with him.The brief time he spent here at my place today,filled the void in my life for the duration of his visit.After he left,I felt empty again.He's about to move to North Carolina for his next duty station.What am I going to do?????I don't want to let him out of my life,just so I will kick myself 10,15,20 years down the road.I REALLY miss him.I am crying as I am typing this right now.
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    Default Re: I Just Want To Die,Or At Least Be In a Comatosed State.

    Awwww babe I'm sorry for you. I don't really have much advice but I hope you feel better soon. ::hugs::

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    Feel glad you have men in your life worth talking to. Most of my exes deserve hexes.

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    Go with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!! The true love of your life will only come once.
    "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."

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    My mom and dad got along much better when they were "seperated." For people who are seperated they sure see a lot of each other!

    Maybe your relationship needs to work that way too?

    I know all about loving someone you simply cannot live with!

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    Default Re: I Just Want To Die,Or At Least Be In a Comatosed State.

    Maybe she's the one.
    And maybe you are too lonely right now.

    Anyhow, always choose someone you can realy talk to, be it b/f, husband, whatever.
    Otherwise, it's MadMaxine's rant:

    Feel glad you have men in your life worth talking to

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    Aww hunny I understand. I'd probably feel the same if I came in contact with the guy I recently ended things with.Good thing he's upstate...

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    I wish I had advice for you but I know how you feel. I moved out from living with my bf and part of me totally wants to break up with him completely but part of me things I really shouldn't so I'm still just in limbo. This has been going on a while too. Why did you break up with him in the first place? Relationships are so hard. I always hear people say you just KNOW when you have the right one but what if you never really know?

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    We got divorced because he's in the military and he's gone too much.The thing is,I know in my heart he is the one man that has never had eyes for another woman.I feel 100% comfortable with him in that aspect.I know I was in his heart 100% also.You can't find that just anywhere.
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    Yeah, you can't find that just anywhere. My bf is so devoted to me and would do anything he could for me and that is why I stay. He is a truly kind and sweet person and that is hard to find.

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    *sigh* So very true.I will talk to him in a few days.
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    Default Re: I Just Want To Die,Or At Least Be In a Comatosed State.

    How about telling him "I miss you". It's the truth. And he may very well be missing you, too. It sounds like you had something special enough to maintain loving feelings even after the marriage ended---so why wouldn't you be honest about how you are feeling? Do you really want to wonder "What if" if you don't act on this now? Plus, the nice thing about "I miss you" is that you aren't asking anything of him--you are telling him what is in your heart without ambushing him with all of your feelings(for now, anyway!)

    Make a dinner date, spend some time with him before he leaves---have some wine, talk about old times. If anything is going to be rekindled, it will start there. Good luck! )

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    Thanks,sweetie.I will do just that.
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    OTB, you say you guys broke up because he was gone too much. I know that being apart can be tough on a relationship but wouldn't it be better to have a few moments of wonderful as opposed to a lifetime of nothing special?

    His being away won't be forever...sooner or later he'll settle down in one place. Don't settle for second best. If this is your true love , GO FOR IT! Too much unhappines in the world. Take your happiness and run with it sweetie.

    Much luck to the both of you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by DylanAngel
    OTB, you say you guys broke up because he was gone too much. I know that being apart can be tough on a relationship but wouldn't it be better to have a few moments of wonderful as opposed to a lifetime of nothing special?

    His being away won't be forever...sooner or later he'll settle down in one place. Don't settle for second best. If this is your true love , GO FOR IT! Too much unhappines in the world. Take your happiness and run with it sweetie.

    Much luck to the both of you!
    Thanks DA,for confirming what my beliefs are.

    *HUGS* to you.
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    Tell him how you feel, OTB. Can't hurt, and if you decide to get married, call me. I am now a minister of some type. I sent $29.95 to the Pacific Universal Life Church in San Luis Obispo, Ca, and I got my certificate in the mail today. I feel a rapture coming on.
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    yeah, spill it

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    Quote Originally Posted by lwtex52
    Tell him how you feel, OTB. Can't hurt, and if you decide to get married, call me. I am now a minister of some type. I sent $29.95 to the Pacific Universal Life Church in San Luis Obispo, Ca, and I got my certificate in the mail today. I feel a rapture coming on.
    Ya know,I might take you up on that.
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    Tell him how you feel, OTB. Can't hurt, and if you decide to get married, call me. I am now a minister of some type. I sent $29.95 to the Pacific Universal Life Church in San Luis Obispo, Ca, and I got my certificate in the mail today. I feel a rapture coming on.
    holy shit...maybe I should become a minister too. Can you marry people and it's legal and stuff? I am a notary but I can only marry people in Florida. I wouldn't have a clue how to do it though if somebody asked me to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bunny
    holy shit...maybe I should become a minister too. Can you marry people and it's legal and stuff? I am a notary but I can only marry people in Florida. I wouldn't have a clue how to do it though if somebody asked me to.
    I'm researching that now. I've already written two versions of the ceremony. One is long, with organ music 12 bridesmaids and all the lords-a-leaping. The other one is:
    "Do you?"
    "I do"
    "You are"

    It takes less than thirty seconds and I'm thinking of a drive-thru window.
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    If I ever get married I'm going for the less than 30 second type wedding.

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    OTB, that's heartbreaking!! I don't know if there are mitigating circumstances that might change my view on it, but if that's the jist of the story (ie no badness between you, like cheating or control issues or whatever). then I hope you guys can get back together!
    Too cute.

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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlett_vancouver
    OTB, that's heartbreaking!! I don't know if there are mitigating circumstances that might change my view on it, but if that's the jist of the story (ie no badness between you, like cheating or control issues or whatever). then I hope you guys can get back together!
    Too cute.
    Nope,no cheating or anything else that can't be handled.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bunny
    If I ever get married I'm going for the less than 30 second type wedding.
    I have to say that I think that you should have to fill out as much paperwork to get into a marriage as you do to get out of one and that there should be as long a waiting period for it to be final.

    OTB, do what's best for you, but don't rush it. I mean, you can if you want to, but, as I recall, you didn't make the divorce decision lightly. So, be sure of what you want.

    At least we'll have always had....ummm.....ummm.....

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    Don't let love get away!

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