Dancers don't like it when customers ask them out for dates while they're working at the club so let me ask you this. Where do you go to meet men for dating? Are singles bars where you like to go? Do you prefer to be introduced to friends of friends at parties or with blind dates? What alternatives are there?
The impression I get from reading personals ads that women are tired of singles bars, because men who play games (players) prowl there and hit on women who are looking for relationships but are instead hounded by men looking for casual sex.
The impression I get from married people and people in relationships is that there doesn't seem to be much of a pattern for the circumstances of their acquaintance except that it happened when they were young (high school to early 20's).
Maybe this is the wrong place to ask, but I've tried on-line romance and love forums. There doesn't seem to be any reliable information on how to find a partner for a new relationship or solve any problems with your relationship there. The reason I ask this question here is because this forum seems to be one of a few places on the Internet where women talk forthrightly about themselves.
For the record, I am a single man in his mid 30's. I was shy growing up and didn't date much when I was younger. I don't meet many new people at work. The people I know my age are busy raising families so the people I hang out with are either much older or much younger than me.
I started going to strip clubs a few years ago to fill a void in my life; I am sure many of you know my type from your hours at the club. Lately, I have grown weary of the clubs. Strip clubs now seem like junk food, superficially satisfying but ultimately unfulfilling and probably not very good for you in the long run. I am too old for singles bars where most of the women are 18-25ish and look for men their age, and I'm not sure where else to go or look.
I never considered strip clubs a place to find love. I have never asked a dancer at a club out on a date or other things. Where do beautiful women like you go to find men? If this is the wrong place to ask, if you don't trust my intentions, or if I don't sound like the kind of guy you would want to meet at those places, no worries.



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