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    I met Mrs FBR at a restaurant. She was a waitress struggling to find a decent paying job. I only sat in her station once but every time I went there afterwards she would swing out of her way and fill up my coffee cup. Eventually, I figured out she was interested in me That was a godawful number of years ago

    In my mind it proves a point. If you go "looking" you probably wont find anything worthwhile. But if youre just going about your life and doing normal stuff you may get a wonderful surprise

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    Here is an idea from the uppity know-it-all. Get on myspace, browse by your zip code for girls you like. Write them a friendly message asking them where the cool places to hang out are. READ THEIR PROFILE. When you actually go to the places they suggest you may bump into them. There is NO easier way to start a conversation with someone then if you've met them on myspace. I've met people in person for the first time and we'll sit and talk like we've been friends for years. It's very cool.

    Second, find a group of guys to hang out with that know what they are doing. If you hang out with a group of guys who are afraid to talk to women or hate on you every time you meet a girl, you don't need to be hanging out with those guys. Men should work together like a team when they go out. Does the term "Wingman" mean anything to you? Find the guys who get all the girls and hang out with them. Unless they are drug dealers. hehe
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    LT, ignoring your first sentence which was sarcastic and unecessary, the rest of your post had some good information. Im not in the market but I imagine the internet can be a good tool for meeting people. If youve had any bad experiences , you probably should mention that as well as a cautionary note.

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    Sorry real women dont exist...jk. Just a suggestion; know what you want before you go looking. Less meeting people you never wanted to meet. Ive dated online before..met people from online. People are just as fake as they are in person so the internet is no different. Its nice to go people shopping though
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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk
    Sorry real women dont exist...jk. Just a suggestion; know what you want before you go looking. Less meeting people you never wanted to meet. Ive dated online before..met people from online. People are just as fake as they are in person so the internet is no different. Its nice to go people shopping though
    Sometimes you don't know what you want before you find out what you don't want! I have dated women I thought I wanted and then found out that no no no I did not want that!

    Like I explained to a girl (much younger than I and confused) "People are like life savers - you don't know which flavor you like until you try them all."

    That is why I like my gal pals to be 28 or better - they have some stuff figured out by then and won't flake on you for the next "untested flavor."

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    I know I dont like pina colada or lemon. lol True...but testing can definitely wear you out.
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    Any good advice is appreciated, whether it is from women or men.

    I tried online dating long ago but had a couple bad experiences.

    I move around a lot for work -- 8 cities in the last 10 years -- so that doesn't help. If I met someone, I would make a concerted effort to find work in the same city again after a contract expired. I can't make guarantees though; if I can't find work someplace, I have to go where the jobs are.

    I thought about giving a ballroom dancing class a try, but a friend of mine tried it long ago, and she felt awkward being a single woman in the class, because there were no unattached men in her class. Mostly couples.

    The main reason I posted here was to find places where single women feel comfortable having men approach them for dating. I understand that a strip club isn't one of those places for a variety of reasons. It just seems to me like there aren't too many places like that.

    Maybe the problem is that I live in Florida, where half the people are snowbirds who migrate north for the summer and the other half are retirees.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JC2006
    The main reason I posted here was to find places where single women feel comfortable having men approach them for dating. I understand that a strip club isn't one of those places for a variety of reasons. It just seems to me like there aren't too many places like that.
    There is no such place because women wouldn't allow it. They would all herd up like the pack animals they are with the aggressive one's snapping and scratching while patrolling the outside protecting the naive one's (or the drunk ones if you're in a bar) on the inside.

    Those speed dating places... where one is forced into a one-on-one interaction - is right along the idea.

    Bars are a bad idea - women go there to get in free (while you pay) to drink free (while you pay to keep their attention) and then to giggle with their friends on their way homne about how they were hit on while you go home with maybe a phone number.

    (Yes, I have eaten to many lemons in bars.)

    Nah - you have got to be more strategic in your thinking - got to get into those social circles so when the bathroom isn't big enough for all of them - you can hit on the one left behind by the herd.

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    Just find one you like, club her, and drag her back to your cave by the hair

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deogol
    Nah - you have got to be more strategic in your thinking - got to get into those social circles so when the bathroom isn't big enough for all of them - you can hit on the one left behind by the herd.
    Like the Cheetah snatching up the slowest gazelle.

    Seems to me that if a woman is open to meeting someone, she won't be hiding in a pack - unless she only sees a bunch of hungry cats. Else she'll find a way to make herself available. If no one is, they are just out with the girls having fun among themselves. Let them.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk
    I know I dont like pina colada or lemon. lol True...but testing can definitely wear you out.
    Who the Hell doesn't like pina colada???You're a freak,LOL!!!!!

    J/K.

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    Ok confession;

    I have a wonderful time with the ballroom dance lessons and have met some very nice gals. I have even asked the last one if she would like to take the next set and be my partner, which she accepted.

    The question; who do you think it is that makes me weak in the knees and takes my breath away? She turns me to butter.

    A dancer out of town!

    I will make a trip just to see her. We see each other both in and outside the club. I think it's just a case of someone I like that happens to be a dancer, I'd feel the same if she was a grocery clerk. I'm certain she feels the same (have I ever thought this before, hum).

    Well, that's it for me, I need to book my next trip to see her now (truely).

    Rick

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    wait... confused... you said you were into a girl you met at ballroom dance class.. then said you're into this dancer... then said in and out of the club... so is she a sc dancer or a ballroom dancer? or what happened to the ballroom dance class chick? oh man, I need my head examined...

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    I'm telling you, if you dance a lot, you WILL meet women. Some will even look good and be interesting. And they like to go out. These things you will see right away. After that, you're on your own, man.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RS
    wait... confused... you said you were into a girl you met at ballroom dance class.. then said you're into this dancer... then said in and out of the club... so is she a sc dancer or a ballroom dancer? or what happened to the ballroom dance class chick? oh man, I need my head examined...
    I guess I could see a little confusion LOL.

    I've met a few nice girls at dance lessons, dated some. I asked one of the nicer ones to be my partner at the next set.

    The one that melts me or being "into" as you state, is a stripper that lives a thousand miles away. We stay in touch and I see her 2 or 3 times a year.

    I do live a long way away from the girl i'd love to see, i need a life also and thats where the ballroom dancing comes in, among other things. It's also fun!

    If ya need more clarification, let me know.

    Rick
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    no I get it now... thanks for clearing it up... thought your ballroom dancer friend turned out to be a stripper and thought that you were a lucky sob... anyway...

    I think I'll go sign up for some dance classes now...
    god knows I need it... when I dance, I make Elaine from Seinfeld look like Fred Astaire!

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    aside...

    Wonder if any strippers actually do ballrom dancing? Probably not exciting enough.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer
    Wonder if any strippers actually do ballrom dancing? Probably not exciting enough.
    I can. My ex-husband used to enjoy it so I took a few classes with him.

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    maybe a poll is in order, for the curious, maybe by dance type

    any kind of it - swing, polka, line dancing, tap, ballet, ballroom etc (i dont know all the types, but i never thought of rock music having a dance type)
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    strangely enough, i met the guy that i'm going out with now in the club that i was formerly working at. i say "strange" because this had never happened to me before, and if someone had told me a year ago that this could occur, i would have disregarded it. it took me a week or so to wrap my mind around the whole concept, and the fact that he was never a customer made it much easier. i have no regrets

    he also was the one to make the move and ask for my number, which was good, because i would have been too shy otherwise given the setting. i'm saying this to the original poster because one never knows; there are always exceptions to the rule. just listen to the dancer's response and be ready to consider your situation as a unique circumstance...

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbloodydewdropx
    i'm saying this to the original poster because one never knows; there are always exceptions to the rule.
    exception to the rule is the key in that post... don't forget the rule...
    hope is a dangerous thing...

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    Don't know how old you are.
    Now, you looking gals over 30?
    Single, or with children?

    Seriously considering marriage?
    Consider the consequences of becoming a step dad.
    Ready for additional responsibility?
    Marrying an oder women with kids, you ready to send her kids through college?

    But you just want some compaionship, right, for a night, a week, or so?
    Just looking for fun?

    Well,
    As the bard once put it,

    Let me not to the marriage of true minds
    Admit impediments. Love is not love
    Which alters when it alteration finds,
    Or bends with the remover to remove.
    O no, it is an ever-fixed mark
    That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
    It is the star to every wand’ring bark,
    Whose worth’s unknown, although his height be taken.
    Love’s not Time’s fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
    Within his bending sickle’s compass come;
    Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
    But bears it out even to the edge of doom:
    If this be error and upon me proved,
    I never writ, nor no man ever love

    ---Sonnet 16, Shakespeare.

    Ok, but now, to everything, there is a cost.

    If you are willing to sacrifice your freedom, go for it.
    After all, you are looking for love.

    But I suspect that what you are really looking for is
    love for rent. And you can find that on the street corner.

    Good luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by girlnew156
    But I suspect that what you are really looking for is
    love for rent. And you can find that on the street corner.
    Why do you suspect that? What did the poster say that made you suspect that?

    Love the rest of your post, though.

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    S&M clubs
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    Stripperweb.

    Plenty of women here.

    Anywhere you see women conscious is a good place to meet them, there is no special venue that is best. Just avoid the ones with mac makeup.
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