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    I am sooooo nervous to try this. I want to give it a try, but when is the best time to go? The town is a military base town, my husband suggested ( he is all for me trying it) that I give it a try this saturday. What time should I go? early or later on? What should I wear? I have never danced before?

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    Have you called the club first to see what times they see and/or audition new girls? Or even to find out when the hiring manager is in? Saturday nights are busy and they might only do this on their down time.

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    calm down girl lol...go in whenever you want, because most likely you'll have to talk to a manager before you can actually work. he'll either want you to "audition" or he'll look at you and decide like that. i would just look sexy when you go in, kinda like club wear, and try it like that. if you want to work day shift go early, if you want to work nights in my experiance you should always be there before 7pm....good luck!!

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    I am still worried, I am 38....my husband says a fine butt, but only a 34a....firm but a 34a...
    what should I wear to maximize my assets. I am 5'5" 125lb.

    thanks again

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    I would call the club to see if you have to audition or do an amateur night to work there, and see if you have to get a license. For an audition I would just wear something sexy but not slutty-tight jeans, boots, and a sweater or something that shows off your best features. If you like your butt, wear some jeans that flatter it.

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    I am a 34b. Of, like, 8 girls at my club, there is one girl with breasts larger than mine. Everyone else has smaller. Breast size is almost never an issue.

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    thanks, so no slutty tight jeans? hmmmmm what to wear?

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    Should I try to buy a outfit for the audition? there are a few stores to go to and get one locally?

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    I would go early before the club gets busy. Wear something nice like you are going out to eat a nice dinner with your hubby. Nice slacks and a sexy top with some sexy shoes will work fine. Do your make-up and hair like you are going to work that night. If the other girls know you are brand new usually one of them will help you. If not, housemom or management should. Good luck!

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    Yes, go ahead a buy some shoes, a couple of thongs, a garter and a new dress. If the dresses are too expensive at the shop but you still want something classy you can go to The Body Shop at the mall. They usually have sexy little dresses and long sparkly gowns.

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    I would at least invest in the shoes. PRACTICE a little before you audition so you don't kill yourself. It just adds a little more "professionalism" to your look.

    YOu could, if it's condusive to the club dress code, just audition in a thong bikini. That may not break the bank quite as much as a gown. Otherwise look for a little skirt/top set or a long tube dress. I would go with long until you are accustomed to having a short one roll right up to your waist when you least expect it.

    And in case you were concidering it, I would probably skip the school girl look on your audition, too. It kinda just screams newbie.

    Good luck!!! Let us know how it goes.

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    thanks, so no slutty tight jeans? hmmmmm what to wear?
    Tight jeans are okay--I think you misread that! I did too, at first. It should be like this:

    "For an audition I would just wear something sexy, but not slutty; tight jeans, boots, and a sweater or something that shows off your best features."

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    Thanks for the advice. I went with a friend who also wants to try it to a military town about a hour away. The place was nice, the girls were very friendly and helpful. It was slow, about 20 guys and 10 girls. Not sure if Iwant to driver 2 hours to make around 50 to 75 bucks. The top girl makes about 100 a night and the lowest is 30 a night. I am going to look at a closer city only 30 minutes away and see what that will offer.

    My husband bought me a outfit at a shop that sells dancewear. Its a hot pink outfit. Pink bikini top, matching thong and the bottoms are a bikini type that ties on the sides and hang way down to my knees on the sides. I found some shoes on sale at the mall that has non skid on the bottoms and have 5" heels. He said that it might be easier if I got a real outfit to help me seperate Job from our life.

    When we got home, my hubby put on some music and gave me some pointers on how to strip. How to rub here, brush there, how to work the hands and how to ask for a tip and how to accept tips. But should I wear my ring or not? Should I use my maiden name on Job apps?


    My concern is that I really love my husband and not sure if I could get that "Close" to another man. How do you all handle that situation in your mind. Also when I do decided to lap dance, do I just have on my top and thong( its a topless club) and later on take the top off? or do I take the top off as soon as the music starts and just dance in the thong? I thought of splitting up the dance with half top on and other half top off? Its not like I will get more money to take it off or not. Thanks for your help out there.

    BTW I decided on my name.....Austin....what ya think
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    Well "Austin" I'd have to say unless you're really hard up for cash, or just really itching to strip, hold out for a more lucrative place. As far as your husband...how is it that he's such a pro when it comes to stripping? When you do start dancing just remember it's a job like anything else. From the moment you get to the club till the time you leave you are not your husbands wife...you are "Austin" every mans fantasy!

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    Thanks LL. He was in the Marines before we met and married (met 3 years ago and just got married in Oct.) so he has been to his fair share I guess. This is not a first marriage for either of us.

    Oh, I modded the post, take a look.

    Austin

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    It depends on the customer. Some men actually ask me to leave my dress on, maybe to fantasize I am dancing for them somewhere other than a strip club. Others get impatient and ask me to hurry up and get down to my G-string. As a general rule I'd say I take my breasts out 20seconds in and take the rest off (except my G) by 1min. The trick is to try and be seductive about stripping down to nothing

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