Ok, let's see. This is my first post so i'll try to introduce myself. My stage name is Raven (My BF picked that one out! And I LOVE it SOOO MUCH!). i've been working as a cashier 20 hrs/wk a hostess 20hrs/wk and a part time student for the last 4 months(got an A in my english and getting an A in Algebra too! finale exam is next wed though, gotta study study study!). And let's face it, 40 hrs + between two jobs at 7/hr while trying to go to school is crap. So i got tired of it and talked to my BF about maybe dancing. He said he would be ok with it and we went together to pick out some shoes and a garter.
Yesterday was my first time working. ANd i have to say that though i was a bit nervous at first i got into it pretty quickly. I wasn't worried with taking off my clothes (I'm fortunate enough to have experience being nude in front of large crowds from attending our local BDSM groups for the last two years with my BF). I was nervous about dancing though, and how well i would do...
I will say that my first lap dance was weird and awkward. I'm pretty sure it would have been bad even if an experienced dancer had performed the dance.
I worked the day shift (11:30 - 7pm) and it was slow, only about 4 guys there. I was talking with one guy and he seemed pretty hyped up to wanting to have a good time, being kinda loud, flirting with all the gals and talking about his dick and making lude jokes and such. He found out i was new and wanted the first dance (i hadn't even been on stage at this point). So we waited for the next song and i tried to dance (ok, i looked like crap, i swayed my hips and stayed a foot away from the guy, but i learned quickly enough later in the day and i'm getting better). While i was dancing the larger guy he was with came up to him and tried talking to him, and got mad when he didn't pay attention, i tried ignoring him and focusing on the customer but then he kinda hit the custy on the shoulder, and i got ignored and both got up and went over to the bar before the song was even over with! Apearently the guy i was dancing for hadn't paid up for his drink yet and his friend didn't like that he hadn't yet. It made me feel very very very awkward and wierd.... he did come back and pay me $16 though when he only owed me 10. So that was nice. It was still weird though...
Can i just say that after 7 hours on 6" heels hurts like hell the next day and my thighs hurt SOOOO MUCH!!!!! even my ankles feel fine now but my thighs hurt worse than ever!!!!
Let's see, So far i like the stage the best! I can do some floor stuff and i'm fairly flexible. I know nothing about the pole though so i need to learn next time i'm at work. I also need to watch the girls more next time. I already got my eye on this one girl, she came in early and she was on the floor almost the entire time and rarely in the dressing room. She also made good money (she was kind enough to tell me after i asked) She seems very proffesional about her job and though i didn't talk to Ivory very much she did seem very nice.
I have to work on my lap dancing, i go too fast, i'm not personal or sensual enough, and i have to learn to really pull the guy into a happy place while i dance for him. I mean hell, he's giving up 10-20 for just a few min of watching me prance around topless, it's the least i can do for him! IMHO.
I think i can do this really well, i just need to learn first and learn to hussle better. Or rather learn how to sit with a guy and make him comfortable and buy a dance with in a fair amount of time. I wasted a good 30-45 min with one guy and only got one dance. while i think i might have short changed myself on two different guys who bought dances within 5 min of me being with them but i left them 2 min after the dance! i dont' know why i did that... I had just gotten advice from one dancer who said "sit with them one song, they buy a dance, dance, stay one more song and if they don't pay up again split and find another one" yet another girl i saw be with one guy for at least an hour and told me later she got $200 out of him worth of dances.
So still learning the ropes. Trying to learn how to make the guys happy. But most importantly I am having fun fun fun!![]()
I also liked this one customer who came up close to me on the last stage and decided to try something new. I ended up touching my breast and looking him deep into his eyes in that half-dazed-close-to-orgasm look i know i get when i'm with my bf. it worked like a charm! i got $5 on stage and i sat with him later, though he didn't buy a dance, said that wasn't his thing. But that was ok, he bought me a drink (cranberry juice) and i spent about 10 min with him while finishing my drink. I excused myself and before i left he whipped out a bunch of ones without counting and gave them to me. i ended up getting $13 from one guy without having to dance at all! not bad i think.
I"m just really excited. I think i could have done better, and that i will do better next time. but mostly this was a learning experience shift for me. I ended up makeing $113 after tipping out the DJ and a nice waitress who tried to help me with a customer, and the manager. The manager was sweet and ended up giving me back my house fee since it was my first time. something i really appreciated! I was also told that saturday was slow day that time. So I'm thinking next time i should make at least double. (i asked the girls and the average seemed to be from $150 - $350) So i don't think i did too bad for my first time.
Anywho, glad to be here on the list! Glad to be a dancer/stripper/exotic dancer/enertainer! And glad to be happy and excited about it! Can't wait till i start to learn the trade better and start investing my money (i've already decided on my budget and what the extra money i get over that should go to) and having more free time to study and be with my BF!
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