
Originally Posted by
t45m
I go to strip clubs a couple times a year, and always with guy friends. We go to have a few drinks and enjoy the atmosphere. I sometimes get lap dances for friends of mine, especially reserved ones because it's funny watching them squirm. Sometimes strippers hang out with us after the lap dances and we end up talking. Earlier this year, this stripper sat down with me and said "oh, you're really cute, you look like Enrique Iglesias". I was like ok, whatever floats your boat. We talked for about an hour or so (aside from buying her one drink, I didn't spend any money on her. Not because I didn't want to, but because we were just talking so much that it never occurred to me to take her for a dance). Anyways, she liked this one band that was coming to town and asked if I wanted to go with her. I said sure and gave her my number. She never ended up calling.
Second story (happened fairly recently): Visited another strip club, was sitting on a couch with a buddy of mine, stripper comes by, and I get my friend a couple dances. She ends up hanging out with us until the club closes, and literally begs me to go with her to some after hours club. I was tired and didn't feel like going, but I said yes because she was really hot. Anyways, her and I take a cab and go the club, but 10 mins after we were there, this girl (friend of hers from before) comes up to her and introduces her to a guy. She ends up talking to him and he asks her to hit the dance floor and she says ok. I was like WTF and just got out of there.
I found this site and went through some of the posts. It seems clear to me, after reading the messages, that strippers do not generally socialize with strip club patrons. Why would these girls start something up, only to then dis me? It's not like I'm a regular that will lavish money on them, and it's not like I instigated anything by asking them out. Also, since strippers are so hot and used to guys wanting them 24/7, are they really playaz and just hang with you till something better presumably comes along?
Sorry for the essay, but I would really like the opinions of some of the girls here. I just want to avoid being made an ass of in the future.
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