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    so i took a break from dancing in june b/c i felt i needed a break. i was dancing about a full year, starting out as superhustler, working all the time. but as the months went by $$$ was slow(i don't mean just a few nights, i know u gotta take the good with the bad but it was getting bad!), extras girls were fucking it up, and it just started to not be fun anymore. i found myself coming up with excuse after excuse to not go, or to leave when i got there. i've done a few bachelor parties since, and have no problem with it, so i don't think dancing itself was a reason. i've enjoyed the time off, but lately my finances are slowing up and i need money. also, a lot of my friends still dance and when we talk about it i find i miss dancing. i feel that i've had enough time off to start being superhustler again. i definitly miss the income and having a decent savings account. plus i'm in school all during the day so it's hard for me to find a decent paying job (and school is my #1 priority). i have decided to start working again as of tomorrow night, and have just been doing things to make sure i look my best when i do (exercise, make up hair and the sort) but i keep feeling this anxious feeling in my stomach, and i'm starting to actually feel nervous!! I don't know why b/c i wasn't this bad even when i first started!! i guess this is just a vent, and i was wondering if any of you ever felt this way and had some suggestions. i already know i'm going to do it cause i have to (tuition and car bills), but i just keep having those "what if's" in the back of my head. it sucks, cause i know i need confidence to make good money but i'm having trouble finding it and it sucks..... any comments would be much appreciated!!! thanks

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    Default Re: kind of nervous and scared...

    Just know that when you go back,the reason you left is still gonning to be there. (extras girls) Being nervous is normal,you know how to make $,and you have good reasons to need to make $.

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    Default Re: kind of nervous and scared...

    I felt the same way when I went back after a 2 year break. I had those butterfly anxious feelings and now they are completely gone.

    Ask yourself: was it really the money for the reason you left the 1st time? Or even the other girls? Find out the real reason why you left and when you return things will change for the better.

    Have a plan and not just financially.
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    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
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    just relax, it's not like your brand new, which id good that you know what you are doing. are you going back to the same club? maybe a change of venue may work better for you
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