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    How strange yesterday I found my first true -love from that classmates place . We have just started to communicate but it is so strange to me because it has been 20 years since our romance . Very surreal to me has anyone ever found their long lost love after many years ? Just so you know we are both happily married now . But you gotta wonder what if ?? I am not intersted in romance I am just really curious as to what has become of her - its wierd !

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    Wow...this happened to me in 2002...19 years after I graduated HS. Got an email from Keith, my first love. I agree, it was weird. And it was through Classmates.com as well.

    I don't even remember why we broke up, LOL, except that it was he who broke up with me. It was nice to hear that he is doing well. Married with a few gorgeous kids...soccer dad type.

    I don't think "what if" because if it was meant to be, it would have happened.

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    Mine is now a Catholic monk. He dumped me to join the seminary and take a celibacy vow. No joke! I was 16 and he was 18. I got his virginity and he got mine.

    He's probably making some altar boy very happy these days...

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    Well, you wouldn't convert.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Not a chance in hell, no!

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    CJ - I think the same thing everyday..what if? I just think one day our paths will cross but until then I just quietly move alone in my life.
    you live like an ivy vine
    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
    that's your flaw
    put down some roots so you can stand on your own
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    LOL, this is funny. I saw my "first love" about 7 years ago (that was about 10 years after we broke up). Course I had been working out and looking hot and he was drooling all over me. He dumped me because I wasn't "pretty/thin enough" back in high school. Caused me a pretty big complex for a while. I'd never had sex with him in high school...but we did hook up the 10 years later. Got him all hot and bothered and he'd call me every day, 3 times a day "just to talk". So, then I would just stop answering his calls...dumped him like a hot potato. He called me for a month after that. Heh...I have to say, it was mean, but dammit...what a nice big boost for my ego.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
    LOL, this is funny. I saw my "first love" about 7 years ago (that was about 10 years after we broke up). Course I had been working out and looking hot and he was drooling all over me. He dumped me because I wasn't "pretty/thin enough" back in high school. Caused me a pretty big complex for a while. I'd never had sex with him in high school...but we did hook up the 10 years later. Got him all hot and bothered and he'd call me every day, 3 times a day "just to talk". So, then I would just stop answering his calls...dumped him like a hot potato. He called me for a month after that. Heh...I have to say, it was mean, but dammit...what a nice big boost for my ego.
    LOL... that's great!!

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    Well we are writing back and fourth a bit and its all strange still but it makes me happy that she is doing well and has a great family . She works at a school with children who have physical disabilities its so her ! She always had such a good heart for careing about others .Thanks for listening all of you its not like I can run to the wife and say honey guess who I found lol .. She wouldnt understand and I wouldnt blame her . Do you guys think this is a bad thing for me to do ?? Very confused !

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    CuriousJ, how can keeping this a secret from your wife be a good thing? And if you ARE keeping it in a secret in the first place, you may be lying to yourself about your true motives here. How upset do you think your wife would be if she found out you were keeping this a secret from her? And as a woman, I'll tell you right now, she WILL wonder why you were being so secretive in the first place, once she finds out, and she WILL have questions. Do you really want to introduce that dynamic into your marriage?

    This is how trouble begins--one secret usually leads to another. If your feelings for your ex are so platonic, you shouldn't have a hard time letting your wife in on it. If you are staying in touch with your ex, then it is only appropriate your wife gets to meet her, and your ex's husband gets to meet you. Why not all get together for lunch?

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    I guess because I know my wife and even if I told her from the beginning she would be all pissy about it . This girl wasnt my wife or anything just a girlfriend who at the time I loved , we have both meet different partners and got married . I plan to tell her but I kind of want to see how my past girl is doing thats all . I do believe that honesty is the best policy but I dont feel I am being dishonest with her at this time she will know soon enough .But I do appreciate your honesty !

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    In this world of stepping out from the house to go cavort with strippers, I'd say that being prudent about e-mail contact with an old and unavailable flame is pretty low on the offenses list.

    My advice is to keep it at the correspondence level, let it play out and fade, and not burden your wife with unneeded brain injury. The brain injury would come if it gets past correspondence. Best not to do that.

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    Thanks JZ that sounds logical . What about you jz any long lost love adventures ?

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    When I break, I break. It's over; it's done. Anything else is just unfinished business that I get completed ASAP. No point in dragging out anyone's hurt for ages.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    This is just my 2 cents, but I follow this rule and it works for me..."If you can't /wouldn't do it infront of your spouse-then you shouldn't be doing it"

    Believe me...I have had this exact situation happen...first it was just chatting,then it was a friendly "let's meet up for coffee" then it is "let's do dinner" before you know it your having an affair!

    Just be careful....I might be reading too much into this,but put yourself in your wifes shoes....would you want to know....?

    But like I said I might be just reading to much into it!

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