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    Smiley Buy a custy a drink

    I was wondering if any of you have done that? Obviously, it would depend on the club.

    I used to go to a club in AZ alot and had a few ATF's (in Cali now). They were all great as they were good looking, great conversationalists and good dancers. In this particular club, the dancer could drink (alcohol) if she put some clothes on and took a break. One ATF did that one time and sat and chatted and drank with me for a little bit. I usually buy whatever drinks for the ladies in that siutation, but this time she actually bought me a drink instead. I was surprised and accepted. Granted, it was my money she was using from the lapdances , but just the fact that she paid was cool.

    Anyway... as a result, I tended to pick the days that she worked to show up. I didn't expect her to buy anymore drinks (she did one more time), but just the fact that she did that made me want to lean towards her more than the other girls. Silly, isn't it? She made hundreds (thousands over time) more from me because of a $5 investment.

    Obviously, I don't think you should try that with complete strangers. Maybe try it with a semi-regular or something.

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    Great idea.

    I bought a custy a drink once to get him into VIP. It was a nude, no-alcohol club and I told him if he got a VIP session I would buy him a beer. He was all up for it so I bought him the beer - O'Doul's. We had a laugh over it but once the three songs were up, he didn't get another one. I probably wouldn't do that again.

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    Once you paid her for the lapdances wasn't it her money?
    I have bought customers drinks once in a while. Usually it has been a regular.


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    Yep, definitely her money. But you know what I meant

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    I sometimes do this if I feel a good vibe from the custy right away and want to hang out for a bit...it makes them feel like they're not necessarily just being used for their money, and after chatting for a while, I can usually get a bunch of dances from the guy. And they're more relaxed and having fun!

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    I have done this before for a wonderful "regular" custy. I think once you have an understanding/mutual enjoyment factor going on it's a terrific idea to do it once in a while. I surely wouldn't suggest this for a new custy or to do it often ( then you are 'devalued' and they will come to expect it every time); but, so many dancers get into the mode of take-take-take that when you give something back genuinely they are shocked and delighted. This is a good move on occasion, so that you can keep a guy feeling special.
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    I've had a dancer in Vegas do this for me several times, it is one of the many reasons she gets repeat business from me. In the grand scheme of things it's really not costing her much considering how much I've spent on her and how much I will continue to spend on her. I don't expect it everytime, but it's nice every once in while, it makes me at least feel like more than a dollar sign.

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    I bought a gay guy a drink- he came in to see his friend working the merchandising booth at the SC & I started hitting on him until I was set straight on his orientation. LOL. So we talked for a little while.
    I bought a New Yor-iquan kid a drink & we rapped about Puerto Rico & he told me all about Chi-town & the Latin Kings gang. He was a nice kid, I hope he's OK.

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    I do buy drinks for custys sometimes. Hell once I even paid (well tried to anyway) a guys tab, lol. When the bartender told the guy that I had already paid his tab, he came and got me and tripled the money I spent. His tab was about $60 and he gave me $200 for doing it, lol.

    Sometimes it backfires to be nice to them, and sometimes it can be a lifesaver, lol.

    I still buy drinks for guys on occasion, but only if I know them really well.
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    I've bought a regular a drink before, it usually gets put right back into my garter or they get an extra dance.
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    NOPE!!!! Never have i ever bought a customer a drink and i never will!!!!!!!!!!

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    I think we need a national "Buy a Custy a Drink" day

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    Just for the dancer to make that small effort goes a long way. There was a dancer at a club I frequent that used to buy me drinks all of the time....just the act itself made me want to spend more on her, which I happily did. I haven't seen her in a while....I fear that she finally went back to her native Sweden. She was one of a kind

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    I've had dancers and waitresses buy me drinks. It's pretty cheap, since I rarely drink alcohol in the club. Then I tip the hell out of them. It comes back to them in multiples. I'm just an AKM (automatic karma machine).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Angel1112
    NOPE!!!! Never have i ever bought a customer a drink and i never will!!!!!!!!!!
    You would be suprised how much money you are potentially missing out on then, but if you insist on not doing it; oh well, more MONEY FOR ME!!!!!
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    I've bought customers drinks before, but only if they've spent money on me first.

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    At my old , smaller club. I used to get creative to get dances. I would sell by the hour and half hour and include a beer or two(usually for a dance and talk time). For some reason when I said its 30 min for 100 and I buy your beer, the last part clenched it. In that club the guys were cheap and enticed by the add on. It worked, but i haven't had to try it at my new club.

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    Nope, never bought a customer a drink. But I have given away tons of g-strings and signed photographs. I don't think it's really made me any more money but i feel good giving something tangable to the regulars and the big spenders. Bucks parties love me for it to.

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    I'm a customer...and if a dancer noticed what I was drinking, then walked up to me as soon as I finished my drink and handed me a free drink...

    I think I would be so impressed, I'd probably open my wallet and spill notes all over the place.

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    I have only bought regulars drinks or those who bought half hour dances (or longer) from me.

    I reward those who are generous by being a little generous back - it's only $10 including a tip to the server..... and always builds good relations between you and the custy


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    I think its a fabulous idea to buy a guy a drink. Especially if he is buying dance after dance from you.
    Plus, it'll take time for the drink to get there right? Thats extra time that he will probably spend buying even more damces from you. And when the drink arrives, he'll have to drink it, and it most guys know that it would be pretty rude to leave as soo as he got his drink.

    Ladies...buy a fella a drink once in awhile. It could pay off.

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    hmmmm.....

    ok, i love this bit of advice.

    I haven't been dancing long enough to have 'regulars' yet. but i have a few potentials!!! A few repeat customers and such.

    I vow now, that i, Raven Z, shall buy a drink or two every now and then for my loyal regulars who put me through college! (patriotic music playing in the back ground) *sniff* kinda, puts a tear in my eye....
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    wow! u all are too nice... as much as i might think i like or value the custy, u will never see Mz Gigi buying ANYONE a drink!!! at my club, you get money when ppl buy U a drink... why would i loose money for myself... lol
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    Please spread the word no further! When in the club, customers are to buy drinks for us, the ladies ALWAYS

    There are other ways to reward a customer for his devotion to you

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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine
    I bought a gay guy a drink- he came in to see his friend working the merchandising booth at the SC & I started hitting on him until I was set straight on his orientation. LOL. So we talked for a little while.
    I bought a New Yor-iquan kid a drink & we rapped about Puerto Rico & he told me all about Chi-town & the Latin Kings gang. He was a nice kid, I hope he's OK.
    Gangs are stupid

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