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    Sad Have u ever been called Ugly before?

    why do other girls wanna bring u down and call u ugly even when u arent? i used ot have really bad acne..and sometimes i had people including 1 guy tll me i was an ugly dog. this all happened in an argument..i just dont know how people can be so mean..my skin is a lot btter now..but after beingtold im ugly and i look like an alien i actually feel ugly and my self esteem is pretty low. i really want to start dancing and like what im about, but i cant seem to let go of the past. this is a photo of me now..b4 i used to have cystic acne and be really pale
    i think maybe people see me as an easy target and i get hurt because i seem so sensitive ot every little bad comment that was evre said to me.
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    Screw those bitches. If they are talking crap that means they are intimidated by you! You're hot honey!

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    thanks..i kinda had 2nd thoughts and took everything down..im feeling better now tho..ok so i just put it up again..but i guess that will prove how insecure i am about myself, even to show my photo..not sure how im ever gonna make it on stage.
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    Default Re: Have u ever been called Ugly before?

    We have gaggles of female custys all the time that come into work and pull that shit.

    And most of the time, it's the fugly or butta faced ones doing most of the talking.

    Fuck em, don't let them get to you. You know you are more than just a face or body. You are you.
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    Girl you are gorgeous! Screw what those bitches say to you. They're just trying to get you down. You're hardly ugly.

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    You are absolutely BEAUTIFUL!!! (and I am just not saying that ) You are! Those girls are just jealous!!

    I have had the same experience you had with Cystic Acne and ex's telling me I was ugly - but times have changed! You are gorgeous...hold your head up high and flaunt it!

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    you are beautiful, and you have to that the world know that you feel beautiful. You can't let people get to you, hold your head up high. I had acne too when I was younger and some bad haircuts, and let me tell you when I go to bars or parties in the town where I grew up now, people definitely know who I am and hit on me, and I just laugh at them bc now theyre all losers.

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    i've been called ugly and funny looking (and have been made fun of) for so long i'm beginning to believe it (and a current health condition isn't helping any).

    but in your case...girl you're beautiful. ignore the haters sweetie.

    why do some people still have to fight to get the same opportunities that are given to others?

    reclusiveness...is a good thing.

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    Well, you have come to the right place! I think you're lovely, and I am completely digging on the eyebrows. I don't think your looks will be a problem at all, but, unfortunately, your senstivity might. This business is not for people with self-esteem issues, or sensitivity. Trust me - this job can try even healthy, whole egos. Maybe you can consider waitressing or something instead?
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    You have a very beautiful, exotic look to you...the kind that some models wish they had.....besides..you kinda look like me....and I know IM not ugly....lol...
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    After seeing your photo, I think you're reading into it way too much. From the looks of it, you have an absolutely beautiful complexion many women would die for. When things often are not so "perfect" as we see them in our own minds, we tend to dwel on them, so when even the smallest comment about it makes us reaffirm those things to make them bigger in our mind than they ever were. Just remember, insulting someone because they are "ugly" is a cheap shot for anyone and is usually coming from someone who has way more issues they are overly self-conscious about than you. Laugh it off and walk away knowing you are the better person and at the end of the day, that's all that really matters anyway.

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    Honestly i thought this was a "joke" message at first. She looks well established, lips out, eye brow up, make-up on.....i don't see a problem! Really, she looks nice.

    Pamela

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    I agree with everyone else.. You are quite beautiful and have amazing lips and eyes.
    People usually say bad things about other people when thy feel that way about themselves. The girl(s) who told you that you were ugly obviously did it out of spite and envy.
    I know it hurts when people say mean things to you regardless of if they are true or not because I am also really sensetive about that sort of stuff. Sorry that you are having to deal with this sort of bullshit.. I know how easy it is to obsess over stuff like this. But you really are beautiful. You have that exotic european look that a lot of men and the fashion industry loves. I can see you being in an issue of vouge or W magazine. Really you have nothing to worry about when it comes to your looks.
    And being sensitive is not always a bad thing it just means you are more intune and aware of the atmosphere and world around you.
    Take care. I hope you feel better

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    i'm with jenny on this.... You're beautiful but you will have to develop some thicker skin if you want to become a dancer. And yes, youre eyebrows are awesome

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    Well most have said you are very pretty and I have to agree. People say mean things b/c they arent very intellgent in the 1st place. Dont let anyone bring you down; besides words are just words with idiots attached to them.

    As for dancing you gotta get tough. Guys will say mean things and sometimes really come down on you. Just hold your head high everywhere you go.

    Just as a reference I used to look like a little boy going through a girls puberty. I had messed up hair and an akward body shape. lol Im alot better now and say FU to everyone whos mean.
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    First off - you are gorgeous, like said above you have an exotic look! Im sure you will empty out many bank accts dancing!

    But I also understand the self esteem thing too - when I was growing up I was called many a names because I was tall and stick thin... my mom would tell me they are mean to me because Im pretty and theyre jealous but with my low self esteem I never believed her. Ive since "grown into myself" ... kind of a ugly duckling syndrome... years later im still very sensitive when people make fun of me and others. But I also know Im not ugly...

    Sure youre going to get a lot of stripper shit because you are beautiful.. youll make good money and others will be jealous... you have to put a wall up...

    My first few months dancing I would leave crying all the time because the girls were just so mean to me and I was sooo sensitive to it but eventually I built a wall against mean girls and do just fine... and Ive been at this way too long.. lol...5 years...

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    I think you look ok to dance. I think the "alien comment" was probably because of your eyebrows. Its an exotic look to them,but if you feel insecure maybe let them grow back normal to the arch again. OR tweeze them back a bit.
    But you should have no problem dancing with that look,everybody likes different things,and you are not an ugly girl.

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    Just ignore them. You are gorgeous!!

    I've been called just about everything under the sun...if the worst you were called was ugly, then you're doing fine!


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    You have the kind of facial features that just SCREAM magazine cover. Holy shit girl. Full lips, big pretty eyes, good cheekbones, and those eyebrows. I really dig those eyebrows! If anybody tells you you're ugly, it's because they're jealous or insecure themselves. People like that love to try and make themselves feel better by making others feel worse.

    But I agree with others about needing more self confidence and thicker skin to handle dancing. We have to deal with lots of rejection, people telling us foul crap intended to make us feel bad, people talking smack behind our backs (which has a way of getting back to us) - and that's the easy stuff. I mean this in the most helpful way possible: if you have issues with this kind of thing already, you should NOT be dancing. Our coworkers and customers can be some of the most cruel people on earth, which will only hurt you more.

    Finally, dancing tends to cause our existing personality traits to become exaggerated - both good and bad. If you get hurt every time some jerk says something negative about your looks, when you're dancing it will hurt you even MORE. For your own sake, I hope you don't start dancing, at least not for a while. Trust me, your emotional well being is much more valuable than any money you can make. Take some time to work on your self confidence and self esteem first. And if it means ditching those so-called friends, do it! Make new friends who aren't so insecure and mean. Only dance when/if you've gotten your self esteem and confidence up much higher than it is now.

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    Oh and yes, I've been called ugly. Through my whole childhood by my stepmom, at school by mean kids, at work by asshole custies. I always knew they were the assholes, but when I was younger it bothered me alot too. I would make smartass remarks back to the boys at school, and they would get even meaner trying to make me feel bad. I didn't start dancing until I was 22, and I'm glad for it, for alot of reasons - not the least of which is that I had much better self esteem by that age than I had at 18 or 19.

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    yea i've been called ugly before. i know im not. what matters is what u think of urself. ur self esteem has to come from within and not from others opinion of you. i know thats hard in this business, but if u worry too much about what others think u will never be happy.

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    I used to hear that I was ugly all the time - people can be assholes. Im sorry those people esp b/f called you ugly because you are beautiful!

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    You ain't ugly.

    Some people, they fear what is not like them. It is their own needs to be like the others and fit in that matters (like all the bottle blondes that look the same.) To reinforce they are "in" the crowd, they reject those that aren't. Remember when people say things, they always have a little agenda going on (usually associated with the ego!)

    Most of us have dealt with the same bullshit and you have my empathy for those harsh words. I had been called Pizza Face plenty of times in my younger years and even now have trouble believing I am a good looking person.

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    Well it looks like someone definitely turned into a swan

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    "after being told im ugly and i look like an alien "

    Ugly, looks like an alien? Damn, I thought she was a hottie, shows how much I know. They may be trying to run you off so they don't have to compete. Now, do the guys share this preposterous opinion? My guess is they don't. Don't trust these girls, not for a minute, they may try to set you up for some kind of trouble. It is sad that some people must injure someone else in order to feel good about themselves. Fuck em, your a honey and thats that.

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