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    I know I don't hardly ever post on the board but I have to post about this, I work in Vegas and the other night a custmor slipped a zanie bar in my drink while I was in the VIP room with him or so thats what the other girl who was also in the room said all I know is I woke up friday morning in the hospital and they told me that I had been druged with a dangeros leval of zanex (sp?), my husband told me when he picked me up from work I could'nt walk and I started going into a seziure! and the story gets even more fucked up when I went back into the club to get my sheriffs card (I work in Vegas yo gotta have one) the owner tryed yelling at me for taking drugs at work!! and when I told him what happened he didn't believe me, so we got in a huge yelling match in the middle of the club and I ended up qitting.
    Has anything like this ever happened to any of you? I have been a dancer three years and this is my first time ever getting anything in my drink.

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    I am soo sorry-how horrible! At least you're safe now. My gosh! While this has never happened to me, I have heard of it happening to other dancers. It's one of the reasons I don't let my drinks out of my sight. I'm sorry the club owner had to make a bad situation even worse Good luck.

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    Yeah, it happened to me but I was lucky & they got me to a hospital quickly. I think it was only GHB or sleeping pills in my drink, but I wasn't taking chances.

    What's sad is that if custies do this often in SCs with bouncers & cameras around, think of all the losers who do it at house parties & regular clubs. Gotta be careful.

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    yep, i knew of one waitress about 13 years ago at a Dallas strip club who died from a spiked drink.
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    YIPES! Glad you're OK. *HUGS* That really sucks.

    I think it's actually more likely to happen in to strippers than to "civilian" women, from all reports and statistics -- the good girl/bad girl mentality that predators can have says we're "bad girls" and deserve it.

    Take care of yourself, and you were right to quit the club. Any manager who blames you for something like that happening is not someone you want to trust enough to work for. Maybe look into legal services. They made a false accusation.

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    Thank goodness your alright...that is very scary. I have never had this happen to me personally but my sister got drugged over a year ago at a night club and was horribly sick.

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    I had something simular happen to me a few months ago while waitressing at the SC...I ended up sick as hell, thankfully not as bad as you. Glad to hear your okay. Im so sorry to hear this happend to you. I still cant figure out why guys are so stupid... why waste your shit on a girl you have no hope in getting. It just doesnt make sense to me
    Chaos is right, your better off quiting if your manager is going to blame you for that.

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    i am so sorry for you! you had every right to quit you're club, and like others said you should look into prosecuting them.

    *hugs*

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    I am so sorry to hear about this SashaParis but very glad to find out that you are ok. What a horrible manager ! What club did this happen in ?

    the following comes from the other thread that was linked to this one

    Quote Originally Posted by Michelle1
    so i was at the club on thursday night in the VIP room......i saw some guy slip something into another girls drink!!!

    ^ Why didn't you report what you saw as soon as it happened ? Shit like that can kill people
    Last edited by TarynJolie; 12-18-2005 at 02:15 PM.

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    wow ... I cant' ever grasp why someone would do this to another person!

    Im glad you are okay!! and also that they were able to identify what you were slipped.

    I think many of us let down our guard in the VIP rooms... I know I do ( as far as a drink goes..hell i've even walked off and left money when i went to go pay for another half hour. )

    Is it true that visine holds the same effect?

    Second question ...do they have cameras in your VIP room ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TarynJolie
    I am so sorry to hear about this SashaParis but very glad to find out that you are ok. What a horrible manager ! What club did this happen in ?

    the following comes from the other thread that was linked to this one




    ^ Why didn't you report what you saw as soon as it happened ? Shit like that can kill people
    Yeah I don't understand at least don't say it !

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    First, I am so sorry that this happened to you. I really hope that you are able to press charges against this despicable person...and shame on your boss!



    Addressing a previous poster: I dont think slipping things in peoples drinks happens more to strippers than civlian women. I would wager that men are more frustrated by civvies not giving it up than a "bad girl" who they automatically assume probably will. Several college girls, esp. at my undergrad uni, are drugged at college parties...fraternity or otherwise, "good girls", "party girls", makes no difference, it's just that it often goes unreported. We dancers deal with alcohol in alcohol clubs MUCH MORE than the average population so although it would appear that we would encounter this with more frequency, the actual incidence of it happening is not significantly larger than that of college parties, clubs, and other social situations involving alcohol.
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    sucks this happened. Please tell which club.

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    I was drugged last year. Club manager seemed to think it was GHB. Bad experience--scared the shit out of me..worst thing is I have a pretty good idea of who it was..I just cant prove it...I dont work at that club anymore...I ALWAYS watch my drinks now..I know who brings them to me and I have regulars keep an eye on them when Im working. Ive worked in Vegas..never had problems there--but I have found some of the worst people in Vegas. Im not particularly a fan. Damn these people who drug us...bastards-

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    Thank you to everyone one for your concern, its good to know there are girls out there who care I was working at Pleasures I don't nornally woprk there I normally work at Sherris but it was my night off and I wanted to make alittle extra money for x-mas I had only worked at Pleasures a couple weekends before but I didn't work there regurally, now I know I will never go back. The police came to the hospital and filed a report so they are doing a investigation into the club and the incedent, personally I am considering taking legal action angist the club, my husband is extreamely upset over this.

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    I would be willing to bet the reason why the manager blamed you for "voluntarily" taking drugs at work is to cover his ass. Even if he did believe you that you were drugged by a customer, that has to be his offical line to not draw a lawsuit from you, and to not lose dancers in fear of the same thing happening to them. No dancers = no house fees paid. Also no dancers = no customers.

    I'm glad you are okay. I saw a dancer get drugged in the first month I was dancing, so I always order drinks in sealed containers (bottled water or red bull or something) and tell the waitress to bring the drink unopened. If the customer is really bent on me drinking from his champange bottle, I just pretend to drink it and dump it on the floor when he isn't looking.

    It sounds like the club doesn't value it's dancers, and you will be better off elsewhere.


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    We have had it happen to a girl or two where I work and the owner and mgmt is very understanding and helpful in any way.

    I hope this won't ever happen to you again. At least now you will be more careful.

    Always drink water or closed containers. If you drink alcohol, make sure it comes straight from the bar. (A guy could drop something in a drink on the waitress' tray, and her not know about it). NEVER LET YOUR DRINK OUT OF YOUR SIGHT!!!!!

    Even in the Dressing Room, lol!
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    I don't know what the basis of legal action would be, unless the manager broadcast your name in a bad light to many others, or wrote it down for distribution. In terms of being fired, if you were an employee, you'd have legal grounds. But as an independent contractor, your services can be terminated for any reason at all, including false ones. Wonder who summoned the Police? Probably not the club manager. Hmmm, maybe you could get the club on that unsafe workplace theory if they ignored your being assaulted (poisoned).

    At least it so seems to me. I am glad you turned out OK after this poisoning. If they catch that creep, make sure the ADA throws the book at him.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    sorry this happened to you.What i don't get is how come the other girl in the vip room didn't tell you about that man slipping something into your drink?
    anyway,it's over and done with if i were you i would just forget the whole thing happened and move on with your life. Go back to your normal place of work and just go do your job. You don't need this incident hanging over your life for months if you have to take this club to court or what ever.It happened.It's over and there's nothing you can do about it,really i guess. ...Just move on.

    watch your drink from now on while working and always take it with you if you leave a table to go to the bathroom,stage,dressing room or the dj booth....there's all kinds of wacko's out there.....take care.

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