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    Angry I am so angry! Last night was a wash!

    Ok this is going to be kind of long so bare with me.

    Ok so I went into work last night at this new club I've been trying out feeling quite jazzy and ready to make some money. Last night I made great money so I was excited to be there. About an hour in I started to feel a little weird (as in like I was getting sick), but shrugged it off. As the night progessed it got worse and worse (chills, headache, dizzy) finally after nearly passing out on stage I told the manager that I was not feeling well and wanted to know how I could go home. He told me to go upstairs and lie down and he would check on me in an hour and let me know then as to whether I could leave w/o paying the hefty fine. He came back up an hour later (mean while I has thrown up and felt like shit) and started accusing me of being on drugs (I dont do drugs) and told me that if I wanted to leave Id have to pay the fine. I figured since I was not dancing anyway I might as well make myself at home upstairs and sleep and not pay the fine. Finally the DJ came up and told me that he knew how bad I felt and had convinced the manager to let me go w/o paying the fine. So I got dressed and went to check out. When I checked out the dick made me pay for all the ladies drinks that I did not sell (hello, how could I sell drinks if I was not on the floor) and after tip out I had ten dollars in my pocket. I still feel like shit, but its like what the fuck. I am a hard worker and I make the club money, so why would he feel the need to be so hard on me. To make a point because I am semi-new? WTF. Makes me want to switch clubs.
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    Default Re: I am so angry! Last night was a wash!

    oh thats pretty normal. most clubs and managers act like this. we arent "allowed" to be sick at work.

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    Screw that!! I could never handle being treated like that from management. If you were honestly ill (no drugs/alcohol) they have no right to make you stay or pay. I know their job can be tough handling crazy drama girls etc.. However someone new to their club, there's really nothing to do but trust what you say is true and allow you to leave (no fee)! If you can make good money at this place I guess go back, but I'd never tip over minimum.

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    Default Re: I am so angry! Last night was a wash!

    I'm with velvet. He was probably pissed you weren't making money for his cut of the tipout/fine. Managers usually get some kind of cut of that stuff ya know - so it encouraces them to be as harsh as possible about that sort of thing.

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    Default Re: I am so angry! Last night was a wash!

    First off I hope you get feeling better being sick at work is the worst and now my manger rant....most mangers have a eago trip going on like they are gods or something, they act like we should never get sick or have a bad day, what makes people think we're not human?

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    Managers are glorified babysitters with some paperwork to do. I have worked with a couple that took their job very seriously and not only made themselves money but the club and dancers too. However most just need a reality check.

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    If I was throwing up sick, laying down and he accused me of being on drugs I would say yeah, I must be because I am for working for you. Then I would pack my things and leave. He needs YOU to make money, you don't need him, you can go elsewhere. That's one thing you always have going for you as an entertainer. You can always go elsewhere if you are being mistreated. And believe me there will be plenty of people who try to do so in this business. I wouldn't have paid shit. If you pay a house fee and sale dances then you have did your part as an independent contractor. Unless you are an employee of his he can't demand you sale drinks. Now, if you up and leave without paying the "early leave fine" (we have one too) then he can keep you from returning. But I have never seen the manager not let an entertainer go home if she is vomiting unless it's alcohol related. Don't take that shit hon, remember you are the one taking off your clothes. You don't need him.

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    The manager is not paying you. YOU are paying HIM. As far as I'm concerned, that means he works for you, and you are the one who gets to tell him how it's going to be - NOT the other way 'round. Why did you pay the extra money? He can't "make" you do anything, least of all give him money that you earned and he didn't.

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    Lyssa Lynn-- RAOFLMAO! "Managers are glorified babysitters with some paperwork to do.." So true!
    Unfortunately, despite we bring the money in for the club there's always someone else waiting in the wings (usually) to take our place, so to speak. They know this, so it makes them more neutral/callous in caring for our needs.
    I would, if there is a next time...take your barf into the office! Wait until you think you're going to puke, walk in the office to "explain" your situation...I realize this sounds drastic, but if they have to choose between cleaning up another mess or trying to collect fees, the lazy gene will take immediate effect and they will send you home with a quickness! I have seen this in action before, the gal was hurried out lickety-split!
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    Next time that happens, try to hold it until the mgr comes into his office then barf on him!!!

    He will know your sick then.
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    sounds like you could be comming down with a cold or flu or stomach virus possibly .To be safe go to your family doctor,get checked out and get a doctors note that states you are sick or what ever is wrong with you that is making you feel like this..take the note to the manager that proves you were sick and not on drugs.....hopefully he will pay you back for the drink fine etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justine08
    Lyssa Lynn-- RAOFLMAO! "Managers are glorified babysitters with some paperwork to do.." So true!
    Unfortunately, despite we bring the money in for the club there's always someone else waiting in the wings (usually) to take our place, so to speak. They know this, so it makes them more neutral/callous in caring for our needs.
    I would, if there is a next time...take your barf into the office! Wait until you think you're going to puke, walk in the office to "explain" your situation...I realize this sounds drastic, but if they have to choose between cleaning up another mess or trying to collect fees, the lazy gene will take immediate effect and they will send you home with a quickness! I have seen this in action before, the gal was hurried out lickety-split!

    agreed.
    oh they need us alright, there isnt girls turning 18 everyday that want to work there or anything

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    Our main mgr has 4 kids and is germophobic. If we're puking (not from alcohol, he has a sixth sense about that- hmmm or maybe just a good sense of smell lol), he sends us home pronto!! Not the greatest money club, but damn, it's nice to be treated as a human!
    It's foolish to keep sick girls there, what do they want all their regular custies to get sick? That shit spreads like wildfire! Shortsided stupid bastards. We have one like that. I refuse to work his shifts.

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    are you ok, honey? did you see the doctor? maybe someone spiked your drink.... then again, that visine thread made me paranoid.
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    Default Re: I am so angry! Last night was a wash!

    I work in a club where there are so many girls you don't get any mercy as far as payout. You could be barfing all over the club and still be expected to cough up the money (no pun intended). But I am sorry that happened to you.

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    Default Re: I am so angry! Last night was a wash!

    I was supposed to work today, but did not feel 100% so I called in. I am feeling better, but I am more pissed that he felt the need to be so rude to me.
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    Default Re: I am so angry! Last night was a wash!

    Whew, I'm glad my club doesn't act like that. Normally we may have to pay the $10 house fee, but that's not a hefty fine I wouldn't say. It's not a fine at all. Just part of the job. I'm sorry you had to go through that. What assholes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TaraDoll
    Whew, I'm glad my club doesn't act like that. Normally we may have to pay the $10 house fee, but that's not a hefty fine I wouldn't say. It's not a fine at all. Just part of the job. I'm sorry you had to go through that. What assholes.
    ten dollar house fee?! Yeah I wish ours was that low.
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