I'll apologize from the outset if this thread is redundant, but I performed a search and didn't find anything comparable. My gf is a dancer. We've been dating about 6 months and things are going great (except for the fact she's embarassed to tell people she's dating a soon-to-be lawyer, hehe -- great sitcom idea : stripper/lawyer marriage). Of course I can't go to the club where she works, but she insists that I refrain from going to other clubs unless she's with me. This is difficult b/c she works at night and I work during the day. I don't have a problem with this b/c I love her, but it's confusing.
I asked why she didn't want me to go to clubs. To which she basically replied, "I know how SOME girls are, and they'll be trying to fuck you." At first blush, this seemed contradictory to me. I know she doesn't do "extras." She knows that I've never solicited or accepted a solicitation for "extras." Therefore, I think she would trust me in this situation. It's not like I'd be trying to pick up another girl in the club.
Hence, my queries: (1) Is her stance typical/normal in the industry?
(2) Am I missing something fundamental here?
Thanks in advance for any and all advice ladies!


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. Tell her she has your trust. Would she consider trusting you?


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