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    Confused about stripping?

    I am very confused about stripping. My husband it for it (though he does reserve the right to change his mind once I do it).

    I am wondering how I will be able to rub and shake my boobies on some strange guy? I am totally in love with my husband and not sure if I could do this.

    He bought me a outfit, pink thong, pink side tie bottoms and string bikini top. He says treat it as a job....nothing personal. He said that he went out and bought a outfit for me to get started hoping that by wearing a "'outfit" I could seperate real life from "work".

    His only suggestion is to go to work in a town about a hour or so away....so as not to run into anyone from home.

    I went to this club and like the atmosphere and how it is run. The girls were all nice and if it was not for the distance, I would really consider it.

    He is not the overtly jelouse type, he does get bothered when I run into a old boyfriend. He says that he can seperate my work and totally trusts me. Still, how do your girls do it with total strangers? what do you think about? How do you deal with your emotions or feelings?

    Thanks for your help.

    Austin

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    Default Re: Confused about stripping?

    I think about dollar signs.

    If you have a jealous man, doing this job will make you MISERABLE. Ask anyone on here. It's almost impossible.

    As far as the stranger thing... that's just how it works. After your first good night you will not think about it again.

    This job is not for everyone so be sure you are ale to handle it before you jump in with both feet. Maybe take your hubby along to some clubs and see how he reacts to the environment. It might make things easier if he is involved in the process of picking the club.

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    Default Re: Confused about stripping?

    You have to be comfortable with your body and mind to strip. Honestly I try not to think about what I do while im doing.. When I do a LD my mind is everywhere but on the job, it helps me keep things seperated. If your not going to be comfortable showing your body to other men then it might not be for you. Are there no contact clubs in your area? That might work better for you. Maybe give an amature night a try somewhere so you can get an idea with how your going to feel. Worse comes to worse you can chalk it up to something new you tried and it just wasnt for you.
    I wish you the best of luck and welcome to SW

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    Default Re: Confused about stripping?

    Go where YOU will be happy. Im sure if you ran into someone youll have devised a plan to handle it. Youre an adult so youll have a good way to deal with it if it ever comes up.

    I think he shoudl worry more about your safety than some x-bf.

    As far as strangers go you get over it. Strangers = money. Everything = equals money. Money automactically overrides 'stranger' fears. I dont think 'stranger' anymore..i think money.
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    Default Re: Confused about stripping?

    I just think about the money, like every guy walking in the door has a $ over his head. It was weird my first night, but I got used to it fast. Just make sure it's what YOU want and not just what your husband wants. If it's what you want, then just give it a shot. If you don't like it, then you don't have to go back. If you don't do it, though, and you really want to but are just afraid, then you might always wonder what it would have been like and if you would have liked it. It's worth a shot if it's something you're really interested in.

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    Default Re: Confused about stripping?

    Maybe consider a bikini, or lower contact club to start. Also your first night or so you could try doing only stagework and conversation while you to get used to the way things work in the club. This will give you a chance to meet a few customers and staff as well as watch and learn from the other dances.

    You can ease yourself into the more intimate aspects of this job.

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