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    Hey everyone. The new year is approaching and I have been trying to put things into perspective. I cut off some people in my life that were not really making it better. They were not making it worse... but kind of just there...they were not really any good friends who would ever be there for me...
    I am starting to workout more, eat better, and spend time with good family, friends, and my baby nephew. I am really trying not to sweat the small stuff because I tend to worry and analyze over everything. I am gonna try a new club...and have a few day job interviews lined up as well. I really plan on achieving my goals and not just talking about them. I am also trying my best not too get too involved with any one guy at the moment... because i'ts not what I need. I do not want to worry if i made little mistakes with guy's... i am human and a good person. I want to do some volunteer work... finally paint and re-do my house... and just start living! For some reason, I feel as though I was living so robotic and safe. I do not feel like I was too happy, so now I really want to just do everything in my power to make myself happy ( as well as good friends and family.) So i plan on new experiances, surrounding myself with positive people,taking care of myself, and looking at the overall big picture of everything i should be thankful for (instead of worrying about every little thing.) I want to make every moment valuable, worthwhile, and productive.
    I just thought I would share this, SW is my support system. I also plan on going to stripper web more when i am online for leisure ( instead of instant messaging back and forth on aol with people that do not bring forth any great conversational value.)
    Any one else going through their change of lifestyle/ way of looking at things for the new year? Any goals/ refinements that ya's are trying to make in your lives?
    I just want to be happy and do great things for myself... anyone else have their little plans of change?

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    happiness is dynamic...it changes, and i think happiness is the best gift you can give to yourself...I am going to change my lifestyle as well. More work and less play...doesnt sound like fun but I really need to be concentrating on my grades in order to get into grad school in a year.
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    I have just started a straight job - a good one at that. Bought a car also. I haven't set a firm date yet but I will quit dancing in 2006, no later than May. I'm only going to dance Friday eves after work for the next few weeks/months. And I plan to buy a home this year.

    This is definitely a big year for me. Time for some normality

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    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

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    I will be making my palns for 2006 next week. I like o take that week betw christmas and new year and reflect and plan.


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    My partner and I are moving into a school bus and doing the things we want to do. She's quitting her corporate job (which is evil!), we're renting out the house, going home for the summer and dancing, going to NM to do an internship I want to do, going to OR to do an internship she wants to do, spending a lot of time camping and focusing on us and the things we've been learning, leading workshops with awesome people in different parts of the country, making jewelry and selling it at festivals, and visiting friends all over the country!

    Right after new years we're going to go pick up our new bus, and then we'll spend the next few months until I'm done with school converting it to run on used vegetable oil, hooking it up with solar panels, etc. I'm going to have a hydroponic greenhouse in the back! I'm so excited!



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