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    I guess I got lucky too. Before I even auditioned, I told both my real mom and stepmom. I am pretty close to both. I have always had their support 100%. In fact when I was trying to decide if I wanted to dance or not, my stepmom told me that if she was my age and had my body, she would do it in a heartbeat. Now that I have been dancing for a few months and achieving all of my financial goals and now getting to travel like I have always wanted to do, both of my moms are proud.

    I think they kind of live through me. They are always so interested in my stories from the club. All my stepmom asks is that I keep it clean and I do.

    But my dads on the other hand....they have NO idea.
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    My parents both know. My mom has known for about 4 years because her sister is only 5 years older than me and I was stupid enough to tell her.

    Theyre cool with it now.
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    Yeah, same situation here. Parents know- they must know- and have questioned me a few times in roundabout ways, but not for a few years now. We're all just happier with the denial/fantasy thing. I really do hate the lying thing, but they seem happy to live in fantasy-land, so who am I to muck that up?

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    My mom was a dancer herself. She actually told me to do it. It sounds bad..but looking back I think it was pretty good advice. This business teaches you so much about life in general. I don't talk about it with any of my other family members. I waitress as far as they know.



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    I'm not dancing anymore... but my mom did not know when I was doing it.

    I told her after I quit, and she didn't disown me like I was sure she would (she actually hugged me instead)

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    I think like 90% of my family now knows I strip. I guess I am a little too open for my own good sometimes. I told my little sis first, and she blurted it out to our parents, who then told EVERYBODY that they could think of (although my parents hate it, and think that I'm a ho or something)

    Every family is different... and I agree on the taking mom out to lunch (make sure she has a couple of glasses of wine in her) and then tell her flat out.

    *I was lucky tho... my parents live over an hour away*
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    wow, it's good to know that other girls are facing this situation - i always feel like i'm alone in the whole "should i tell my parents" dilemma! a lot of girls that i work with claim they've told their parents and they're cool with it - so it's nice to hear i'm not the only one whose parents would freak the hell out if they knew.
    as far as your mom - yeah, it sounds like she knows - but if she's anything like my mom, she either isn't admitting it to herself or she figures you can do whatever you want, it's your business, but you best be smart enough to hide it well and know not to flaunt it out of respect to her - kind of keep the denial going, keep everyone hapyp, and don't rock the boat (hence the laughing about it rather than dealing with it head on).
    i say just keep on doing what you're doing, unless it's really bothering you and you feel like it would be worth the consequences to face her directly about it.
    good luck!!

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    My friend was facing a similar situation. She felt her mom was suspicious and didnt know whether to just come right out and say it when one day her mom said something like, " I dont know how you manage to have so much money for going on holiday every year." (We go abroad about 4 times a year.) My friend was sort of in shock and didnt say anything and then her mom said, " Well, i suppose maybe i dont want to know" and changed the subject. Eventhough her mom kinda knows she even admitted herself that shes happier being in the dark. It different thinking you know something and being told something flat out, maybe your mom is happier just being in denile.

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    I say your mom knows, but doesn't want it confirmed. If she did, she'd ask right? (Well, this is just a guess. You know your mom -- would she ask if she wanted to know?)

    I guess I'm in the same place as many of you. I live a long way from home and only see my parents and older brother a few times a year. We talk on the phone and all love each other, but I wouldn't say we're a tight-knit bunch, so it wasn't hard to keep it from them UNTIL I was in an accident and in the hospital for several weeks. My parents came to town and stayed in my apartment, sleeping in my bedroom. They MUST HAVE seen the S Factor book on the shelf next to the bed, the six-inch-platform shoes lined up by the door, the wigs hanging in the closet, and the G-strings drying on the radiator. Whoops. But no one has ever said anything. I assume that they trust me to run my own life and don't want to know the details. I just hope they know I'm a stripper and not a hooker.

    Moral of the story: if you haven't told you're parents, and you want to save them a nasty shock in case anything happens to you, hide your stuff better.

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    I told my parents that I was bikini dancing a few years ago. I said it was only for a month, and they were pretty pissed off at that so I never told them I went over to stripping. Well, after 5 years of keeping it from them I finally told my mom a month ago. I was so sick of lying about my job, money, ect and altho it was hard, it was such a relief! She wasn't as upset as when I told her about bikini dancing, which seems really strange to me. Maybe she's known all along and is just happy I finally told her the truth? It's weird, her and my stepdad will ask me questions about it now.
    So, just come out in the open about it. She may be pissed at first, but it's better then years of lying, trust me!

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    it must be a realy HOT Thong for freaking to your mum !!

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    i was always the good daughter. the one who NEVER causes problems, uses drugs, or cuts class. i came out (about my dancing) to my folks last year when i was diagnosed with kidney cancer. i decided the stress of living a double life may have helped make me sick, so i came clean. they freaked. especially my mom, who said "what you're doing is prostitution". i was hurt, cuz i was really hoping for more emotional support.

    a year later, we talk, but it's awkward. when we see each other, they tell me that they're very ashamed of the choices i've made in my life, but that i'm still their daughter. it stings, but it feels better than making up stories to justify the money i make or the strange hours i work.

    mollyzmoon: if your mom can make jokes about stripping, that's cool. if she secretly knows about it and lets you live your life, that's really cool. and if she knows about the stripping and she's still there for you when your IBS flares up, that's awesome. you are blessed, girl!

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    Thanks so much aunt_ruby. That was a really sweet post.

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    When my parents found out it was really horrible. My dad wrote me this long letter that said just about every horrible thing you could ever imagine. It put a huge rift between us for a lot of years. Now they think I've been done with it for a long time, and I'm certainly not going to tell them any differently. I can't really blame them for their reaction. I suppose I would feel the same way if I was in their shoes. It makes me feel like the worst daughter in the world.
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    OMG i can totaly relate mollyzmoon with youre post!. I didnt tell my mom intill about 2 days ago.. Well i kinda told her.. I told her i get up there once and a wile. We both decided to keep it a secret from my dad and the rest of the family. They think im a "cocktail waitress" also. lol But its really hard to tell if moms are going to be okay with it or not.. i meen i have such a hard time telling a little white lie to my mom you dont even know. Im suprised i kept it a secret for this long.. hahhaa and it hasnt been long at all lol I would have to say just test the waters a little bit.. she prob knows. Moms are smarter than we tend to think hehee remember they have done it all already..

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    So Mollyzmoon.. Have You talked to You'r Mum about it yet?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl
    When my parents found out it was really horrible. My dad wrote me this long letter that said just about every horrible thing you could ever imagine. It put a huge rift between us for a lot of years. Now they think I've been done with it for a long time, and I'm certainly not going to tell them any differently. I can't really blame them for their reaction. I suppose I would feel the same way if I was in their shoes. It makes me feel like the worst daughter in the world.

    Don't feel like that. You'r not the wrost daughter. Even in the other post girls were saying how their parents were dissapointented. So You'r not alone.

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