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    Default Selfish Club Owners/Managers

    Hi

    I would like to know if the other ladies on this forum seem to have the same/similar problem i am having with working and wanting to work as a dancer in a club.

    Ok here we go, this is how it is, i want to work as a dancer for 2 - 3 nights a week mostly during the week and some week ends and wanting to do part time dancer work as my business is just starting out and the money would be great to have atm.. This is not the issue..

    The issue is that when they ask why do you want to only work those days/hours i say to them that i have a business that i run and need to work on that during the weekend mostly, to this the clubs normally say to me that they do not have dancer position available and that i am not suitable for their club..

    Now i understand if this was from 1 club but all clubs? I feel that the clubs like think that they own the girls and the girls rights to do things other then dance.

    With experience i have had in the past and the kind of large regular clientele i can bring to their club and they want to reject me and say NO? are they in their right mind, or do they just dont care about it, hoping that i will stop working my agency and clothing line to make full time for them?

    Is this making sense to any one? i hope so as i am very frusterated.

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    Default Re: Selfish Club Owners/Managers

    Don't tell them about your business. Tell them you have another job, a kid, whatever, and can only work weekdays.

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    I don't see why they would even care about what you do outside of the club.I don't understand that logic,or lack there of.
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    Wonder if you're in the same city as I am and hitting the same clubs... Totally can relate. What makes me angry is that we are considered independent contractors, not employees, and by definition can set our own hours and shouldn't have to explain ourselves to anyone. We are working, paying to work there, and bringing in business. It's idiotic to get into this line of work for the flexibility that it promises, and be willing to put up with some crap in exchange, only to find out you don't even have the kind of control and power you expected you would. Where the customers don't get you you, the management will. What's sad where I live at least, is that in clubs where the management is awesome there's no money....

    Sorry you have to deal with this.

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    I must agree with Bridgette in that you may want to lie to them a little...and instead of saying you have your own businesses to run so that you cannot work weekend change that to a second job... otoh, even saying you have a second job can work against you (as the owners want you to put working at the club as a priority)...

    I have been in a position where a club emphasised that they want its dancers to put it first... so if you do have other employment... to basically choose the club over that other work (in the end).

    Otherwise, I do not understand the logic


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    You obviously work in a city where dancers work a schedule. Many cities have no schedules and girls come and go as they please only having to work mnimum hours of lets say 6 hours a shift.

    Dancers in most cities are a dime a dozen. Club owners aren't looking at you for your intellectual and sales ability. Just as a pretty face and hot body.

    Dont' discuss hours with them, just ask if there is scheduling and let them talk.

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    Can you say you're in school and have to work around your class schedule? It IS irritating though. I went out of town a few weeks ago and got an earful from the manager when I got back -- where was I, what was I doing, and so on. The club doesn't have a schedule, so it's not as if I had any obligation to be there. <grrr>

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