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    So last night at my club was out of control, I am talking major money being exchanged (most of the girls left with $400+), but I sorta missed out I was sitting talking to my regular (who spends decent money on me....most of the time) when another guy who I have never seen before came by my table and told me I was georgous and asked me to come by his table to talk when I had a sec. My customer was in the middle of a story so I did not want to be rude and get up and leave. While my custy was finishing his story another girl went and sat with the guy who came up to me. Thinking it was no big thing I let it go and continued talking/dancing for my custy. Well when the girl who went over and talked to the formentioned guy went on stage he threw $900 worth of $20s on her. I was like well shit. I asked her later if she knew him and she said no, he was in from out of town and was planning on spending major money on the first good looking girl who paid attention to him. He ended up spending over a grand on her. I feel like such a dumb ass for not going over, My regular only spent, like $50 on me I still did really well for a Monday night, but not over a grand well
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    Default Re: Why am I so lazy?!

    Hmmm. 900 in one night from a guy you never met and likely won't ever meet again - or thousands over time from a guy you know will be back.

    Sometimes the choices are hard.

    I would be a little more diligent with my time on the reg though. Perhaps excuse yourself now and then to "mingle."

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    OMG! it is so easy after awhile to get lazy, you've become too comfortable there so you treat yourself as 'part of the furniture' once you're in this zone it's very hard to get back out of it. remember, THIS IS YOUR JOB! you were talking to a regular.... exactly! it's familiar and safe, he's always going to be there, you have to milk the unfamiliar ones for all their worth, then, when you need a break, sit down with your regular for a chat and a few "guaranteed $$". i found when i went back to dancing after 18 months off, it's was extremely hard to speak to unfamiliar people again, i gravitated towards my old regulars and familiar club faces. i found the best thing to do was to tell myself...
    ....."ok, i'm here for six hours, half an hour of that is for personal breaks,
    about an hour will be taken up on stage,
    spend no more than one hour catching up with ALL regulars (remember they'll be here next week)
    and that leaves me with three and a half hours to meet new people and make new regulars, three and a half hours divided by the 1/2hour it'd probably take talking to the newbies to get them into a lap dance, three hours of dancing time equals potentially $600 (in australia) i don't know what your rates are but we average $50 for 12 minutes (three minutes to put your clothes back on, thank the custy and re-gloss the lips to hit the floor again plus the $100 or so you'll get from your regulars in 'their' allocated time.( by setting yourself time limits i find it easier to keep yourself out of the slump, it's soooooo easy to get comfy having a chat) $700+ not bad for six hours work,,,,hmm maybe i could take tomorrow off if i work my ass off for six hours tonight,,,)


    it worked for me, i left again soon after but it got me what i needed so i could get out quicker before i burnt myself out again and found myself in another slump. by keeping to this technique i know i'll be able to return to dancing again one day if i need to
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    Re: Why am I so lazy?!

    DancerSarah,

    Too much regular could be bad for your bank account. I myself will get lazy with regular dancers and not spend as much. This could be because the dancer is not keeping me aroused or I'm having too much fun talking. Regardless the object is to exchange sexual entertainment for money. At least that is my case.

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    I read somewhere on SW awhile ago and they said you have to develop a money lust. Now I have a love for money and it keeps me working all night. When I 1st started dancing I didnt have any bills not even a cell phone bill. Now I have just the right amount to keep me going yet enough to have some left over.
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    i wouldn't say you were lazy! don't worry - i know how you feel, this happens to me too. its crazy how you will kick yourself over nights when you still do well but you still think "not well enough!" missing out on customers like you mentioned right before your eyes is the worst! but it happens to all of us. waiting for someone to finish a story, leaving the floor to get a drink of water/bite to eat/restroom are all things that happen that get in the way of a good sale one in a hundred times, but think of all the times that you DO hit the lucky number, whether you know it or not, or the nights when you bank while everyone else does lousy, im sure these happen much more often! brush it off, i know its hard when its that in your face (im STILL kicking myself over stupid missed opportunities in the past!) but you have to remember that a lot of this job is timing timing timing and luck -- most of which we dont' have all that much control over.

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    Think about the long run!! how much has your regular spent on you?? not to mention how much more money do you think he will spend on you? just by sitting and talking with him you probably got more respect from him then getting up and dancing for the other guy! I would have stayed with my regular if i was in the same situation how ever saying that most of my regulars tell me to go dance for other men and come back if i am ever requested! It is 12 of one half a dozen of the other

    Dont warry about it, there is more money to made out of your regular in the long run!!!

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    Fuck regs, I'd have been pissed to miss out on the easy $900 too. Oh well, win some you lose some!

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    That sucks you missed out on the thousand bucks. But there's no way you could have known. I used to have a regular that would spend around 3 hundred on me every week. One day a new guy told the manager that he would like me to come by since he thought I was hot. I excused myself from the regular, and the new guy only bought one dance, then ditched me for a girl that promised extras. My regular got mad cause I ditched him and now spends way less money, if he even comes around at all. So yeah, you win some, you lose some.

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