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    Default How do a break this to my ATF?

    Well for me the miracle has finally happened. i found a girlfriend.

    after many years of observing strippers in the wild. i've used that knowledge to tame the beast so to speak.

    My question is how do break it too my atf that i've finally found her and i'll not be coming back??
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    Default Re: How do a break this to my ATF?

    Quote Originally Posted by Asbat
    My question is how do break it too my atf that i've finally found her and i'll not be coming back??
    What makes you think that you owe that to her? She's not your girlfriend after all and she'll find other customers to fill your void.

    And congrats on the new SO.
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    Default Re: How do a break this to my ATF?

    Doc, please check topics started by poster.

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    Default Re: How do a break this to my ATF?

    Bring your girlfriend to the club and have her tell your atf.

    lol

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    Default Re: How do a break this to my ATF?

    So because you have a girlfriend you don't want to hit SCs anymore?

    Methinks someone is in for a big and unpleasant surprise...
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    Default Re: How do a break this to my ATF?

    Other than missing what money you may have been spending, I doubt your departure will signal the end of her world. Customers are like downtown buses...theres a new one coming around the corner every few minutes.

    Whats interesting to me is that you feel compelled to stop hitting the clubs because you now have a girlfriend. Did she issue an edict? Does your clubbing somehow represent a betrayal or infidelity? Does she even need to know?

    FBR
    Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    So because you have a girlfriend you don't want to hit SCs anymore?

    Methinks someone is in for a big and unpleasant surprise...
    I'm actually happy for him. Good for him he doesn't need to go back to SC's...I wish i found a bf like that!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    So because you have a girlfriend you don't want to hit SCs anymore?

    Methinks someone is in for a big and unpleasant surprise...
    I use to go to strip clubs in between GFs.

    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    Well, you could borrow from the late Phil Hartman, playing Frank Sinatra, and tell her:

    "Your money's on the dresser; I'm tru wichoo, baby."
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Asbat
    Well for me the miracle has finally happened. i found a girlfriend.

    after many years of observing strippers in the wild. i've used that knowledge to tame the beast so to speak.

    My question is how do break it too my atf that i've finally found her and i'll not be coming back??
    Slide up to her and say "Hey, did you ever hear of this game called Ditch That Bitch?"

    If you have no OTC, no clue what her real name is, no phone, no IM, no text message, no... - then I guess ya don't have a way to contact her ... and she made it that way!!! Oh... well... you would if you could....

    Put your ATF in the past and focus on your real girlfriend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by alicia0033
    I'm actually happy for him. Good for him he doesn't need to go back to SC's...I wish i found a bf like that!
    Well, "need" may be the operative word here in terms of why he was going to clubs in the first place. I didnt go back through his posts to see if he was looking for love in the club or just killing time and having fun.

    But, hey, Im happy for him too. Hopefully, his salvation will stick.

    FBR
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    Default Re: How do a break this to my ATF?

    I got a question, why are you looking at your girl friend like she was a wild animal?

    Tame the beast? What are you? Some African lion hunter?

    Do you look upon all women as wild beasts?

    Forget it. Rotsa Ruck.

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    i wasn't looking for love in the club. i was looking for the eye of the hurricane.
    place where i can go and be myself and not be judged.

    and what i mean by tame the beast is. before i started i was socially inepdt
    with them i learned to tame the beast so to speak
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    Learning social graces via stripclub. Thats like learning how to invest via the Casino. But whatever works.
    Never stand begging for that which you have the power to earn.

    The truth lies in a man's dreams... perhaps in this unhappy world of ours whose madness is better than a foolish sanity.

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    ^^^baptism by fire my friend! the best kind of experience if u ask me. either scars u 4 life or turns u into an inconsiderate misogynist pimp. can't lose either way

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    I'd write it on a baseball bat. That way you can tell her by hitting her with it, and save her the emotional heartache of crying immidiatly by leaving her unconcious. IF she wakes up, she'll be glad you went about it this way.

    Or you could tattoo your GF's name between your nipples.

    Or make a shirt 'I have a GF. Her name is Thelma'
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    Just in case things don't work out with you and your GF, bring your ATF flowers and break the news to her.... this will get you browine points and maybe some free dances.

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    ^^^donnnnn't!

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    Just tell her, she ought to be happy for you....I've known prostitutes that were happy that some of their clients found mates. Not enough happiness in this world, ya know...

    & Deogol just leaked my Saturday night ritual, where I wash & fondle my money & roll around in it on the bed. But I use cheaper soaps. LOL

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    Tell your ATF you have a GF and won't be coming as often. When you have complaints about your GF, the ATF will listen.

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    Default Re: How do a break this to my ATF?

    Personally speaking, I would like my regular clients to tell me they won't be coming by anymore. I've grown attatched to a few and I'd wonder if they stopped coming by. I would feel happy for them and I would just like to know they were okay (and not hit by a bus or something like that) If you think she is a nice enough girl, go there for your last dance and tell her she was your ATF but you found a relationship and won't be stopping by anytime soon. If she was counting on the regular $ you brought it, you may want to tell her for that reason too.

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    Default Re: How do a break this to my ATF?

    Quote Originally Posted by Asbat
    Well for me the miracle has finally happened. i found a girlfriend.

    after many years of observing strippers in the wild. i've used that knowledge to tame the beast so to speak.

    My question is how do break it too my atf that i've finally found her and i'll not be coming back??
    How long did this (finding a girlfriend) take? Is she your FIRST girlfriend? How long have you been with her?

    I wouldn't be in a big hurry to go burning any bridges. Good luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us
    I wouldn't be in a big hurry to go burning any bridges. Good luck.
    Good advice, as usual, from Yoda...

    I have never personally understood the whole concept of an ATF, though I sure as shit help out the dancers in my club with theirs!

    If I were a customer, I would avoid any exclusive attachment to any one dancer--but I might be risking the wrath of many dancer members and friends by saying so here, so I will cease and desist now, lol.

    PS Yoda, thanks for the post in that other thread, I have always thought you were pretty cool. And MM, you should make a video of that, or offer it as a webcam, hahaha.
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    Default Re: How do a break this to my ATF?

    He was using the club and his ATF as a training ground for socialization. ?

    I have to wonder at this person's background and family. In any case I hope it helped. I'm sorry, but I can't help thinking how much your GF is getting from you. A SC is a bad place for getting used to women. It should be an unnatural place for socializing. Unless you're a Frank Sinatra type looking for 'broads'.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    What happens after he's with his SO for a while, then starts missing the ATF?

    Go see her on the sly?

    Rick

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