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    Default Your top advice

    With experience we all find those certain things that work for us.

    If you could give ONE piece of advice to other dancers what would it be?

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    Default Re: Your top advice

    Always smile and project enthusiasm.

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    Default Re: Your top advice

    Pick the customers that are interested in you and have money, don't burn yourself out trying to hustle broke kids or assholes.



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    Default Re: Your top advice

    Even if you're having a bad night fake that you are wildly happy, smile smile smile, make the experience about the guy.......oops that was more than one
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    Default Re: Your top advice

    Be yourself.

    I've found that the more honest and sincere I am, the more the guy wants to spend on me and be with me.

    Though a little bit of BSing every now and then isn't bad either...

    Oh, and enjoy your job and show it!
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    Default Re: Your top advice

    Classy trumps skanky every time


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    Default Re: Your top advice

    extras.......!!!

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    Default Re: Your top advice

    ^^^^Gross, hope your kidding!!!

    Always giving eye contact.

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    Default Re: Your top advice

    Best advice I was ever given....

    If you wouldn't do it infront of your boyfriend/hubby/SO - don't do it on stage!

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    Default Re: Your top advice

    1. Always stay busy, never linger around. Especially if your having a bad night. Even if you have to walk around the club, go back and forth to the dressing room or bath room. Never make yourself look like your out on the hunt. That could some times turn guys away. Look for your most potential prey while on stage.

    2. If a custy turns down a dance always be graceful and lady like. Say " thank you any ways, make sure you enjoy your night." Guys like that. It shows your professional side.

    3. And be on time. Nothing is worst than being consistenly late to your good paying job.
    "Make the money , don't let it make you ." ~The Players Club~

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    Default Re: Your top advice

    Don't waste time sitting at a table too long and don't rely on the alcohol.

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    Default Re: Your top advice

    If you treat yourself and others (customers, co-workers, girls) with respect, they will treat you with respect. In turn, your $value$ will be higher and you will deal with less bullshit.

    i.e. "classy trumps trashy"
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    Suck in you gut and stick out your titties!! Always smile and kill them with kindness, it confuses them

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    Default Re: Your top advice

    Always have fresh breath. Nothing turns a guy off from a pretty girl he was considering getting a dance from that hot mouth. Simple, easy always works.

    Dress for your shape and colors that match your skin. Example: If your a bigger girl polka dots are not your friend; neither are stripes.
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    Default Re: Your top advice

    1. Remember that over 50% of the guys that you'll dance for are guys that would consider you WAY out of their league... so let them indulge in some fantasy (i.e. Like you're interested in them but not too interested in them... beware of triggering a stalker!).

    2. Try to talk make a complete circuit of the venue. If you constantly miss a section you may be missing some guy with a lot of money that's interested in multiple dances. (Shy guys sit in a corner and are interested in some conversation before requesting dances)

    Yeah, I know it was only supposed to be 1 thing.

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    Default Re: Your top advice

    Sell yourself as you are.

    But remember you are selling a fantasy, be prepared to create one.

    Turn in an Oscar winning performance. And always maintain the upperhand.

    Never lose the main goal. You are there to make money.

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    Default Re: Your top advice

    Save money!

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    Walk out of the dressing room, across the floor, on the stage, like you OWN the place!!

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    always have a positive attitude going in.

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    Default Re: Your top advice

    Quote Originally Posted by sexy_celeste

    If you could give ONE piece of advice to other dancers what would it be?
    Stop breaking the LAW asshat!!!!! (for those extras girls, lol)

    Know all the local laws and check out SW (for the noobs)

    Wear the right makeup and colors (for the tomboys)

    Have fun and smile (for everyone)
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    Default Re: Your top advice

    One piece of advice - get on the internet and onto stripperweb

    I'm not kidding. This place is great for newbies and veterans alike. The more dancers around Australia that get on here the better too as that means more information for people, like me, who are always 'on the lookout' for info. about clubs around the country.


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    Well I haven't been dancing too long, but at this stage of the game, I would have to say that the most important thing is CONFIDENCE.
    Never walk around like you are unsure of your surroundings. Keep control but don't be pushy (with custys and co-workers).
    Adopt a professional, yet kind attitude toward everyone in the club and you have a better chance of making sales and friends too.

    Allow yourself the opportunity to have feelings, but don't dwell on the negative for more than 20 minutes, because you will see a decrease in your earnings when you sulk in the bathroom for too long (I think that's a given).

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    Default Re: Your top advice

    Don't take anything said or done at work personally. Rejection, crudeness from customers, catty girls.... Just let things like this go in one ear and out the other.

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    Default Re: Your top advice

    never rant to guys or spill stories about your "bad day", they wanna hear how awesome everything is ( you are an actress). Don't go to work in a bad mood

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    treat the guys like human beings not walking wallets.
    money will come to you from any way even not connected to work, because of karma.

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