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    Default Stop pinching my nipples!

    Went to my local club last night,
    I was sharing much of my Christmas bonus with all who worked there. I saw several new dancers and was generous with everyone. A dancer who I've known for years went in while I was at the tip rail.She made direct hits on both nipples. Not just a friendly tweek but a pinch, squeeze, and twist. Not to be an ass, but she kept doing this all evening. I would be sitting at the bar and she would come up from behind. It was a busy night, and she had lots of drinks with me and others. If it was almost anyone else, I would been very assertive and make it clear that she was not making me happy. I'm sure that she was just being affectionate, but besides the the point that it did hurt, others in there were watching and it was setting a bad example. What would the best way to tell a friend nicely that she was out of line.

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    Just tell her that you don't like when she does that and tell her to stop. Tell her you won't buy any drinks for her or get any dances from her if she keeps doing it. Just be honest about it. Or if you want to be more silly about it, just say that since you aren't allowed to pinch her nipples, then she's not allowed to pinch yours. That would get me to stop right away. Of course, if you say that to the wrong girl, she may just let you, but I think that most dancers would get the hint and stop.

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    I would have just pulled her off to the side and told her directly (not in front of others) that what she was doing actually hurt and I didn't like it and to please stop. I wouldn't say anything more about it other than that. I wouldn't make any big fuss, and I wouldn't embarrass her in front of others because she may not be aware that her actions are causing you pain or embarrassment or even setting a bad example. She may be oblivioius... just be direct and nonconfrontational about it.
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    Hahah,

    You all are crazy.

    WHAT ELSE ARE MALE NIPPLES FOR?!

    Hahaha, seriously tho. Swing from mine. I don't care. Dancer I know knows just when to hit 'em. Aphrodisiac supreme.

    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Titty Twister right back to ya.

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    Just mention that you don't like it or that it does nothing for you. She may be surprised since many men do like it and the most of the ones that don't are too afraid to say anything. Personally, I can't stand it and let them know.

    Remember that you're there to have fun and spend money. If you're not having fun, you're not spending money as freely as you could. That's just a bad thing for everyone and she knows that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    Hahah,

    You all are crazy.

    WHAT ELSE ARE MALE NIPPLES FOR?!

    I like to paint a pair of eyes over em and a smily mouth under em.

    Sometimes I will paint two faces talking to each other. Then I go out to the beach and see what reaction I get. Social experiments are fun!

    Seriously though... guy nipples are not as "pliable" as female nipples. We are all strong and hard.

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    "I don't like it."
    "It does not feel good."

    She will stop after discovering that you are offput by nipple pinching. When I do something that a customers dislikes and find out, I feel absolutely horrible. I am brought back to the reality that just because I am a dancer does not mean that anything I do will turn a guy on.

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    Pinch her butt cheeks. Ask her if she likes it.

    And be prepared to say something else if she does.
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    Default Re: Stop pinching my nipples!

    Quote Originally Posted by Lio
    Went to my local club last night,
    I'm sure that she was just being affectionate, but besides the the point that it did hurt, others in there were watching and it was setting a bad example. What would the best way to tell a friend nicely that she was out of line.
    "Hon, that really hurts, please don't do it anymore."

    Why do we insist on making this sort of thing rocket science? It's our money and ultimately, that's what they want ITC. If we let them know simply and politley
    that they are doing something that may effect cash flow they will stop. If they don't they are too stupid or drunk to spend time and money on.
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    Default Re: Stop pinching my nipples!

    mine are pierced & don't mind girls pinching them.
    i don't know how many times i've tipped a dancer & they'll pinch my nipples then say i'm pierced too & pull their g-string out a little to show me their hood

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