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    I don't go to strip clubs often, maybe once a year at most. But the last time I was in one I saw very some very conservative tipping going on, while I was tipping every girl that got off stage a dollar when she walked by me. I just think if a girl gets on a stage and takes her clothes off for your entertainment pleasure- you should give her a dollar at least!? Every single girl! I even made a remark about this to one girl and she just nodded her head and said "hell yeah!"

    If you go to a strip I think it's an absolute must to bring a alot of one dollar bills and hand them out generously. It's just not right to sit there empty handed and unappreciative. It just shows no class. Period.

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    A dollar is not enough [that sounds like james bond's next movie, lol]

    But seriously, what's a stripper gonna do with a buck? Minimum tip for standard stage show should be $5 and up, given the high cost of home heating oil and fuel nowadays. And if she spreads it in your face on stage as most strippers tend to do for me as I hold my fat tip roll over my effeminately crossed knees it's a standard $20 tip. Trust me, the more you tip the better your SC experience will be.

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    Bravo, Downey. *applauds*
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    Huh. Sounds like a couple of DJs on here!

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    Ok, then I want a better show. When every girl does the exact same "show", it gets a little irritating.
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    Kinkin, the guys in the club when I was in there weren't giving any money which really is tacky. I mean of course 5 and twentys you would love to of course get, but when guys just sit there and don't give anything that's like going to church and not putting anything in the money plate. If you are going to sit there- contribute.

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    Red, it's not suppose to be a show for one person only it's suppose to be a show in general. If you want a private show you have to buy a dance. I can't do pole work worth a shit and because of my anemia I can't crawl on the floor or I will look like a beat wife. So, I just stand there and move around the best I can on 6 inch heels. I mean if you come to give me a dollar I will get I close to you as I can without falling off the stage and give 10-20 seconds but face it, it's a dollar and if you are in the club watching you should be giving the girl a dollar. Sure you pay to get in but we do too.

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    When I get tipped I give a better show, you get what you pay for. Needless to say it's not pay as you go, it's pay per view. You want a good show?

    You want attention?
    Pay for it. No dancer/stripper/entertainer in her right mind is going to do something for nothing and if you think she is, your insane. There's always some reason that cute girl is sitting with that guy, be it if he is getting her drinks or whatever.

    Guys you have to give to get. I LOVE preforming for an audience that appreciates what I'm doing , thats half the fun of doing what I do. It's really dull to be on strange twirling around a pole while some nimrod is watching TV on the big screen. Like his wife looks like me.. NOT!

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    Wow, I mean WOW...What a brown noser! I'm sure my view is gonna ruffle feathers as it's a lil blunt for the pink side but....
    Yeah every guy that sits at the stage should tip, but c'mon who's ass ya kissing?
    I commend ya for tippin every girl as she got off stage..next time try tippin them as they do their stage work, and make it more than a buck if yer gonna post about it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Downey_Guy
    I don't go to strip clubs often, maybe once a year at most. But the last time I was in one I saw very some very conservative tipping going on, while I was tipping every girl that got off stage a dollar when she walked by me.

    I just think if a girl gets on a stage and takes her clothes off for your entertainment pleasure- you should give her a dollar at least!? Every single girl!
    If I were interested in every single girl, I'd perhaps consider this plausible.

    If you go to a strip I think it's an absolute must to bring a alot of one dollar bills and hand them out generously. It's just not right to sit there empty handed and unappreciative. It just shows no class. Period.
    Unfortunately, in the real world...

    - Some of us make trips on the spur of the moment and don't pick up our tiproll money until after the bank closes, and ATM's for the most part don't spit out ones.
    - Some clubs don't do a particularly good job of handing out a stash of ones as change on drink/cover transactions. I in fact, ran out of ones on my last trip and couldn't flag down the lazy ass waitress to save my life. So I left and no one got tipped.
    - Most customers who spend big money at strip clubs are marginally interested in stage shows at best. They're not there to show equal appreciation to every dancer, but tremendous appreciation to the select few they have their eyes on. They're dealing in $20's, $50's, and $100's, buying drinks, dances, and champagne rooms, not $1's and $5's at the tiprail.
    - When most guys do tip the stage, it's usually not to show the dancer appreciation for her gymnastic/artistic abilities, but to tell her "there's more where that came from" and you'd like to make an extra $20-200, I'm sitting right over there.

    Yeah, the cheap asses who take up prime seats and piss off the dancers by tipping nothing are rather annoying. Very annoying in fact, when you're the only one tipping in a room full of them and you feel as though you're subsidizing their entertainment, but there's not a whole lot those of us who do tip can do about their kind.

    I have a game plan when I go to the club, and I don't feel that I should have to change it to make up for the bad ettiquette of others. I wish that I could say otherwise, but eleven years of field experience has shown me that trying to be nice to everyone usually gets me as much hounding for more money as it does gratitude for the money that I gave.
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    Default Re: Guys, we need to tip more!

    Quote Originally Posted by Downey_Guy
    I don't go to strip clubs often, maybe once a year at most.
    I'm not sure how a once a year customer has any real basis for a realistic viewpoint on club spending. Your dollar tips, while Im sure were briefly appreciated, had no real impact on the dancers earnings, particularly when spread out among a large number of ladies. On the other hand, the hypothetical guy sitting at the table next to you who you consider cheap and ungenerous might very well be a regular who drops several times what you spend during each of his many visits. He just chooses to spend those dollars on LD's and VIP's, not stage tipping.

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    hell if i went only once a year i could hand out $100's instead of $1's to every girl.
    kind of reminds me of al bundy, he was in a contest to win $10,000 & peg said what would you do with $10,000 make 10,000 trips to the nudy bar? al said nope just one good one

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    depends on the girl,if she is nice,not bitchy and really makes you feel good,I like to give big tips to those because I really like them.

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    Although I agree in a perfect world that every customer would tip every dancer, I prefer that the customers who really like me be the ones to tip me. Why would I want to forego a tip from a generous customer who doesn't like me? Because I know not to waste my time or his in trying to sell him a dance.

    Now, I have been in the situation where the whole room wasn't tipping any dancer. Just a bunch of broke guys sitting around enjoying the free show. This is not okay. If you really can't afford to go to the strip club, then don't go. The show will suck and the dancers will be grumpy. How long do you stay and work at your job for free? What if your boss wants you to work weekends but won't pay you to do so?

    That is what it is like to have a room full of broke (and/or cheap) customers. The show will suck and any dancers who are good at what they do will move on to greener pastures.


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    I wish Aussie guys would understand this! In Sydney you get guys sitting in gyno row without tipping at all!

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    If a dancer is at all credible as a dancer, each dance onstage should get her at least a dollar from everyone, certainly everyone at the stage or otherwise watching. But not necessarily every dancer. If she is up there for 3 songs per set, that would mean at least $3 from each. If you want to get her attention or she gives you special attention, give her more guys. Don't be cheap; what is this free public TV or something?

    And get out there more than once a year too.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Now, I have been in the situation where the whole room wasn't tipping any dancer. Just a bunch of broke guys sitting around enjoying the free show. This is not okay. If you really can't afford to go to the strip club, then don't go. The show will suck and the dancers will be grumpy. How long do you stay and work at your job for free? What if your boss wants you to work weekends but won't pay you to do so?
    Do you want cheap? How about getting into a club for free... not buying a beer or a cheap beer at that... then positioning yourself so you can get a good eye-full of a nude table dance that is happening near you.

    Just wanted to put that one out there.


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    Quote Originally Posted by MishaBliss
    I wish Aussie guys would understand this! In Sydney you get guys sitting in gyno row without tipping at all!
    Also, if the club doesn't ACTIVELY advertise it's tipping dollars (in $1 or $2 denominations) as well as enforce a 'only tippers in gyno row' rule then it makes it even harder for guys to be active tippers here in Aust.

    Our $1 and $2 are coins not notes - no dancer in her right mind will accept coins Therefore the 'cheapest note' to be used is $5 and that can seem 'too much' to tip EVERY dancer with esp. when they only want to attract the attention of a specific dancer (or dancers).

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    I suppose this wouldn't be a good time to present my case that dancers should accept grocery coupons and movie discounts in lieu of tips?
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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl
    Do you want cheap? How about getting into a club for free... not buying a beer or a cheap beer at that... then positioning yourself so you can get a good eye-full of a nude table dance that is happening near you.

    Just wanted to put that one out there.
    I can relate to that... I work day shift and mon-fri not only is it a no cover but they also get 2 for 1 drafts AND a catered lunch ( which 9 times out of 10 is rather good). We get a lunch bunch 3-4 times a week that come in for an hour or two will have a couple rounds of beers, help themselves to the free lunch, go back for seconds never tip or get dances and then get up and go back to work pisses me off!!!!!!


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    If I'm sitting at the stage watching the dance, or if I'm watching the dance while standing near the stage, I tip.

    If I'm not watching, I don't tip.

    One dollar is a little cheap IMO. But it depends how much a customer is tipping overall. I'd rather tip more to the dancers I actually watch, rather than attempting to tip $1 to every single dancer that makes it onto the stage.

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    My .02 cents....

    If I'm sitting at the rail, I try to tip every dancer at least once during the set. I will tip some dancers more than others, whether it be because I know them, I want to know them, or simply because they dance better. If I'm sitting away from the rail, I will go up and tip dancers that catch my attention and that I'd like to come back after the set to have some more dances. In those cases it is certainly more than just $1.

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    I give at least a buck or two everytime a girl comes by. There's a reason you sit at the stage... if you don't want to thank the girl for getting naked, get up and move to the back of the room.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl
    ... Our $1 and $2 are coins not notes - no dancer in her right mind will accept coins Therefore the 'cheapest note' to be used is $5 and that can seem 'too much' to tip EVERY dancer ....
    Here's an idea - instead of the coins the club accepts bills (or $1-2 coins) and re-issues certificates that can be reused only as tips to the dancers.

    Precautions to avoid easy counterfeiting would include sequential numbering each night and printed for use only on that particular night. Dancers would exchange them for real cash when they accumulate a big number so the 'scrip' are always in circulation that night. There is no premium for this exchange as the costs are covered in the cost at the door or as overhead. Call it funny money or whatever clever phrase you Australians come up with.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    I don't sit at the stage when I go to a club. If I like the dancer on stage I will go up once or twice over the course of her stage show and she will end up getting $5 to $10 dollars from me. I don't really go for the spread eagle stuff so it won't get any extra out of me. I would much rather spend the bulk of my money on Privete dances anyway.
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