Okay. Heres the situation.
I have a chance to go out on a date with a singer. Very popular R&B singer who just happens to be related to my sisters man.
I met him when I was 19 and he told my sisters man he wanted to hook up with me and I told him I didnt want to. I didnt tell the singer this. He and I never actually talked.
Now two years later, I run into him again, ( he was home for the holidays) while getting my hair done, he asks for the number to where we live and I gave it to him and that was that.
So he calls and tells my sisters boyfriend that he still is interested in going out with me and he didnt ask me when he saw me because he is shy and hes never really had a real girlfriend or know how to approah them. Which is weird because even though I dont think he is all that attractive, Im sure some girl would have been willing to date him for the simple fact that he's famous.
Here is the problem, I am soooo not attracted to this guy and if I go out with him it will be ONLY because of the fact that he is a celebrity. I am not this kind of person. I do not like to use people for what they can offer me. I want to genuinely like the person other wise what real fun would it be?
My sister and my friends all told me, girl he is a celebrity, you dont have to have sex with him just go on the date! I feel this would be a waste because I know I wouldnt want it to go any further.
I also have a man.We are really on the rocks right now but I still respect the rules of our relationship even though we may be over soon. And I would feel terrible doing this behind his back even if nothing does happen.
I am really leaning towards going out with this guy because of what my friends and family are telling me. He seems like a really nice person and a date probably wouldnt be too bad. It still doesnt feel right but Im only 21 and you only live once right?![]()



We are really on the rocks right now but I still respect the rules of our relationship even though we may be over soon. And I would feel terrible doing this behind his back even if nothing does happen.

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. He is a simple guy came out maybe six or less years ago. I would say who he is but who knows who else is in these forums!!!

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