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    Okay. Heres the situation.

    I have a chance to go out on a date with a singer. Very popular R&B singer who just happens to be related to my sisters man.

    I met him when I was 19 and he told my sisters man he wanted to hook up with me and I told him I didnt want to. I didnt tell the singer this. He and I never actually talked.

    Now two years later, I run into him again, ( he was home for the holidays) while getting my hair done, he asks for the number to where we live and I gave it to him and that was that.

    So he calls and tells my sisters boyfriend that he still is interested in going out with me and he didnt ask me when he saw me because he is shy and hes never really had a real girlfriend or know how to approah them. Which is weird because even though I dont think he is all that attractive, Im sure some girl would have been willing to date him for the simple fact that he's famous.

    Here is the problem, I am soooo not attracted to this guy and if I go out with him it will be ONLY because of the fact that he is a celebrity. I am not this kind of person. I do not like to use people for what they can offer me. I want to genuinely like the person other wise what real fun would it be?

    My sister and my friends all told me, girl he is a celebrity, you dont have to have sex with him just go on the date! I feel this would be a waste because I know I wouldnt want it to go any further.

    I also have a man. We are really on the rocks right now but I still respect the rules of our relationship even though we may be over soon. And I would feel terrible doing this behind his back even if nothing does happen.

    I am really leaning towards going out with this guy because of what my friends and family are telling me. He seems like a really nice person and a date probably wouldnt be too bad. It still doesnt feel right but Im only 21 and you only live once right?

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    Celebrity or not.. Why consider going out with someone you have no interest in? Sure, you'll get bragging rights, and be able to say "I went out with _____", but if you don't like him.. Why bother?

    I'd politely just turn him down.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scorpia
    I also have a man ( we are really on the rocks right now) but I still respect the rules of our relationship even though we may be over soon. And I would feel terrible doing this behind his back even if nothing does happen.

    I am really leaning towards going out with this guy because of what my friends and family are telling me. He seems like a really nice person and a date probably wouldnt be too bad. It still doesnt feel right but Im only 21 and you only live once right?
    1st paragraph says you wont
    2nd says you will

    Break up with your man, give the guy a shot. Just don't be pressured and enjoy a fun evening.

    If you don't want to break up with your man and know you'll feel guilty, don't go!

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    Beware. My sister works with musicians & most of the them are cheating pigdogs.... & these aren't even big-time guys......the same fast brain cycles that make musicians also make for sociopathic people. Hence "The Rock Star Ego."
    Just tell me it ain't R Kelly!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    1st paragraph says you wont
    2nd says you will

    Break up with your man, give the guy a shot. Just don't be pressured and enjoy a fun evening.

    If you don't want to break up with your man and know you'll feel guilty, don't go!

    Mast
    Sorry I know it looks confusing. Im saying that I really dont think its right BUT I just might go ahead and do it considering the fact that I may be single soon anyway and it probably wouldnt be too bad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scorpia
    Sorry I know it looks confusing. Im saying that I really dont think its right BUT I just might go ahead and do it considering the fact that I may be single soon anyway and it probably wouldnt be too bad.
    I understand.

    But if it was improtant enough for you to mention it, you'll probably make yourself regret it in your head. There is nothing wrong with telling him/ending it first.

    Forget Regret. Or life is yours to miss.

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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine
    Beware. My sister works with musicians & most of the them are cheating pigdogs.... & these aren't even big-time guys......the same fast brain cycles that make musicians also make for sociopathic people. Hence "The Rock Star Ego."
    Just tell me it ain't R Kelly!
    Its definately not R Kelly or anyone else whos been in the news lately . He is a simple guy came out maybe six or less years ago. I would say who he is but who knows who else is in these forums!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rhiannon
    Celebrity or not.. Why consider going out with someone you have no interest in? Sure, you'll get bragging rights, and be able to say "I went out with _____", but if you don't like him.. Why bother?

    I'd politely just turn him down.
    You'd go out with Conan even tho you think he's trash!
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    ^?????

    I passed up the chance to date an Ultimate Fighting Championship trainer- because I REALLY lost his card!!!! I thought people were lying when they said " I lost the phone number." Apparently, some are truthful...... I really screwed up there.

    But my point is, if you're lucky, celebrity types can be nice people too, but money tends to make anyone megalomaniacal.....look at Bobbie Brown & Whitney Houston. Dang shame.

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    I don't know why people think they have to become acquainted with others only for romantic purposes. Is that your only motive for meeting any guy? What is it with this attraction thing anyway? Is the guy embarassingly ugly? If you are interested only in finding someone, you are missing out on some potentially enjoyable experiences. At 21 you most certainly have lots of time left to find romance.

    You don't know the person very well at all, and he just might be a very interesting person with cool stories. I think you are missing out on a big part of your life. Be adventurous, but don't just go out with him for bragging rights.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    You'd go out with Conan even tho you think he's trash!
    Wait.. What? LOL
    I think Conan's trash? Nevah! And I'd do soooooo much more than just "go out" with him..

    :sigh:

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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine
    but money tends to make anyone megalomaniacal.....look at Bobbie Brown & Whitney Houston. Dang shame.
    Or Tom Cruise! Eep.

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    Well met my share at this point!

    My favorite without a huge EGO was a guitar player for Poison! Very very nice, but not my type. He is VERY well known whe he goes out, and we did like each other. He still (i guess) lives near me, but i went back to my ex at the time.

    Trust me it was nothing great. Another man.

    Before that i hooked up with the drummer from Whitesnake (second one who actually cut albums with them) for a time. So damn English we had a hard time understanding each other! Lol.

    He was here because his parents are very old and live here. He had to go back to England!

    He was a ball!

    And a couple more, which i would not mention...they passed by, a one date thing to me does not really count as much. But they are bigger and newer names. I don't want bragging rights because of them.

    Pamela

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    I know a lot of celebrities. Trust me, they are nothing special. If you have a guy you like, and you're not attracted to this one, you shouldn't go out with him. At the end of the day, he's just a guy who takes a shit in the morning like everyone else.

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    Yeah, I was really really jealous when you said Bobby was living near you, Pam.. LOL

    I LOVE Poison, always.

    ( on MySpace, by the way. None of the other guys are, though.)

    Incidentally though--- CC is going to be on the new season of Surreal Life.. Should be interesting. LOL

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    i've never dated any musicians(sadly) but i have dated a professional football player once. And he was a nice guy until he got around his buddies and then he turned into a huge asshole. We dated for a few weeks before i got sick of the 2 sides of him.

    i don't know if i could date a celebrity though...i wouldn't want to be in the spotlight or have to deal with the fact that tons of women love them too. i'm kind of territorial, don't want to share what is mine
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    We get all the clebs when they are in town music, sports, movies, Tv. They all come here to film and ALL are looking for extra fun. There are some I can count on one hand who are here and have a regular girl that they take out and sleep with. And all are married with kids and families. And just because they are stars doesn't mean they are terrific lovers. One of them doesn't last more than 3 minutes before he is DONE every single time.LOL

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    If your not interested then don't go. He might be very interested and that is not fair for him.

    I went out with a pro wrestler for months and wasn't really interested...I think it showed later on and that bothered him. But my friends made such a big deal about it....so I stayed. I ended up hurting him.

    Do what you feel is right.

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