Okay, I'm sorry if this is in the wrong section, but I want both male and females to give me some insight/advice on this.
Details: New relationship, I'm 19 and he's 20. I'm very secure in my body, very sexual, and of course he is happy with this. The first time we had sex it was great... But now he just can't seem to come. This isn't a problem with me, I dont care... what bothers me is that he lies about it. He actually pretends to come, then wants sex not even 10 minutes later. This obviously makes me very very sore because it happens more than once a night...
And yet he keeps initiating sex. I tried talking with him about it, but he won't admit it. I am on the pill - so we (bad I know) havent been using condoms and I can tell that he doesn't come! But why lie about it?
I love sex in a relationship, but man, this just sucks! I hate to admit it but I get bored trying to get him off. Selfish, I know.
I have a tendency to dump people over small things, but I like this guy and don't want to give up too fast. I also don't know how to talk about it without damaging his ego since it seems to be fragile in this arena...
It might be just nerves... Should I stick it out? Talk to him about it? Give up (I feel bad for considering this!)?



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