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    ok this is the thing. when i met my boyfriend i was stripping and bringing in alot of money, which i still am. since i grew up kinda poor and i wasnt used to handling money like that, i found it so easy to just give money away to people. so anyway, i didnt push my boyfriend to help with bills or anything (he wasnt working when i met him) and we've been together for like 7-8 months, we live together, and the motha fucker still dont work! now its pissing me off but i feel like i cant say anything because i let it happen. so my question is, how do i tell him that even though i am making PLENTY and plenty of money, he still cant be living off of me? ive tried talking to him but it dont work. we get along soooo good and hes a great person, i just spoiled the hell out of him and i think i might have ruined him! anyone ever had this problem? i mean, its not like im a pushover but it felt so good to be the one bringing in money, u know? and i have fun making it so its not like im out busting my ass every day to make ends meet. im making all this money while throwing parties, so do i have a right to put my foot down or what???

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    Just tell him you think that its time that he started helping with the bills, of course hes a wonderful guy. He has a beautiful girl supporting him what is there to be mad about on his end. Keep in mind our shelf life as dancers isn't as long as lets say being a nurse due to the physcial strain it can put on us. Tell him your trying to build a retirment nest egg. If he doesn't help.... kick him out. I was in the same boat, didn't grow up with a lot of money so I was always trying to make people happy with it. Until I realized they only liked me becuase I always picked up the tab. Keep us updated sweetie.

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    thanx for the advice...im waiting on him to get home so i can talk to him tonight, ill let you know what happens! if he gets the boot!

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    yeah def talk 2 him....just cause ur makin lots of $$$ doesn't mean he shouldnt contribute. so many times i see girls who are takin care of their lazy bfs and try 2 act like theyre wrong 2 expect otherwise. think about it: u wouldnt be with a guy like that for 2 seconds in the club, why is this any different?? he has legs right? so he can get a job! talk 2 him seriously...good luck!

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    we get along soooo good and hes a great person, i just spoiled the hell out of him and i think i might have ruined him!
    He wasn't working when you met him...you didn't ruin him, he was looking for a sugar mama.

    Honestly, unless you can envision a future of being the sole breadwinner, I'd dump him and start fresh. I could never respect a guy (personally) who sat around on his ass not working for 8 months. Is he in school at least- or doing something? If not, you might wantto consider that while he's nice and all, he's a chump.

    Think Kevin Federline to your Britney Spears- do you really want ot be that?

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    ^^^ What she said - he just let you do that, I just think any decent person would pay their way in a relationship, or at least try to!

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    I just see more and more of those situation among dancers and it's deplorable because your busting your ass making that money it's not like your a billionaire buisness woman, and this guy is there doing nothing.

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    I had the same thing with my boyfriend. He didn't have to work because we're both in school and he gets financial aid, so when i met him, he didn't work.

    We've talked, and he's looking for a job. He's being picky, still doesn't have a job, but i don't really blame him too much for wanting to have a job that he'd like, and since he does bring in some money, its not really a big deal.

    But definately talk to him, he should understand.

    So what if you make lots of money!! Its not like he's pregnant with your child and on bedrest or something, he should work as well. There is no reason why he should be able to just sit on his ass while you bust yours to give him the things that he wants!

    Good luck!!!

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