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    Default Why do alot of dancers do this?

    There have been so many times that I walked into the club, sat down, ordered my drink and just sat there waiting for a woman but they would just walk by me and act like I was not even there. They would even go in a corner and talk with other dancers. So I would have to actually get up and leave my seat just to go on the other side of the room and ask for a dance. When that happens I don't have as much fun as I would if it was done right. I really hate that. They act like they are scared or just to cute to approach me. Why do they do that?? Then they get upset when someone else is giving me a dance.

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    They probably size you up thinking that you are not the type to do dances.

    My first guess is that you are somewhat young.

    Their mistake....which is probably whey they are annoyed when youdo dances. They didn't want to put in the effort and they wish they had!

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    Default Re: Why do alot of dancers do this?

    I know I look young but I'm 34. They loose out on alot of money doing that.

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    Well, what are YOU doing? Are you tipping the dancers onstage? Are you looking around in a friendly, interested way? Or are you sitting at the back with a surly expression, watching the stage dancers but not tipping anyone?

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    Default Re: Why do alot of dancers do this?

    Quote Originally Posted by takemetwo
    I know I look young but I'm 34. They loose out on alot of money doing that.
    well, now you know why....it's because they think you won't spend money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by takemetwo
    I know I look young but I'm 34. They loose out on alot of money doing that.
    MeganS, what do YOU think

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    I always tip the dancers and I tip good but I had just got my drink and nobody comes over to talk to me well I should say that some women pass me up but later on someone will finally come up to me. Maybe its because I don't come up in the club dressing like a baller. I just put on some regular pants and a shirt. Anyone can come in there dress like they are paid but does not mean that they really are. I don't think it would hurt any for them to come up to a guy and talk. I told this one girl at a club in Detroit that I wanted only 3 dances from her. She said ok and she would be right back. She never came back. So I saw her sitting there talking to some guy and I was looking at her like how long is it going to take you to come back over here? She was sneaking a peak at me with the look like she knew she was not going to come back over. So when I had someone else dancing for me, she was just sitting there looking stupid. You just never know for sure if that customer has money in his pocket or not. Now at showgirls in Highland, MI Park/Dejvue, I don't have much of a problem any other time.

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    Default Re: Why do alot of dancers do this?

    LOL...if you came in looking like a baller, then nobody would talk to you! They are the worst.

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    Emily, I normally come in with a wad of twenties and a pellet gun. Helps get the dancer's attention. Does this help me become a better custy?

    Mast.

    To the stud takemetwo:

    You look like a good looking guy, you must be doing something intimidating. Unlike me, girls may actually wonder why you're there. Maybe even think you are TEH FAHVE OH. Still, look at your "presence" watch how the bar interacts with you, get to know the bartender, and become a regular. This will fix itself in time.

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    Heh if I sat like you in that avatar, you wouldnt see white!
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    Default Re: Why do alot of dancers do this?

    Sometimes were lazy at work which is unprofessional imo.
    Sorry dont be offended but maybe your colonge is too strong or you may need to freshen up? #1 thing that will keep me away from a guy is if he smells in any way. \

    Are you always a gentleman when going in? If you grab the girls or are pushy about extras then that could make a girl not want to come back too.



    Sorry but are you 'rocking out with your cock out' in your avavtar?
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    Maybe because I just keep to myself when I go in and don't talk anyone unless they approach me. This one dancer told me that I don't look like the type that would be in bars whatever that may mean. NOw I have a question for all of you dancers. I would place a new tread but not sure if I'm allowed. Anyway I would like and honest, honest answer. When you girls are giving a lap dance/grind, do you ever have an org while doing so? Have anyone secretly had one?

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    ^^ Nope never.
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    Quote Originally Posted by takemetwo
    Anyway I would like and honest, honest answer. When you girls are giving a lap dance/grind, do you ever have an org while doing so? Have anyone secretly had one?
    we need a clue bus smiley

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    Quote Originally Posted by takemetwo
    Anyway I would like and honest, honest answer. When you girls are giving a lap dance/grind, do you ever have an org while doing so? Have anyone secretly had one?
    You'd like an honest, honest answer? Just ask yourself this: have you ever had an orgasm while doing pushups at the gym?

    Seriously Mr. takemetwo, I'm just kidding! I always cum just from being close to you. Honest. You really turn me on. Your avatar is sooo sexy. I'm touching myself right now, just for you, baby. Would you like a dance? It's only $20...

    Oh... wait a second... I'm just going to go over there in the corner and talk with the other dancers for a minute... (thus returning to the original question asked in the post...)
    Last edited by EroticAngel; 01-09-2006 at 01:12 AM.

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    Default Re: Why do alot of dancers do this?

    there is supposedly a lady who had an orgasm from seeing Rod Stewart live too

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    Why do girls avoid you? Probably because the few who have gotten dances from you have realised your an idiot and told the other girls. Sorry but coming onto a dancer forum with an avatar of you with your cock hanging out is not a great first impression... I have basically sumed you up to be an idiot and you probably are.

    As for girls getting off during dances... yes I get off when old gross men try and grope at my body... I love it when the perverted freaks oogle me I get so hot and horny and come all the time they nick named me Squirter at my club

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    i primarily dance for guys i already find attractive, though not exclusively. so for me getting highly excited/orgasming is a fairly regular occurrence. and sometimes if the crowd energy is there, it happens when i'm up on stage. apparently this makes me a mutant. ohwell.

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    Is that his cock? I mean,it looks like a cock,only smaller..Anyway,why dont all you girls tell him how you cant imagine why all the dancers are'nt just falling all over him,bein such a rich stud and all.
    ."A long time ago,being crazy meant something...nowdays everybodys crazy"

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    Maybe because I just keep to myself when I go in and don't talk anyone unless they approach me.
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    ^^^
    Dude, we both know he asked that question just to ask the other. Bait and Switch.

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    What eeeezzzz this ORRRR GAZZZZ UM?

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    what's funny is that the question has been asked before and several dancers responded 'yes this has happened at work'. still, it amuses to respond.

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    Why? Because they're stupid and apparently have a serious allergy to money...

    Seriously though, any decent dancer worth her stilletoes will approach pretty much every guy in the club at some point. They should, at least.

    I'm retired now, but I go as a client a few times a year (almost always with my boyfriend) and since couples usually don't spend much, we're used to calling over the dancers we like. But we'll often spend a couple hundred on a cool, cute chick.

    Saying hi to a customer takes a few seconds of a dancer's time, but with the right one (or a lot of the sorta-right ones) it can make her night. I just don't get it...
    "She has written so well, and marvellously well, that I was completely ashamed of myself as a writer...But this girl, who is to my knowledge very unpleasant and we might even say a high-grade bitch, can write rings around all of us who consider ourselves as writers"

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    If you have a rep. there ya go!

    I say, go to a club, sit in the MIDDLE of the room. Dress nice, buy a drink, smile, say hi to dancers walking by. Look interested in a DANCE...maybe you look like you want sex (clothing speaks for itself)

    Good luck,

    Pamela

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    I think this line of work can really affect some girls self confidence.
    In my club some of the most attractive girls are not the $ makers
    they should be. They are just to shy to ask for dances.

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