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    Default Re: Why do alot of dancers do this?

    I've thought about starting a thread similar to this.

    I go into a local club and watch the dancers either talk among themselve or stay in the dressing room. I always tip, am very friendly and will even tip just for time.

    I know one of the dancers there and asked her if the other girls complain about not making money. She said, all the time. She does well, stays on the floor talking to people and does lots of dances. She understands, the money is not made in the dressing room.

    I will not go find a dancer to sit with me. Just my opinion is, alot could be learned from the dancers in Vegas and used in local clubs. I've never had a problem finding company in a Vegas strip club, and I'm not talking about the big mega clubs where the girls hound the customers.

    FWIW and I wish all well for the new year,

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    Default Re: Why do alot of dancers do this?

    well in my club none of the girls rush in like a flock of vultures on a customer who just sat down. We give him time to relax and have a few sips of his drink before we approach him. That could be another reason strippers aren't fallng over themselves to sit with you

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    Default Re: Why do alot of dancers do this?

    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    LOL...if you came in looking like a baller, then nobody would talk to you! They are the worst.
    Baller?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cally
    Why do girls avoid you? Probably because the few who have gotten dances from you have realised your an idiot and told the other girls. Sorry but coming onto a dancer forum with an avatar of you with your cock hanging out is not a great first impression... I have basically sumed you up to be an idiot and you probably are.

    As for girls getting off during dances... yes I get off when old gross men try and grope at my body... I love it when the perverted freaks oogle me I get so hot and horny and come all the time they nick named me Squirter at my club
    Well I know you are not talk. If it serves me correctly don't you knock your boobies around in men and womens faces while either nude or half naked so I don't see any difference except for I don't shake it in anyone face unless in the bedroom so whats wrong with that? Let me stop while I'm ahead. Anyway I'm not saying that women never ever stop and sit with me but I'm saying that it happens and actually to be perfectly honest it mostly happens at an all black club. If I go to the flight club or the landing strip, those girls are true hustlers. I guess when I walk into clubs I just act like I don't see the women when I first walk in. Now on a very busy night I don't have any problems but dancers still tend to jaw it up more with each other while performing a dance. So thats why I have just on girl I see at each club.

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    Default Re: Why do alot of dancers do this?

    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    LOL...if you came in looking like a baller, then nobody would talk to you! They are the worst.

    Hey, I resemble that remark

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    Seems like lots of the dancers I know off the clock have low self-esteem issues and think that they are NOT good looking either while they are working or off the clock. I sure as hell don't understand this and I always reassure them that they are hot as hell, but this doesn't seem to help much... Some of these gals/dancers are actually intimidated by coming up to a good looking guy and asking him for a tip or dance and prefer the guy to be the one who initiates any dances, sounds kind of strange but definetly is true sometimes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by takemetwo
    Well I know you are not talk. If it serves me correctly don't you knock your boobies around in men and womens faces while either nude or half naked so I don't see any difference except for I don't shake it in anyone face unless in the bedroom so whats wrong with that? Let me stop while I'm ahead. .
    So because I tend to 'titty slap' guys while doing a dance it means I get off on dancing? Hate to break it to you but no, I do not get off during dances. I do what I know guys will like. I dont titty slap all my customers, because I know they wont all like it. And actually... Im pretty much repulsed by most men who come into the club. No you may not grope my tits, no I dont want you touching my pussy.... Anyway im getting off topic. All I want to say is, I was 100% sarcastic in my earlier statement, I am anything but turned on while dancing.

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    Default Re: Why do alot of dancers do this?

    Speaking from personal experience:
    Laziness and lack of motivation.

    And why do they get upset?
    Because someone else got your money, instead of them.

    ~~McCain

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    Default Re: Why do alot of dancers do this?

    I am just a newbie and am apprehensive as how to aproach a gentleman as I am from the old,old,chokingly, old school. I was raised with the ideals much like those of the, "Leave it to Beaver", show. So, my I be so bold as to ask for a hint or two or hell even three on, "How would a girl like me know, and in what direction should it go?"

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    Damn thats an unappealing avatar. Is this how you sit in the strip club? I wouldnt approach you either.

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    You mention that you get a drink and sit down and no one approaches you.

    I NEVER approach a guy as soon as he sits down. 99% of the time when I DO they say "I just got here, maybe later"... so us dancers wait for the guy to relax, have a drink give him 10 min or so and THEN go in for the kill.

    I have to say from your posts on SW you seem a bit cocky. Everyone should be falling all over you and beg you to get a dance just so they can have your wonderful presence near them. I for one hate hate hate when guys come in thinking theyre the pimp shit... they have this arrogant demeanor and I wont approach them. This seems to be your problem.

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    Default Re: Why do alot of dancers do this?

    Hello takemetwo

    Several times I have gone to a club and sat by myself and I had girls coming saying"Need company?"
    "Everything ok?"
    things like that....

    so I dont think the reason for this is that you sit and do nothing.
    Its either ur doing something else and have a certain reputation in the club or I dont know,could be anything really....

    and I agree with Audrey Leigh

    either way, good luck taekmetwo

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    I love how he hasnt posted anything since audrey and myself bitched him a good one *high five to audrey*

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    Default Re: Why do alot of dancers do this?

    that's pretty true about the low self esteem.

    Went to a strip club 2 thursdays ago. Saw a girl that was freakin A. Prettiest feet I have EVER seen. And to top it off, she was really spunky.

    I tipped her at least 40 dollars while she was on stage.. that should tell a girl you want her attention.

    She would never ask me for a dance.

    Oh, she would talk to me. Oh she would speak. but never ask me for a dance.

    Then last night, i literarly had to grab her and take her back to the VIP section.

    I asked her what in the world do I have to do to grab her attention, I've been literarly throwing money at you for a week, she said " you don't look like you were interested in me"

    WTF?

    Then she proceeded to tell me how hot she thought I was, which was probably game, probalby not, doesn't matter and how she was nervous to come up to me when there is always another girl sitting with me.

    Then I say ' you need to work on the SE issues, no need for you to have any'. And she says "ya think?" So I am assuming she has some type of issues.. but damn I wish I had a pic of her, fine as hell.

    Then last night, I tipped her AGAIN while she was on stage.

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    Default Re: Why do alot of dancers do this?

    If you walk in and act like you don't see the women, THAT's why they don't approach. You're sitting there acting like an asshole. And judging from your posts here, it probably fits. Strippers, like most other women, don't like to approach assholes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by takemetwo
    Maybe its because I don't come up in the club dressing like a baller. I just put on some regular pants and a shirt.
    dress for suck-sex. every guy knows that. duh.

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    Default Re: Why do alot of dancers do this?

    I've had dancers ignore me on many occasions.
    I don't take offense.
    Eventually someone will come up to me and say hello.
    If I am 'enchanted' by someone & she hasn't come up to me as yet,
    then I will eventually approach her & ask her if she would like to dance for me.
    Most of the time I get 2 or 3 dances, other times they say they promised
    someone else a dance first.
    I've learned the hard way that dancers are NOT here for YOU. They are here for the money.
    Back in the late 80s & early 90s I've been hurt by dancers that pretended to be interested in me. I would buy them things & they've accepted my gifts with open arms.
    I didn't know how naive I was back then.
    Now I know better.
    I go every once in while to interact with lovely ladies & have a good time for a few hours.
    Guys tend to take things very personal when it comes to women.
    This is the way I USED to be - If a dancer payed ANY attention to me, I thought, "She LIKES me".
    WRONG!
    To make long story even longer (Only kidding), I don't take ANY of it personally any more.
    It's a freaking JOB, guys. Nothing more.
    Ok, I've ranted long enough.

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