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    Almost 100% of guys need to look at something to whack off to but I was curious as to whether they would have to imagine doing something to the girl in the pic or is straight visual alone enough in this case.

    Speaking as a female, I know I don't need to look at anything or imagine anything for me to get off. Just the straight sensation of the vibrator alone works. I was young when I first started to partake in this activity but when I got older and heard about guys using magazines so I thought I'd try it. I'm hetrosexual and have no inclination participate in bisexual sex however if I was looking for visual stimulation, I can only get off on women's images. Go figure.

    Just wondering about the difference in how guys and gals get their rocks off. Anyway, I know its a strange question but I've always been curious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by angelina
    Speaking as a female, I know I don't need to look at anything or imagine anything for me to get off. Just the straight sensation of the vibrator alone works...I'm hetrosexual and have no inclination participate in bisexual sex however if I was looking for visual stimulation, I can only get off on women's images.
    Don't worry about that. You likely are identifying with the male's point of view, which is often more sexually aggressive than the female's, and imagining you on the receiving end. According to my psychiatrist friend, this is an indicator of a woman who is highly sexual. My fav orientation too.

    As for me, visuals help get me interested, either live or not. When it's not live just recollections of things my GF and I have done, and visualizations oif her doing it, are plenty for me. When much younger and virgin, pictures did it all, at least when I was awake.
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    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Imagination for me. Even as a kid, I had the most imaginative erotic dreams (for a kid) and it's only gotten better as I've gotten older. But the vibe's in the mail, so we'll see how my patterns change.

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    This would be a good blue side thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer
    Don't worry about that. You likely are identifying with the male's point of view, which is often more sexually aggressive than the female's, and imagining you on the receiving end.
    Heh heh... I do that! I even talk to myself, saying whatever I'd want him to say.

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    Almost 100% of guys need to look at something to whack off to but I was curious as to whether they would have to imagine doing something to the girl in the pic or is straight visual alone enough in this case.
    100%? Really? Methinks you underestimate the ability of men to possess imaginations far filthier and far more vivid than what's on film or the internet.
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    Quote Originally Posted by angelina
    Almost 100% of guys need to look at something to whack off to but I was curious as to whether they would have to imagine doing something to the girl in the pic or is straight visual alone enough in this case.
    Au contraire. Well unless I'm in that fraction of one percent.

    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    100%? Really? Methinks you underestimate the ability of men to possess imaginations far filthier and far more vivid than what's on film or the internet.
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    Quote Originally Posted by angelina
    Almost 100% of guys need to look at something to whack off to but I was curious as to whether they would have to imagine doing something to the girl in the pic or is straight visual alone enough in this case.
    ...are you saying blind men cant "whack off"?
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    About 90% of the time it's purely visual for me. 10% of the time I'll fantasize about a girl without any visual aids.

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    I have to think about forklifts for the whole thing to be successful.
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    I can't look at anything at all. It just turns me off, I'm straight, but even looking at pictures of men, makes me laugh, I don't know why, but it does. I'm all about the stimulation baby!

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    Cripes...

    It's all imagination for me, but the things I imagine would be illegal not just in the lower 48, but likely in 75% or more of countries across the globe. Not to mention clear violations of human rights on several levels.

    *shrug*

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    Quote Originally Posted by McCain
    Cripes...

    It's all imagination for me, but the things I imagine would be illegal not just in the lower 48, but likely in 75% or more of countries across the globe. Not to mention clear violations of human rights on several levels.

    *shrug*

    Tre's always maintained that I think like a guy with tits....

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    Hysterical! I love it.
    I am all about the naughty imagination also. I don't want anyone to know all the dirty thoughts I have. And I'm with Yekhefah, I'll play out the whole scenario, even outloud sometimes.

    Visuals get me hot, but when it comes down to getting it done - I need my vibrator and fantasies.

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    with me it depends. i love visual stimulation, i love written erotica, and i'm love pure sensation w/ imagination. it varies with my mood, and how much time/energy i have.
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    I guess I use my imagination, picture things that turn me on. I can't get off at all unless I do that.

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    I just listen to the people downstairs.

    LIKE JACKRABBITS they've been.
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    I'm standing by my assertion of "Apocalypse Now" being the most orgasm-enhancing movie I've seen.

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    Imagination combined with the visual image is good, Like if you are looking at a picture, you then imagine what you will do to her, what she will do to you, the rubber chickens, etc...

    The problem I have with the vast majority of straight porn (videos, that is--I very, very rarely look at pictures of guys and girls), is that they are always showing the guy's face as he grimaces, clenches his teeth, grunts, and squeals like a pig, and so forth...

    Great. Then they always show the guy fucking the girl from behind them both--and what do you see?

    A big, hairy guy's ass and balls filling the screen, slamming away...and a little tiny glimpse of the girl once in a while. About 5% of the screen is the girl, the rest--dangling hairy balls and man-ass.

    Great for the ladies, maybe--but a total gross-out for me...

    Then there's the come shots. Wow, just what I want to see, a bunch of disgusting jizz all over a woman's face as she makes idiotic faces and pretends it tastes like ice cream. Give her a fucking tissue, and get on with it, please.

    I used to watch a lot of porn--mostly girl-girl stuff to avoid the above--during a dry spell in Daytona. I got tired of stifling all usage of three or four syllable words, or failing miserably to act like the worst jerkoffs from Elimidate, thereby getting squashed like a bug by the vast majority of women here. But then I got sick of it (the porn). It helped that I met a woman who made me see it for what it was--a replacement for intimacy.

    Now and then I go to this website I know about for perverted genius porn hackers, but mostly I will download just the best of the shit and then forget about it. I like much better regaling them with tales of the crazy shit that goes on in my club, and pretending to be a miserable wretch who knows nothing compared to their immense knowledge of computer wizardry (true enough, lol...). They let me stay on because of my humorous posts, and I thank them in replies whether I like the shit or not.

    One night a couple of months ago, on a whim, I went out in search of some good smut, only to be sorely disappointed--I had forgotten just how bad most of it is, if you can even find it around here. There is only one store with a big selection, and what I rented was so boring I gave up in disgust.
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    Would be very interesting to have a poll asking the gals here how highly sexual they are, and tied in with their sexual orientation, if only we had some measure of it that could be expressed in words. I know some have expressed this in several threads.

    I'd prefer this thread to remain on the pink side so more gals would participate, if we are voting anyhow.
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    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    I have never really been into looking at anything when I masturbate. I concentrate more on the feeling and once in a while I fantasize. The only time that I use visual stimulation is when my hubby and I masturbate together and look into each others eyes and bodies. Now that can be hot
    I asked hubby the same question and he likes to look at thing (typical male) once in a while he says that he can use thoughts but not often.

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    I usually always fantasize(usually of another girl, or my bf and another girl, although I don't think I'd ever really want to do that...LONG STORY). Sometimes I think of past experiences with girls/guys that I've had. Sometimes I think of what I want to do to someone. And I also tend to be very vocal. I also do it a lot. At least once a day(now that I'm with my bf, but before I did it many times a day. I think I may have been addicted. I also had to do it before I went to sleep or I couldn't ever fall asleep. Anyone else out there like this?

    **Note** When it was excessive was when I was in middle/high school.

    If I do use visual stimulation, it has to be a movie, pictures dont do much for me. I also dn't like straight porn too much. Girls always seem to do it for me...dont know why. Im straight, well more like bi without the ability to enjoy the "other side"(another LONG story). I don't think I could ever be in a relationship with a woman, but I definitely love sex with one.
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    threlayer...why don't you make a poll
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mesmorized113
    threlayer...why don't you make a poll
    I can do a poll here, but I don't know yet what questions and standardizing descriptions to present in it, other than low, medium, and high.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Mesmorized113, I dated a schoolteacher for a while who was horny as hell (that girl could come like a machinegun, lol)...and she was very straight--however...

    She absolutely loved girl/girl videos. If you read my post above, you will know why I was happy to oblige her.

    I too have resorted to your sleep-induction method, lol...
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    hmm...
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