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    Nariah
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    Default Did u procrastinate this much?

    Im interested to know how much and for ow long did those that are in the profession procrastinate for...

    Im unsure whether its nerves or courage im lacking in but its driving me NUTS now, i have done he phone calls but I just dont know why i cant go ahead and do it!!

    Also if i get the job will they ask me to work the same night? what will i say to my fiance...

    Also should i just wear somehing i already have? any ideas what i could wear...?

    Someone whack me!

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    Default Re: Did u procrastinate this much?

    If they ask you to work the same night,you don't have to.It's a very flexible job and they will be OK with it.I've been dancing for 11 years and I still procrastinate going every night,LOL.
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    Yep. I put it off and put it off until a friend finally got tired of hearing me talk about it and snapped, "Either shit or get off the pot!" So I went for it the same night, stayed to work, and made over $300 for having the most fun I've ever had. My first night was awesome! I wasn't shy or nervous at all once I finally got up there and started dancing.

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    Default Re: Did u procrastinate this much?

    i put off dancing for about a year, including several months after finding this site. then i went into some nude clubs, and well, that was that. i love being naked and overall it's worked out moneywise anyhow.

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    Default Re: Did u procrastinate this much?

    I started thinking about it once I bought the book "Ivy League Stripper" at a church swap meet. go figure. I was 12 years old back then. HAH! So seven years later I auditioned at a nude club at the insistance of friends who worked there. When I turned 18 I began researching clubs, methods, etc, I also took several months to get my body into the shape where I could be comfortable naked in front of a room full of people.

    In short: Take the time you need. Sometimes I wish I had started earlier, but I started when the time was RIGHT for me. And you should too.
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    Oh yes I did. I farted around on this website FOREVER before I started and then for about a year before that!! My best friend finally told me exactly what I needed to hear. He told me look, you've been talking about this for over a year, so it must be something you really want to do and not a phase. And because it's something you really want to do, I dont think you'll be happy with yourself until you do it, and you'll always wonder what it would have been like. Then he ended with, THE ONLY REGRETS IN LIFE ARE THE RISKS THAT YOU DO NOT TAKE!!!

    That's what did it for me. I was making artificial deadlines for myself. Like "two more weeks. and then my body will look a lot better,and i'll have more practice dancing..."

    Ok... actually doing it will give you the practice you need and the body you desire. It will NOT bite you in the ass if you go ahead and do it. I PROMISE.

    THey asked me to work the same night and I said I wasn't comfortable. The manager had no problem with it and said to come in in a day or so when I was ready. Perfect.

    To answer your audition questions about clothes, try doing a search under the Newbie forum with words like audition, clothes, shoes, etc etc. People ask these things all the time.

    Good luck!!
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    Default Re: Did u procrastinate this much?

    I've been reading this site forever and posting forever and only danced a few times and that was months ago. I keep saying I might try it again at a different club but yep, keep procrastinating. I do have a day job but something keeps making me want to do it again. I've even tried to stop reading this site and just forget it all together and I keep coming back. Don't know why exactly but I do.

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    Just go for an amateur night or an audition! It's really not as scary as you think it's going to be. I was terrified my first night dancing, but when I watched the other girls, I realized that it's not exactly a Broadway performance. I still get a little nervous twitch now and then when there is a big crowd, but now I find it more exhilarating than anything.

    My advice:
    ~Don't get drunk your first few nights. Maybe have one drink to loosen up, but cut yourself off early because you want your wits about you until you know what's going on.
    ~Bring at least 5 different outfits...Sometimes when I'm at home, I think something I bought is going to look cute on me, but when I put it on in the dressing room at work, I figure out that it's really awful.
    ~Bring makeup with you if you put it on before you leave the house. You will need to touch up now and then.
    ~Don't let customers get away with anything you feel uncomfortable with. Never give out your number and never meet guys OTC. Some girls have a difference of opinion with my last statement, but I believe that what goes on in the SC should stay there.
    ~If you feel nervous, shy or hesitant when approaching a custy, just remember that you are GORGEOUS and he was probably waiting for you to come up to him. He wants to buy a dance, he just doesn't know it yet. Confidence is key.
    ~~~HAVE FUN!! Act like it's YOUR party and always smile! If you find out you don't like stripping in reality, you can always quit and pursue something else.

    Good luck!!
    Alexxa

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    Nariah
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    Default Re: Did u procrastinate this much?

    Hey thanks so much for the advice ladies, i guess i need a real kick in the butt!!

    Ok im going to do some phoing around to find out about auditions and just go... Even if hey say no at least i have done it!!


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