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    I have heard that if there is a group of 2 or 3 guys, you should always approach the ugliest one and make him feel special, because he is used to girls approaching his cuter friends. This, in turn, will make him want to spend money on you.
    Is this true, from your experience?
    I have tried this before when celebrities come into my club. I will talk to the friend they are with and make him feel important, although he is usually not the one with the majority of the money.

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    That's a great idea. I haven't tried that, but I will now!

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    i approach the one that is noticing or making eye contact with me. Just b/c I think someone is unattractive does not mean he finds me so.

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    Lmaooooooo how funny is that. Yea, I can see how that would be beneficial. The cute guys will EXPECT girls to flock to them, won't buy dances, and will just want to "kick it' with the girls all night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by buffie06
    Just b/c I think someone is unattractive does not mean he finds me so.
    Isn't that some shi...someone ugly who has a preference







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    I always do this. Not only beause of the reasons already mentioned but also cause I feel more comfortable around ugly guys. Even if he says no, I'll feel beter just from knowing that no one would approach him for free.

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    I often find that guys often over estimate their own looks. If they're good looking, they always know and expect more free time. Even average looking guys think they're hot and some ugly guys think they're average. In general, average or below average guys are better for business.

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    Hmmmm interesting, maybe that's why I always get passed over for my buddy when we go. He always get approached and I get skipped over.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CalifSCVisitor65
    Hmmmm interesting, maybe that's why I always get passed over for my buddy when we go. He always get approached and I get skipped over.
    I'm kinda curious to see what you look like,actually.

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    Careful, some ugly dudes are BITTER. Whewee! You can't always rely on them being nice and civlized and appreciative. Sometimes they want revenge and become abusive assholes or even try to money block you. They'll try to distract their friend from you or try to tease him out of getting a dance or VIP with you. So, beware the trollish friend.

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    Interesting thought, i could see that working

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    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest
    I'm kinda curious to see what you look like,actually.

    LOL sorry you'll have to be content with being curious... .
    Last edited by CalifSCVisitor65; 01-11-2006 at 11:29 PM. Reason: typo

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    I always approach the fat ones, 'cause they're so jolly . . .

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    What an interesting concept..I haven't thought about that before.

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    Yes, I feel "peer pressure" if the guys is around my age and good looking. I prefer and older man to dance for, it helps me stay professional. I generally make the most money off old, bald, overweight men.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlexxaHex
    I have heard that if there is a group of 2 or 3 guys, you should always approach the ugliest one and make him feel special, because he is used to girls approaching his cuter friends. This, in turn, will make him want to spend money on you.
    Is this true, from your experience?
    I have tried this before when celebrities come into my club. I will talk to the friend they are with and make him feel important, although he is usually not the one with the majority of the money.
    I've read something like this in a myspace stripper group & have never directly tried it, but before I read it I remember once going up to a pair of guys and sitting with the older one... he felt appreciated because he was so used to all the girls going up to his friend, so yeah I guess that does work. Makes them feel special.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CalifSCVisitor65
    LOL sorry you'll have to be content with being curious... .

    aww... what's the matter, can't prove us wrong?

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    I read about this "pick-up wizard" who use to teach guys who to score with chicks. He NEVER spoke to the target, but chated to her mates, complimenting them and winning them over. They werent used to the attention and found him "sweet" So when he used to move in line "Wow Ive been ignoring your friend,(to the friends) C'mon let get to know each other(to the girl) her mates would say "go on hes sweet"
    I wonder if itd work with guys, that theyd start getting dances for each other, cos you seem like such a (hot) nice girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sexy_celeste
    I read about this "pick-up wizard" who use to teach guys who to score with chicks. He NEVER spoke to the target, but chated to her mates, complimenting them and winning them over. They werent used to the attention and found him "sweet" So when he used to move in line "Wow Ive been ignoring your friend,(to the friends) C'mon let get to know each other(to the girl) her mates would say "go on hes sweet"
    I wonder if itd work with guys, that theyd start getting dances for each other, cos you seem like such a (hot) nice girl.
    Seems like entirely too much work to be done for one potential customer.

    Us self proclaimed ugly ones don't want to see you approach our better-by-comparison friends because then we think about that all night. 'I'm the SILVER medal'

    IMO what you should do is single us out. Approach the ugly one first and overwhelm him, *leg over leg, arm over shoulder, heavy kino* and talk, and crack jokes about his hot friends who havn't been approached yet but make suggestions like 'Maybe we should find them some blah blah blah'

    The intention is to totally surprise him. Take his reality thoughts + his thoughts of expectation - your surprise = his fantasy that you are different.

    See us ugly guys know the score about SC, , you normally wont see us with better looking guys. We know all about the rules and how it works and we're determined that you're going to think we're ugly and its strictly work....until you approach, then we turn into every other luke-warm intelligent male that has a hard time swallowing spit let alone keeping our hands out of our wallet. Basically, we're an easy mark. We want to be.

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    the problem with this appraoch, imo, is that perhaps he will appreciate it the most, but we are not trying to score points with that guy....we want to with the guy who will spend the most.

    Guys know SCs are not the real world and we are not talking to them because they are cute!

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    You are correct, but the thread asks how to approach the ugly one, not how to tell if he has all the money. I hope you don't stick around if you find out he's packing 1 20. But I know from personal experience, all the UGLY ones that have money generally dress/look respectible...just are well "ugly" even if just to themselves :/ and well they know they're going to be spending a lot :/

    I mean in my experience, I dress like I just got out of work which is nice, but I still only had a build that not even a mother could love. <Yea even my family liked to make fat jokes at me> but I knew what I was paying for, and if I had the money to cover my evening. But I never BROUGHT my competition with me either.

    The bottom line is: these guys <namely ones like me> are PAYING for you to score points with them. And normally move very quickly to show they have cash to keep you around, I.E. massive stage tips, Immidiate dance purchases, drink buying, paying for your time. You woo him in the first couple seconds and say 'Well I'll come back I need to go over and see that guy' you'll probably hear 'Well wait wait wait can I ....'

    I'm speaking totally from my mentality at that point in my life and situations that I recall. So none of that is fabricated.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    You are correct, but the thread asks how to approach the ugly one, not how to tell if he has all the money.
    Well, really it's not. At least my interpretation of it was "should I go up to the ugly one in a group?" (This is Hustle Hut, after all.....not "How To Score With Ugly Men".)

    Because, as a dancer, we are often met with a group of guys and we have to pick one on the fly. Obviously we want the one who will spend the monst money. But how do we know who that is based on first impression? That's where this theory comes in. I'm saying that I think it's a huge gamble and we should rely on the other cues we know....eye contact, clothing, receptiveness, etc.

    It's a fact that the better looking someone is, the more likely they will advance in their career. I don't want the guy with the most money, or the one that will spend the largest percentage of his money on me. I want the one who will spend the most money on me. If you are the ugliest, fine. But I see no reason why there would be a correlation.

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    Always go fishing in the least fished spots.

    You don't know how much money anyone has when they come in, but you can generally assume that guys that hang together make approximately the same money. So if everyone in a group of guys has the roughly the same amount of money, you should pick the guy who has had the least amount of opportunity to spend it. And if they aren't used to getting the attention, chances are they will spend more on someone who gives them some attention.

    Don't forget that te ugly guy's friends are usually happy to see him "score" in any way possible. A lot of time they'll pay for his dances just to see him get anywhere near an attractive women. You'll score points with them as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StrpClbOwnr
    you can generally assume that guys that hang together make approximately the same money.
    Absolutely not true! Lots of times it's a boss and employees, or someone entertaining clients or prospective clients. it's also a place where "old friends" go to hang out when they get together.

    Many, many times one guy is a lot wealthier than his cohorts.

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    Depends what your definaition of "ugly' is I guess to start with. I don't think it works nessesarilly anyway, sometimes the "suposed" lesser guy has a much bigger ego than his more famous friends and / or is so much more successful in everyday life despite maybe not having it all in the looks department. I think age plays a part too though - "good looking" men who know it aged 18 - 25 year old are definatly a different kettle of fish to those aged 35 - 50!

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