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    Ok so i phoned two places i thought i would go slowly and CAN YOU SAY ARRR?! Anyway one is at 7:45 and the other at 8:30.

    ALL I CAN THINK IS SHIT SHIT SHIT! Im thinking about wearing a sort red halter neck dress, black heels and a red diamonte thong im unsure whether to have my hair curly or straight what do you ladies think?

    ARRGH IM SO FRICKING NERVOUS!!!!!!!

    I told my other half im off out tonight... only my friend knows.

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    Good luck girl! I haven't had the courage to start callin yet. I keep saying I'll do it tonight, but I never do. But tons of luck to you!

    As far as your man goes...be careful not telling him. He will find out one way or another, especially if you live together! I was really scared to tell my bf, but I nonchalantly brought it up and he was pissed at first. He was like NO WAY, my gf is not gonna dance naked for a bunch of guys. But, he eventually said ok. He still isnt totally happy(I think he's a lil insecure), but he knows that he should respect and support my decision, even if he doesnt agree with it. It really feels good to know he loves me that much! If he says no when you first bring it up, don't worry. Just let him vent and tell him all the positives. Don't push it on him too hard, or he'll just get more pissed. Tell him that even if he disagrees with it, he should still support you in your decision. That might make him really come around. If he doesnt, then you may have some control issues you either need to work out,or leave(as much as I hate saying that). It is your life in the end....remember that!
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    Good luck! I think that the halter dress sounds like a nice idea....a little more elegant as well as easy to take off. How tall are the heels you'll be wearing? Don't be to nervous, it's really not a big deal once you get there and are ready to go. I was so spazzed out my first audition, but then i relaxced and nailed it! Got hired ASAP.

    As for not telling your guy...i think it's best to sit down and have a talk with him. Explain why you want to do this and that it's important to you. He may be pissed at first but he'll come around....and if he doesn't than he certaintly isn't worth your time...just MPO.

    GOOD LUCK!!!
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    Hmmm...

    Ok so update was i went for the audition... i was so damn nervous, i didnt find the girls terribly friendly, I was the only girl of colour there which normally wouldnt bother me but i felt strange... No offense to anyone but i just didnt get a nice vibe...

    Anyway a guy comes and tells me to do a song on the stage, and would have to go topless, i was shaking but once i started i was ok and i thought i did pretty well and the pole tricks i have learnt really paid off, not to mention the fact it was a brass pole which is SOO easy to work with...'

    Anyway he called me back over and said i didnt make the cut... He didnt say why, he said my pole wok was VERY good and was surprised wen i said i hadnt worked any other clubs anyway he said i "wasnt what they were looking for" and told me to try another club called secrets...

    I felt like it was a little waste of time but i didnt/dont feel too disheartened its their loss not mine

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    Don't give up! Keep Trying! Next time you try will be even better because you have experience now!

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    awww that's tough for your first audition. It's probably just not the right club for you. I went on one where I got "rejected" and it sort of fucked up my self esteem for a while but I'm getting it back. Then after reading through old posts here I realize that this club only seems to want very skinny, young girls and it was the slow season (summer) so the odds were stacked against my 30-something-year-old big-butted self. Oh well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nariah
    Anyway he called me back over and said i didnt make the cut... He didnt say why, he said my pole wok was VERY good and was surprised wen i said i hadnt worked any other clubs anyway he said i "wasnt what they were looking for" and told me to try another club called secrets...
    What type of club is "secrets"? Anyway, there is a thread being discussed now called "racist clubs" LOL, not trying to scare you doll but this is real life. Some clubs just have a thing called a quota.







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    /\ If it's the Secrets in Tampa it then its by Ybor City....I've been there but I think they get most of their business on weekends....

    I've been wanting to dance for a little while and I'm actually auditioning tomorrow either during the day or night at Dejavu. I know the money is better at night but I'm not sure if I should try during the day to get some experience....any advice????

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    my suggestion for you diamondgrl8 is to go for the night shift. If anything they'll tell you that they don't have an opening and put u on day shift. I'd suggest really checking out your club before you start working there, because I've been quoted that they earned about a grand a week where i work when i was first auditioning and i haven't made near that since i started....neither has any of the other girls! Just make sure to really get to see how much business goes on! Also learn a little about the drink hustle that you'll be doing since it's a deja vu. there's no alcohol and you have to sell a certain amount of drinks...which if it's slow is not as easy as you think. Not to mention they are severly over priced so guys flip when they find out how much it is for a small glass of pop!

    As for the racist thing....stop crying about that shit! Damn, there are so many other reasons she could have been turned down...maybe she wasn't the cookie cutter image they were looking for, maybe she was to fat around the hips, maybe she wasn't as good on stage as they said she was and they just said that to make her be able to take the rejection easier?....etc...Maybe....there are so many other factors besides race!
    Yes, i'm sure it's possible that she could have been a "victim" of racism, but I highly doubt it and there is no way to prove it. I would be focussing on the fact that she can find another club that will treat her better as well as appreciate her for who she is and what she has to offer. Getting into the industry isn't always a walk in the park. A lot of times they will reject girls just to do it....to see if they'll come back and fight for it. Depends on the type of club it is.
    I say...Go for it. Don't sell yourself short and find another club to audition for as soon as possible! If they don't hire you then ask them why....tell them that you want their honest opinion so what ever it is you can work on it....see what is going on in their heads...don't walk away without an explanation because then you don't know what exactly they were looking for in the first place. And NEVER let one rejection get you down girl! You have to roll with the punches, if one club doesn't like you then the next surely will! Take care hun!
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    Quote Originally Posted by funtasticFerra
    As for the racist thing....stop crying about that shit!
    Ummm are you referring to me If so, please re-read my post. My reference was in reference to the racist thread which I wrote, "THERE IS A SUCH THING AS A QUOTA!"

    I swear some females just kill me acting like there is nothing a thing out here called racism. I didn't say that that was why she was not picked. Shit, I said Q-U-O-T-A! That shit is real. So before you just start typing away ASSuming that people are referring to "oh that's racist cause they didn't choose me" take a few extra minutes to READ what was written"







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    Come on gurls lets not argue...

    I do understand what you meant about the quota, I heard that too, I agree i would have rather them said a reason... Even if they did say I was too hefty around the hips Which mayhave been the case as i have im not stick thin im about 147lbs and 5ft 3" sounds heavy I know but i do weightlifting and bodywork which may be the case...

    Anyhow i just personally thouht it was strange there were no asians, blacks or anyway apart from white ladies at the club... i immediatly didnt fit in there

    BTW secrets is a club in UK which is where im based I hope I havent offended anyone...

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    hey there's a new all ethnic club opening in the UK soon...another person posted about it in another thread...maybe you can check that cclub out.
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    ~The best revenge is enjoying life.

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    yeah i checked this one out, will defo have to give them a call!!

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