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    hi everyone. i was wondering if you all could give me any tips on what to talk about while i am giving private dances to make the customer want more dances. do you say anything at all or just stay quiet during your dances? should i talk dirty or just talk about normal everyday stuff? thanks!

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    It really depends on the guy. Sometimes I'll ask what their favorite body part is to give them a better show. Some guys want you to talk dirty (they usually initiate it or give signals). Some guys want you to be quiet. Part of tailoring your dance towards each patron is practice and intuition. You'll get a better feel once you've practiced doing all of these things and seeing their reactions. It becomes second nature.

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    My strategy for getting more dances is to ask near him at the end of the dance, "Would you like me to stop or should I keep going?" Variants on that can work really really well.

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    I like talking about G.I.Joe, Transformers, Cutting wood, the news... anything really. But nothing makes me want to buy more dances like an up close ear whisper asking me it. <Intimacy in the face of a 'eh-to-look-at, guy with a zztop beard, who just talked cartoons with a dancer makes my wallet come with money>

    But seriously, listen to what HE talks about, and address his sexuality through that. My fav knows I'm into cartoons AND the news, does she try to make cartoons and the news sexy? No, but she gets a little more animated and humorous with me and it helps

    Hope this post does!
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    Quote Originally Posted by ChloeTheRed
    My strategy for getting more dances is to ask near him at the end of the dance, "Would you like me to stop or should I keep going?" Variants on that can work really really well.
    Ouch...bad way to go. On the surface this sounds good, but think about what you are saying here word for word. The first thing you are impressing on your customer's mind is "stop". Imagine a car salesperson saying, "You really don't want to buy a car today...would you like to look at some cars?".

    A more effective way of saying this that will work more in your favor is, "That was one...go for a few more?" or "The more I do, the better they'll get. How about another one?" or "I'm just getting warmed up...how about another?" or "I'd like to keep going since we're having so much fun here...one more?"

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    Default Re: what to talk about during lap dances?

    i just say "let me keep riding you"

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    Default Re: what to talk about during lap dances?

    I've been a customer since 1989. The 'stop or continue' one never inspired me to want to have the dancer stop, and it allows a polite way to end things if the guy is out of money or has to leave. If you are willing to take the risk of getting an answer you aren't ready to hear, you could ask what parts of the prior dances he liked and what he wants to do differently in the next one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fallenfaerie84
    i just say "let me keep riding you"
    That usually works for me with the Lady at the Laundromat. Usually gets a few extra wash loads out of me.

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    It's all about reading the customer. Lots of guys want to run the conversation and I'm fine with that, as long as it doesn't get too off-the-wall.

    Some guys might be too shy to initiate conversation (not usually, most guys who buy lapdances wil say something...), but if I get the guy whose buddies "forced" him to get a dance and hes scared stiff (happened a couple times), I try to be as nice as I can lol.

    Once again, its all about the type of customer. Try to let him lead the "converstion" but if thats not happening just be open.

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    Default Re: what to talk about during lap dances?

    i just ask "would you like me to continue?"

    but back to the original question... usually it seems like the guy leads as far as conversation goes. some guys are so in awe that they start off talking but stop mid-sentence once the lap dance begins... those are my favorites!

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    Quote Originally Posted by DancerWealth
    A more effective way of saying this that will work more in your favor is, "That was one...go for a few more?" or "The more I do, the better they'll get. How about another one?" or "I'm just getting warmed up...how about another?" or "I'd like to keep going since we're having so much fun here...one more?"
    Thanks!
    I modified my approach a little at work last night, and it worked much better than usual.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DancerWealth

    A more effective way of saying this that will work more in your favor is, "That was one...go for a few more?" or "The more I do, the better they'll get. How about another one?" or "I'm just getting warmed up...how about another?" or "I'd like to keep going since we're having so much fun here...one more?"
    Since all lap dances are done in the VIP room at my club, I say, "Now that you have me all to yourself, you don't want to go anywhere, do you?" as the first dance is ending. Hard to say no to that. As the second dance is ending, I whisper, "I can go all night," and usually they'll reply that they can also--and another dance.
    By that point, they're usually hooked. If we've been back for awhile, and I feel like he's winding down, spending-wise, I might ask him if he wants to stretch out and lay down on the couch for the last one. Once they're settled in like that, it is hard for them to turn down even more dances.

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    Default Re: what to talk about during lap dances?

    Ok girlies Iv got a question that will proper stump you. At the club where I work the customer pays before his first dance however, you complete one dance i.e. the first dance, then before you begin the second you have to get the custy's ££. After securing a second dance how would you all suggest I go about asking for the customer to pay up before I begin the second dance? Hope you all get this, I need to still be in sexy, lap dance, naked mood but still need to make sure they pay for the second dance I know they want before I start it.
    Any advice or sexy but witty one-liners are gratefully appreciated
    xxx

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vicki-xxx
    Ok girlies Iv got a question that will proper stump you. At the club where I work the customer pays before his first dance however, you complete one dance i.e. the first dance, then before you begin the second you have to get the custy's ££. After securing a second dance how would you all suggest I go about asking for the customer to pay up before I begin the second dance? Hope you all get this, I need to still be in sexy, lap dance, naked mood but still need to make sure they pay for the second dance I know they want before I start it.
    Any advice or sexy but witty one-liners are gratefully appreciated
    xxx

    Our club is like this too, if they want another one, I ake them for the money and tell them i will be right back. If I think they want a few more, i will get it upfront also. IF they decide they are through, I would give it back(this hasnt happend yet)

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