I am so so soo glad that I went ahead and got my boobs done, instead of listening to the a$$holes who told me not to do it. Pre-opt, I was a 34A; half a year ago when I was 22, I went up to a 34/36C. I'd been unhappy with my breast's size since the 4th grade. Not to mention that since 6th grade, guys made rude remarks about "flatness," so that didn't help any.
When I started dancing a year ago, there were customers that would say, out of the blue without me bringing up the subject, "uh, fake boobs are so silly. Promise me you'll never change these." I would nod my head submissively, but in reality I'd be thinking yeah rite! The customers who usually said this, were the ones who frequented my club regularly and would engage in many short conversations over time, but would never get a dance with me. When I came back to work after my surgery, those same customers chose that time to get a dance with me or tip me better. What does that say about their honesty? In fact, I haven't gotten a single criticism/complaint about my boob job, only compliments. Most people have said stuff such as, "your new boobs look great" or "that's a great improvement," or "they look good, but don't worry you looked good before too."
It wasn't just customers who falsely discouraged me from getting my boobs done, but also many male acquaintences/ex-boyfriends/etc outside the strip club! I even had a few female friends, who were already well-endowed, put me down when I told them I wanted to get my boobs done. They didn't even have room to talk...they had big boobs NATURALLY, or they'd already gotten a boob job themselves. Hypocrites. But later on when I sent a few of my male friends a picture of me post-opt wearing a cleavage-bearing tank top, I got nothing but compliments saying that my new boobs looked "much better." It seems as if these people only wanted to discourage me from thinking I had bad boobs, as if I was a small child who needed to be made to feel good and couldn't handle the truth. Ok maybe I had the chest/body of a child, but I was not a small child and would have preferred brutal honesty!
Ever since my surgery half a year ago, I've been very happy with the results. I feel a lot more confident about wearing low-cut tops or bikinis now. I went to a well-reputed surgeon, so my boobs don't have that super-big, round plastic look either. Point is, if you're thinking about getting a boob job, do what makes you happy and don't regard peoples' advice with anything more than a grain of salt.


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