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    I am so so soo glad that I went ahead and got my boobs done, instead of listening to the a$$holes who told me not to do it. Pre-opt, I was a 34A; half a year ago when I was 22, I went up to a 34/36C. I'd been unhappy with my breast's size since the 4th grade. Not to mention that since 6th grade, guys made rude remarks about "flatness," so that didn't help any.

    When I started dancing a year ago, there were customers that would say, out of the blue without me bringing up the subject, "uh, fake boobs are so silly. Promise me you'll never change these." I would nod my head submissively, but in reality I'd be thinking yeah rite! The customers who usually said this, were the ones who frequented my club regularly and would engage in many short conversations over time, but would never get a dance with me. When I came back to work after my surgery, those same customers chose that time to get a dance with me or tip me better. What does that say about their honesty? In fact, I haven't gotten a single criticism/complaint about my boob job, only compliments. Most people have said stuff such as, "your new boobs look great" or "that's a great improvement," or "they look good, but don't worry you looked good before too."

    It wasn't just customers who falsely discouraged me from getting my boobs done, but also many male acquaintences/ex-boyfriends/etc outside the strip club! I even had a few female friends, who were already well-endowed, put me down when I told them I wanted to get my boobs done. They didn't even have room to talk...they had big boobs NATURALLY, or they'd already gotten a boob job themselves. Hypocrites. But later on when I sent a few of my male friends a picture of me post-opt wearing a cleavage-bearing tank top, I got nothing but compliments saying that my new boobs looked "much better." It seems as if these people only wanted to discourage me from thinking I had bad boobs, as if I was a small child who needed to be made to feel good and couldn't handle the truth. Ok maybe I had the chest/body of a child, but I was not a small child and would have preferred brutal honesty!

    Ever since my surgery half a year ago, I've been very happy with the results. I feel a lot more confident about wearing low-cut tops or bikinis now. I went to a well-reputed surgeon, so my boobs don't have that super-big, round plastic look either. Point is, if you're thinking about getting a boob job, do what makes you happy and don't regard peoples' advice with anything more than a grain of salt.

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    Glad you're happy! Yeah, those guys who say "don't ever get your boobs done!" are retarded. As if their input has any bearing on my decision.

    I'd been unhappy with my breast's size since the 4th grade.
    Boobs? 4th grade? Wow- boobs were so far from my mind in the 4th grade.

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    Good thread. I agree with your point. I feel that everyone is telling me "no dont get boobs youll mess up your body". Most of the reason why I dont tell alot of people (including customers, friends, anyone non-dancer). They are rude and make it seem like youre making a "wrong" decision for yourself.

    Maybe everyone thinks that you would have came out with huge gross montrous lopsided boobs? Besides that most of the time guys dont even know the different from real boobs to fake ones anyways!!!!
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    I would love to go from a 32A to a small C/large B cup HOWEVER the fact that I wouldn't really require them for anything except 'work' has a huge bearing on why I personally will not have a BA. My plan is to do this for another 5 years and then do this business very part time even casual as I hope to have other businesses to run and focus upon at that stage.... and well... once I 'get out' of the Industry.. I don't really see the need nor desire for them.

    Plus... once I have the BA.. my breast skin will be stretched.. so that when I'm older and starting to wrinkle (as we all do it's unavoidable in the end just part of age-ing)... and get the BA reversed (removed) my boobs will look hideous!

    Not to mention the up-keep of them financially speaking. Will I have the money in 7 years time (all that I've read you do need them re-done every 7-10 years .. every 5+ years if saline generally speaking) ? Will my PS that originally did the BA be in business in 7 years time (he might retire or get into another area of medicine.. alot can happen in 7 years time).

    Nothing against those who do acquire a BA. Just that are you thinking long term or short term? Can you see yourself having the BA for the next 10 years? 20 years? When you are 50 ?


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    Guys that say they hate fake boobs really mean "I hate badly done implants."

    Personally, I love my full 34A titties, but I've always loved them. If they make you feel unhappy and/or insecure, you have two options: (a) change your thinking or (b) change them. And there's nothing wrong with (b) at all.

    Good for you for making the decision based on what YOU want, not what others were telling you. And thank you for getting natural-looking implants. I's a matter of preference, but I prefer perky natural (or natural-looking) A-C cups, and to quote Westley, "There's a shortage of perfect breasts in this world. It would be a pity to damage yours."

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    "I'd been unhappy with my boobs since the 4th grade."

    Well...let's just say that a lot of the girls in my 4th grade class were early bloomers, and it was discouraging when they were already wearing bras in 4th grade. That was also the topic of many arguments I had with my mother that year. Yeah I developed but just not very much...I stopped growing in 8th grade, and I was barely a B cup, more like a full A cup. I guess I was the type of kid who was intellectually ahead-of-the-game, and had an obsession with trying to grow up quickly...I always tried to look older than my age back then.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhillyDancer1982
    I always tried to look older than my age back then.
    When you were NINE? yeesh.

    yep, that's one of the reasons I think it's very stupid when girls come on here and post "Should I get (insert cosmetic procedure here)?" It's a personal decision and the last thing you should seek the opinion of anyone but a doctor on.

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