Sorry for the stupid question, but besides doing tricks on the pole, how else do you dance on the stage?
Do you just strut around and dance sexy like you would if you were alone in youre room?
Sorry for the stupid question, but besides doing tricks on the pole, how else do you dance on the stage?
Do you just strut around and dance sexy like you would if you were alone in youre room?
I just imagine i'm dancing for somebody i want to have sex with.... so i usually think of my bf hehe. and then just feel the music and get into it




Yep, i believe that feeling the music is key. I think the best stage shows are ones where the woman is truly is into her movements(as opposed to robotic movements lacking passion.) My question to you would be, how do you dance while you are in your room? Sometimes, in my room, I dance all crazy and funky to relieve stress. I would not dance like that at work. Other times I get into my exotic dance mode while I am alone in my room.
I would recommend finding a few great songs that really make you feel your sexual energy. These songs will inspire you to release sexual sorts of energy and thoughts. Since music choice is not always an option in clubs, make sure each song you choose is a different type. For instance, one hip-hop song, one rock-type song, a slow rhythm and blues type of song, an a faster paced song. This will help you determine how to adapt your moves. Rachel's advice is great, because your thoughts can really help to guide you, such as thinking of a sexy lover. Furthermore, thinking of positive thoughts/goals/ events(not always sexually related) can help as well because it will just put you in an overall better mood and you will shine while performing. Basic moves are seductively caressing your body(especially the parts that you consider to be your best features.) I like to run my fingers through my hair also. Practice moving your hips with each type of song you choose. Think about your favorite sexual positions if you are active, and try to mimick those( less intense mimicks until you get more experianced.) I think there are mini video clips of dancers discussed somewhere on this site? So you could try to search for those on here or the internet. Visit a strip club and watch the ladies. If you are old enough to work but not to visit the club as a patron, be polite and call a club to ask if you could have a tour of the atmosphere because you are interested. Then, you can peek at some of the dancers on stage.
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