I have never given out my number or my email address... and I don't think I could ever meet with anyone outside of the club, but I was wondering what are the general rules and guidelines for this? It's pretty obvious that it's not supposed to happen but at the same time a lot of people do this with their regulars.
I know of a friend who has a regular customer who bought her a nice outfit and invited her outside the club to buy her an expensive dinner and offer $1,000 for her time. She agreed and got gipped. He told her he would actually giver her $2,000 if she slept with him in his hotel room upstairs and if not then he would only give her $500... so she was upset and just took the $500.
This week I met a customer with whom I had intense sexual chemistry with. He spent an insane amount of $ on me inside the club and over 2 hours with me. It was getting really frustrating. Anyhow, he kept pushing for my number and to meet him at least for a drink outside the club. I wouldn't give him my number and he started calling me a bitch, I got his number (which I threw away, although I had sexual chemistry with him what is going to come of it??... he's rich and successful and in his early forties, AND he was wearing a wedding band... I have a bf that I would never want to ruin things with, I'm barely legal, I'm a stripper as far as he's concerned, AND I don't trust him at all... so I threw it away immediately) but now the problem is I can't stop thinking about him... URG GRRRRRRR... basically he was proposing a tryst, sex and that's it for as long as it lasts... do you ever wish you could give up everything for one incredible night? But at the same time I could have been really hurt and I know it's not right so that's why I threw away the number immediately and didn't give him mine... GOD why can't all the customers be sexually undesirable?? With this job sometimes it's a blessing that I have such a caring bf but sometimes I wish I was single and a wanton slut with no inhibitions.... Okay, there is no point to this long winded post maybe, I just want people to explain keeping in touch with custys and be remind me I did the right thing and I could have ended up as a missing person.
He was rough: just the way I like it
... but that's why I didn't trust him... so I did the right thing, right?? I could never allow sometimes to use me for just sex and that's it.
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. Okay, there is no point to this long winded post maybe, I just want people to explain keeping in touch with custys and be remind me I did the right thing and I could have ended up as a missing person.
He was rough: just the way I like it
... but that's why I didn't trust him... so I did the right thing, right?? I could never allow sometimes to use me for just sex and that's it.
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When I waitressed at a SC my boss gave me some tips for not giving out my number. The one I had the most success with was this one: Oh, ya know what, I go to school (whether you do or not, don't say where) or have another job or live with parents, or whatever and I'm always working/gone/ or sleeping, and I don't have a cell. Hey why don't you give me your number that would be easier
Either they give away, or they throw a fit and would have been an ass anyway. You could give out a fake number, but that always ends up biting me in the ass. Oh I also once gave out my internet line # when I had dial up, because it never rang anywhere lol.
You guys are making me feel better! He offered a discreet amount of money for that night but I would have done it for free ahahahaha... okay, stick with my promise to myself no giving out #s and no drinking on the job 
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