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    Default How do you Seperate your Job from your Love Life?

    And Find True love...Does love exist or is it just a human instict to make more humans... . I guess you need somebody because you love them not love somebody because you "need" them. Is female sexuality a survavel tool? Can men or have men used there sexuality to get ahead? What is your experance with this? For me Love and Sex are inseprable...On the other hand it is kinda depressing that men hire escorts...Are we that Isolated from each other? That findind True Love the old fasioned way that is by being in a enviroment where you see people of the opsite sex everyday like in High Schoolor at work and they get to know you over time..I see Stripping as a Art Form but women using there sexaulity to make a buck? In 2006? What would Gloria Stienham say? Is this the new feminisim? On the other hand perhaps men have used there sexulity on the job and just have not known it..

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    Whats wrong with using sexuality to "make a buck"? There's obviously a market for it, or this website would not exist and most of us on here would be job hunting right now. I don't see anything wrong with it at all. Women's Lib is great, and part of women being liberated in this day in age is that we are free to do as we please, without men (or anyone else) telling us what we can and can't do. I am not being forced to be a dancer, but I choose to be. I choose to use my sexuality in a way that I feel is right for me. Feminism can be interpreted many ways, and can mean very different things to different people. Feminism to me is the freedom that I have to express myself and my sexuality in a way that feels good to me. So dancing may be the "new feminism" to some girls, while to other girls in the Womens Lib class that I took last year, feminism means a whole different thing.

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    Well said, Madison. I'm a pretty hardcore feminist, and a very pro-sex one!

    I recommend the book "XXX: A Woman's Right to Pornography," by Wendy McElroy. It's excellent.

    To answer the question in the thread title: I don't. I tell my bf my stories, good and bad. He makes CD's for me, and watches me dance at home (I have a pole in the living room). I practice new lapdance moves on him as well. He loves that I'm doing something I enjoy, and our sex life is even better than it was before.

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    T22: Why do you keep assuming that men may be using their sexuality to get ahead without knowing it? What cave have you been living in? We do it blatantly every day.

    I don't know how old you are or what your background is but most adults figure out at some point that sex and love do not always go hand in hand. Men go to strip clubs, women grind on their laps. Much of the time the customer is a married man with a wife at home. The dancer is looking for money and the guy is looking for a strange piece of ass on his lap. Love has nothing to do with it. I'm assuming that you are young enough that you have never been in a relationship that got stale after a while thus sending you to the local strip club to blow off a little steam.

    If you read this board long enough you will run into a number of card-carrying feminists. I'm not going to speak for them but IMHO, a big part of feminism is independence. Working for a living would certainly be a means to that end. Women who dance are not looking for anything other than a paycheck. They are using their God-given attributes, their intelligence, and human nature to get it. To be sure there are elements of the SC experience that may be at odds with what some people consider being a feminist. Of course, women who have never danced as well as most customers don't really know the first thing about the dancer's experience so who are we to judge? Gloria Steinem was once a Playboy Bunny. I have a picture of her in an old issue of Time Magazine making a speech about feminism while wearing a miniskirt. Feminism is not about being anti-sexual, prudish or anti-male. It's about independence and equality. My apologies to any of you ladies if I have oversimplified things a bit.
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