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    I'm not sure where else to put this so I think I'll put it in this thread. I have had one of the worst things happen to me. There was this guy I was talking to and I had really liked him and I thought he felt the same way about me. I haven't been in a realtionship for awhile and I just thought he really liked me. He asked me if I'd like to hang out with him when I got off after work for a little while and I agreed. We went to this other club that's down the street from where I worked at and then I stayed at his place. I counted the money I had made that night while I was there..and when I got home the following day, I counted it again and I was off but since I had alot to drink I was thinking I had miscounted.


    I worked again on Sunday night and he said he would stop in and see me and when I got off work we got something to eat and since it was late he told me I should just stay with him. When he went to sleep I counted up what I had made.. it wasn't very much because it was slow that night but I knew I had counted it right this time because I hadn't really had much to drink. So, I thought everything was fine..but when I got home just now I wanted to recount it and when I did I was $50.00 short. I recounted it again about four times and it still fell to $205.00 and I know now that he stole money from me these last two times. It was $147.00 on Friday night and in total he has stolen about $200.00 from me. This is honestly the last thing that I thought he would do to me and I can't believe he did this. He is a lawyer and he went to Harvard Univ. so why would he steal from me?? I'm so angry right now and I'm crying. I have not confronted him about this yet.. I just found out and I'm posting on here first because I want to talk to you guys about this. I know I made a really stupid mistake.

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    I'd ask him about it. Regardless of educational or social status, a thief is a thief. It's not all poor folk who do it.

    Where did you meet him at?

    I would ask him about it. Calmly say that you have this weird habit about counting your money 3x per night, and then you write down the amount...and now, 'miraculously' it's short. And give him this look like, "weird huh"

    Honesty really is the best policy. Once a thief, always a thief.







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    Set him up..... Don't drink at all one night and put a certain amount on you and see what comes up missing.

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    Cinammonkisses, I'm going to do that when he calls this evening. When I say this he'll say something like, "So, what are you saying? Do you think that I stole your money? Why would I steal money from you? I already make enough...." After he says that I was going to say, "I know I didn't miscount it this time. This is the last thing that I thought you would do to me." Then I'll probably hang up the phone on him. We met at a non strip club in the Washington, D.C. area. I'm thinking that he'll probably say next to me before I hang up is "You know you are just crazy. I think that your just making this up...."

    Thank you both for responding to me. I'm trying to calm down.. I'm really hurt and disappointed in myself for being so trustworthy and I'll make sure to never go out with someone again with money on me.

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    ^^^ Good idea, I am super careful about my money because I have some permanently borrowed before.
    It sucks! Especially when you know it's someone you trusted..
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    Does he live alone?

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    That really sux. I wouldn't even ask him about it... what's the point? What will he do? Deny, deny, deny. Someone suggested setting him up. That's a good idea if you're intent on catching him. Otherwise, suck it up, cut him off, and take it as a lesson learned.

    I don't trust ANYONE after work besides my BF and my "security/driver." I sometimes go straight to the bank with my driver (who is armed) and make a deposit in the ATM, or I go straight home and count every dime. If my BF is at my place, he sees me counting it and therefore knows how much is there, and that I know how much is there, so if anything goes missing, he can't say, "Maybe you miscounted." Now that I'm moving into a roommate situation, I'm getting a safe to hold the money until I get to the bank.

    Anway, I'm sorry this happened to you. People suck.

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    You can't trust anyone these days. I just talked to an old friend of mine for about 40 minutes about this and he said that I wouldn't have miscounted $147.00 no matter how drunk I was.. maybe $20.00 but not this much. He told me that I made a mistake in trusting this person but to take it as a lesson learned even thou it cost me $197.00. He stole the money from me because he thought that he could just get over on me for kicks and not because he needed it. I'm still very upset about this but I'm going to still bring this up with him.. I know that he'll deny it but I don't ever want to see him again and I never want him wandering into the place I work at again. I think that he stole the $50.00 when I was taking a shower.. I had my bag out in the living room and when I came out, he was walking out of the living room.. and he said "I was just talking to my mother because she had called me four times."

    Also, where is a good place to buy a small box that's like a safe that I can lock up to put my money in? I'm going to go out and buy one today once I find out where I should get one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sasha04
    Also, where is a good place to buy a small box that's like a safe that I can lock up to put my money in? I'm going to go out and buy one today once I find out where I should get one.
    Here ya go! It's a great alternative to stashing your money. And no one will know unless you tell them

    http://www.lock-man.com/catalog/index.php?cPath=34_33

    Water bottle safe: http://www.safetyandsecuritycenter.com/wabosa.html







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    CK, girl, you really are the queen of the internet :-D Where did you find those sites? Damn I wish I could find my credit card, I'd get one of those things now

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    Fuck him. Walk away. Never trust people until they've earned it.

    Does he keep cash lying around or an expensive watch? Just a question. I'm not suggesting anything. *cough*

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    ^^^ You are a fool Liz..that's why I love ya so.







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    Quote Originally Posted by Lizette
    Does he keep cash lying around or an expensive watch? Just a question. I'm not suggesting anything. *cough*
    hehehe I am

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    NO, don't set him up! For what? So he can take more of your money? Do you really need to give this guy even more of your hard-earned cash to confirm what you already know? NAH!

    Just don't talk to him anymore, except to tell him you don't hang out with thieves when he asks to hang out again. And don't talk to or hang out with him anymore after that. He's just being friendly to get you to hang out so he can steal your money. He is not interested in you.

    Harvard grad or 3rd grade dropout - thieves come from all walks of life.

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    If he is stealing from you, there is a good possibility that he is lying to you about his job etc.

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    I don't think there is much complexity to this situation. Stop seeing him.

    Go to Office Depot and buy a safe, or at least a fireproof box just in case something happens. You can get a small cash box you can lock up and put in your suit case. But I would say to keep your money away from him.

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    I wouldn't see him in person and I would do my best to have security keep him out of the club. Yes, he stole from you; yes, he'll probably deny it. I wouldn't want more money to be stolen from me, but I also wouldn't trust being alone with this guy--he's already broken your trust twice. Maybe if you're security is cool they can punch him a couple times to get the message that he's not welcome?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sasha04
    I'm not sure where else to put this so I think I'll put it in this thread. I have had one of the worst things happen to me. There was this guy I was talking to and I had really liked him and I thought he felt the same way about me. I haven't been in a realtionship for awhile and I just thought he really liked me. He asked me if I'd like to hang out with him when I got off after work for a little while and I agreed. We went to this other club that's down the street from where I worked at and then I stayed at his place. I counted the money I had made that night while I was there..and when I got home the following day, I counted it again and I was off but since I had alot to drink I was thinking I had miscounted.


    I worked again on Sunday night and he said he would stop in and see me and when I got off work we got something to eat and since it was late he told me I should just stay with him. When he went to sleep I counted up what I had made.. it wasn't very much because it was slow that night but I knew I had counted it right this time because I hadn't really had much to drink. So, I thought everything was fine..but when I got home just now I wanted to recount it and when I did I was $50.00 short. I recounted it again about four times and it still fell to $205.00 and I know now that he stole money from me these last two times. It was $147.00 on Friday night and in total he has stolen about $200.00 from me. This is honestly the last thing that I thought he would do to me and I can't believe he did this. He is a lawyer and he went to Harvard Univ. so why would he steal from me?? I'm so angry right now and I'm crying. I have not confronted him about this yet.. I just found out and I'm posting on here first because I want to talk to you guys about this. I know I made a really stupid mistake.

    If you suspect he is a theft than you shouldn't talk to him anymore. However, I have always found that those who get drunk (including myself) end up missing money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sasha04
    He is a lawyer... so why would he steal from me??
    Sasha, girl, you are not thinking straight... since when are being a lawyer and being a thief incompatible?

    Seriously though, see if you can get your hands on some counterfeit money and set him up with THAT. His law career (or whatever) will take an interesting turn when he tries to spend it...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Crissychan
    Set him up..... Don't drink at all one night and put a certain amount on you and see what comes up missing.

    If you do decide to set him up, before you leave, mark your money, just a little dot with a marker on the corner of each bill, otherwise how would you prove he took it, it'd just be like the other two times.
    Then you can watch him trying to explain how his money is marked just like yours lol

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    Hes a liar and a thief... uh - I agree with those that said - stop seeing him. Seems pretty simple - why would you want to hang out with a thift.

    And what Tampa said - whos to say hes not lying about everything else?

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    Quote Originally Posted by EroticAngel
    Sasha, girl, you are not thinking straight... since when are being a lawyer and being a thief incompatible?

    Seriously though, see if you can get your hands on some counterfeit money and set him up with THAT. His law career (or whatever) will take an interesting turn when he tries to spend it...
    What a beautiful idea! kudo's!!

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    Look around his place for a glass pipe and discarded little plastic vials.

    My guess is he's a Harvard crack-head. It's not widely known, but Harvard is virtually crack-head U. The dirty little Ivy League secret.

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    I wanted to give you guys a small update on what happened. He called me yesterday and left a message but I wasn't by the phone.. I called him up just a few minutes ago and told him that I don't want to be around anyone who steals from me and how I knew he stole $197.00 from me. I told him to never call me again and to never come in the club again and that I never wanted to see him again. I left this on his voicemail..

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    Quote Originally Posted by contheboyalready
    Look around his place for a glass pipe and discarded little plastic vials.

    My guess is he's a Harvard crack-head. It's not widely known, but Harvard is virtually crack-head U. The dirty little Ivy League secret.
    Lol!!!! That is so funny..

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