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    Default Signs they will not spend money

    1. They carry a wad of money and take it out when ever possible.
    2. In the middle on converstion, they pull out a huge stash of cash and count it in front of you. Sometimes they'll do this stage side and refuse to tip you $1.
    3. They talk about how much money they spent on a certain dancer last visit or in another club.
    4. They demand to sample your dance. Then they tell you that you are not what they are looking for.
    5. They tell you that they'd rather take you out.

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    6. Sit up at the tip rail and put on their glasses
    7. When they tell you "maybe later" 5x.







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    8. When they they go out of their way to tell you how many 1000's they just made gambling or doing some "business deal"
    9. When they refuse to buy you a drink when a waitress comes by

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    10) When they tell you "I don't buy lapdances"

    ****Read this if you get that statment often****
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=60201







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    Default Re: Signs they will not spend money

    11) 'i just gave all my money to my friend(s)!' (this is your cue to go find them, heh.) see also 'my friend has all my money!'

    12) (group of guys)-- 'ask him' (repeated for each guy in the group.

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    13. They don't tip the waitress or bartender

    14. When you talk to them before the stage show starts they keep bitching about the stage show not starting yet and how they don't won't to buy dances until the show starts

    15. They claim they just got off a plane and they are tired

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    16. When they ask the price of a single regular lapdance, and upon hearing it ($20 or $40 or whatever), they ask, "What do I get for that?" Nitwit! You get a lapdance!

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    17. They ignore you when you talk to them.
    18. They pretend to not know what a lap dance is.
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    Default Re: Signs they will not spend money

    19. They tell you how much money they brought with em to spend.....example: I brought 1G to spend here tonight....

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    1) They say they just "got there" or are "waiting for friends."

    2) They say they JUST got a lapdance and need a break... or they say "If only you were here EARLIER!!" um, yeah right!

    3) They just ordered a drink and need to finish it first or get a buzz on.

    4) Start looking the other way or pull our their cell phone when you approach.

    5) Mention anything about needing to go to the ATM machine.

    6) Start BSing with you and start a never ending babble as they stare at you everywhere while trying to kiss you anywhere they can while rubbing your ass and other parts of your body trying to make it seem like it was an "accident." These idiots have no money and are trying to grope you and talk to you for free for as long as possible... giving answers with no point in it and talking without stopping so you can't interrupt: once I catch on to this I simply walk away.

    7) Start begging you to be their gf or to date them. Walk away!

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    I agree with everything said, except for maybe number five above. I've had plenty of customers say they need to hit the ATM, and then we do just that on our way to the CR. And often the ones who say they just got there and need a drink first actually mean it when they say "come back later". They may very well be willing to spend. On the other hand, I find the ones who won't make eye contact with me and cross their arms never spend. Haha, maybe that should be obvious.

    I'll also add- the guys who won't stop asking about what it's like to be a dancer, and are ever so curious about how it affects my life (maybe I get these because I admit to being a student...). The ones who want a sociology report do not want to spend. They want to gut me for endless conversation until I admit how awful my life really is, and how degraded I feel. Just walk away from any guy the minute he says "oh, but what's it like doing those dances...how does it feel for you?". Christ on a bicycle.

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    Default Re: Signs they will not spend money

    When they ask you a ton of questions that they KNOW dancers hate, such as:

    "Do you have a boyfriend/husband? He lets you work here? A real man wouldn't let his woman do this! I sure as hell wouldn't let my woman work here!"

    "Do your parents know you do this?"

    "Don't you think you should be doing something more with your life?" "Don't you think this is degrading?"

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    Default Re: Signs they will not spend money

    When they ask if they can dance for you or say "oh, you want a dance from me"?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mollyzmoon
    I agree with everything said, except for maybe number five above. I've had plenty of customers say they need to hit the ATM, and then we do just that on our way to the CR. And often the ones who say they just got there and need a drink first actually mean it when they say "come back later". They may very well be willing to spend. On the other hand, I find the ones who won't make eye contact with me and cross their arms never spend. Haha, maybe that should be obvious.
    For me, when they say "come back later" it usually means just one lapdance on the floor... I'm always on the prowl for someone to take me to VIP. But from now on, if a guy says he needs to hit the ATM, then I guess I'll stick around, because you never know how much he will take out to spend on you, right?

    Oh I'd like to add that the ones that flash around huge stacks of $100s do spend money... but they are usually jerks who are looking for girls who will go the extra mile for that money. I've had guys start out by giving me $100 for 1 $20 lapdance and some conversation then take me to the private dance area... only to try to push extra things on me with a goal to "slip a finger in" or something to that effect. If I refuse he'll grab my hand and make me feel up his stack of $100s or show me the stack as if to say, "see baby, this can be yours only if you were to...." NO thank you!! Well you can lead him on for as long as possible and then eventually the money will stop.

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    Default Re: Signs they will not spend money

    ^^^Again littletassle, I concur. I have a semi-regular who always brags about how much he spends on dancers, and when I dance for him, he does indeed spend a bluestreak, but he always wants 'a little more' for it (nothing outrageous, but more than my rules allow).

    And then when I refuse, he keeps spending, but keeps calling the waitress back into the CR so he can try and get me nice and drunk, thinking I might change my mind. He spends, but it's high maintenance. Lord praise the respectful, loyal, kind hearted, actually enjoyable regulars who understand the stripper-customer dynamic (re- aren't looking for an eventual 'girlfriend'), and still spend! So far I've met one.

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    That's what I meant that eventually the money will stop and you have to work for your money! It's what you meant by "high maintenance" and him wanting a little more and trying to get you drunk to change your mind. You have to deal with him and try to get him spending by leading HIM on for as long as possible. I'm sorry if my post was misleading but I really meant that the jerks who flash their huge stack of $100s actually can end up spending a lot on you.

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    Default Re: Signs they will not spend money

    -When they come in with one or more friends and they are paying more attention to their friends than they are to you.

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    How about when they are paying more attention to the tv or game than you too

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    Quote Originally Posted by greenidlady1
    How about when they are paying more attention to the tv or game than you too
    God, I hate that! It makes no sense to me why they come in a strip club, because it would be cheaper to drink beer at home or in a sports bar.

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    Default Re: Signs they will not spend money

    1. They don't tip the waitress or door girl
    2. He is bumming smokes from other patrons
    3. He is hanging out in the DJ booth
    4. He is hanging out with the door hostess
    5. He is a regular that all the veteran dancers aviod
    6. If after introducing yourself as your stage name the very first thing out of his mouth is "so what is your REAL name?"
    7. If he offers to sell drugs
    8. He offers to help you "make a lot of money".
    9. If after agreeing to a dance, he gives you the run around by saying things like he is not quite ready, he doesn't like this song, he needs to order a drink (and drink it), he needs to use the restroom, etc. etc.
    10. Loud bragging about how much money he has
    11. Gushing lovey dovey talk, followed by how he "respects" you too much to watch you perform.
    12. Most (not all) Capricorns


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    Default Re: Signs they will not spend money

    - if he tries to give you a "free massage"
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    Quote Originally Posted by miabella
    11) 'i just gave all my money to my friend(s)!' (this is your cue to go find them, heh.) see also 'my friend has all my money!'

    12) (group of guys)-- 'ask him' (repeated for each guy in the group.

    oh god don't you just hate that?! Makes you feel real special when almost every guy in the group is pointing to his friend saying "oh ask him, or go sit on his lap" blah blah blah.. wtf?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by blondhottie
    When they ask you a ton of questions that they KNOW dancers hate, such as:

    "Do you have a boyfriend/husband? He lets you work here? A real man wouldn't let his woman do this! I sure as hell wouldn't let my woman work here!"

    "Do your parents know you do this?"
    I seem to ALWAYS hear these & it gets really old.. the main question I always hear is "What made you want to start stripping?" I turn into a brat when I hear this & just tell them that I don't feel like explaining it for the millionth time

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    "I just got about 7 dances in a row and I'm all danced out".
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    - I don't usually come to "these places"
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