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    I am soooo nervous right now... so remember i said i went for an interview at that place well.... she called and said i have the job...

    I work every saturday for now 10pm-4pm and i cant help t feel majorly nervous...

    The worst thing is my period is gonna come soon and im PRAYING it comes on the sunday arvo not on the day that would be so awful!!!

    Auditioning was hard but this is even harder...

    do you think i should tell my boyfriend?? We're engaged and i have mentioned it in passing? no actually i might just say i got a job in a bar but then i feel like im lying to him arrrrr.

    Were you girls like majorly nervous on your first night? Anyone get their period first night oh /...

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    you got a job dancing and you didn't tell your fiance?

    yeah, tell him

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    Yeah but he might get annoyed...

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    Well, he's going to find out sooner or later. Trust me. How'd you feel if you were doing your thing and all of a sudden your BF and his pals walk in. Whoops!!!
    Spill. Try and make him understand why you want to do it.
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    yeah either he'll walk in or he'll find your dance stuff(thongs/outfits/shoes) and realize that you are gone alot at nite. eventually he'll put two and two together.

    it's always best to just talk to him about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nariah
    I am soooo nervous right now... so remember i said i went for an interview at that place well.... she called and said i have the job...

    I work every saturday for now 10pm-4pm and i cant help t feel majorly nervous...

    The worst thing is my period is gonna come soon and im PRAYING it comes on the sunday arvo not on the day that would be so awful!!!

    Auditioning was hard but this is even harder...

    do you think i should tell my boyfriend?? We're engaged and i have mentioned it in passing? no actually i might just say i got a job in a bar but then i feel like im lying to him arrrrr.

    Were you girls like majorly nervous on your first night? Anyone get their period first night oh /...
    I just started a couple of weeks ago, and I'm still kind of nervous most nights. As far as the periods- I'm on a birth control pill called "seasonale", so I only have periods 3-4 times a year. It's great not having to worry about that.

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    Well, about the period thing, don't worry about it. Just be prepared with feminine suppiles, trim the string on the tampon and go to work.

    About the fiance, you will shortly not have one if you don't tell him what you are doing. It actually sounds like you want to be rid of him, so becoming a dancer and lying about it is a good way to take the burden off your own shoulders and force him to end the relationship.

    Or if you do wish to go through with mariage to this man, then be totally honest about what you are doing and who you are with. Deciet is not a relationship virture.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Nariah
    HOWEVER and heres the twist he's off to a strip club this Saturday? Is it me? I think thats a contradiciton and said that myself...
    Didn't you say you are starting on Saturday? Sounds like the chances that he will be running into you are pretty good.

    Not many men can handle being with a stripper. The jealously will drive them crazy.


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    I just PM'd you Nariah...







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    You'll probably be bruised up and exhausted when you start (I know I was miserable every time I've danced but it's only been a couple of times.) I was even nervous about hiding it from people I work with because of my bruises but nobody asked. So it would be hard to hide and besides, keeping it from him and having him find out will be worse than just being upfront.

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    A couple of months ago at my club a new dancer was "caught" dancing by her unsuspecting boyfriend who was out for fun and didn't know his gf was dancing. They fought, he was thrown out of the club and she never came back to work. Don't let this be you.

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    you ladies are right

    I spoke with him this evening about EVERYTHING I havent left anything out... I thought about my realtionship and it is important... he basically said that its up to me. He doesnt know how he will feel when i start But i have been honest and i feel SO MUCH BETTER then i wouuld have done hiding it from him...

    We have decided not to discuss it. im going to pone the lady tomorrow to ask a few questions but apart from that i think im all set...

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    Nariah. I hate to be the bearer (sp) of bad news.

    Guys will say its up to you and even say they support you just to say it. Even if they feel like that mean it...they don't. I'm not trying to be that 'jaded' stripper with horrible views on men at all. I'm trying to take the un jaded honest side.

    My bf told me he would support me in whatever I did. He would be happy no matter what and he'd love me forever.

    Fast forward to me actually dancing????

    We fought all the time. He was so different. I was constantly hurting him. My attitude towards him was horrible (when I put up with drunk sleazy guys all night at work, ANYTHING my bf said set me off to screaming)

    Basically I was raking in money like no other and my relationship was going down the drain because of it. Even though he haaaated me dancing he was still trying to support me and never actually told me to stop. I did stop though because I care so much more for him than I did about dancing.

    Going into it...all I saw was the glamorous side of dancing. The money, the champagne the clothes and everything else on tv. I didn't realize how hard it was and how emotionally trying it is.

    All I'm saying is that before you go into dancing. Make sure you want to. Make sure you think long and hard if your fiance is worth losing. Some people here might say 'well he's not worth keeping if he can't accept you'... you have to look at your relationship yourself. Put yourself in his shoes.

    I dunno.....my bf and I are still repairing. and its been since before christmas that I stopped. I miss it so much, but I couldn't live w/ out my bf.

    (He did buy me a pole for christmas though...so now I dance for him all the time!!! )

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    My guy doesnt like that I dance - at all... He loves me more than he hates that I dance. He knows Im trying - will be in school soon and done dancing in a few years so hes just waiting for ME to stop...rather than trying to force me into a crappy job that cant pay the bills and would inhibit me from going to school.

    There are all types. I think the worst are when men LOVE that you strip. THAT would kinda irk me... seems so odd. Many dancers are in good relationships and even married so there ARE men that are OK with it.

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    The frist night I worked I got my period :p I was freaking out .. But I came on this site and asked the girls what I should do and they told me to cut the string so far then shove the rest up in you.. It might sound odd but it works.

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    Nariah, where will you be working?
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    After all the palava I have decided not to go ahead and do the dancing...

    A few reasons are:

    I will never see my fiance except for weekends
    I just cannot justify spending £85 everytime i work to get home and housefee
    Im REALLY worried it will affect my relationship with my partner who I love ALOT...

    Thanks for all the advice...

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    Yeah, If You Have Any Doubts You Shouldn't Do It!! Hope Things Work Out For You.

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    My wife is going to dance (She is the one that clued me on to this site). I told her she doesn't need to (financially, I can support us both), but she wants to be able to earn her own money while trying to get thru school. (I can tell you that in the early part of our relationship I would have responded much like your bf did and on the inside mentally speaking I would be freaking out... What is different now is that my wife and I have complete trust and we are very open with each other... In a weird way it is kind of a turn on knowing she strips...maybe I am unique, maybe I'll change my mind when she actually does it. Whatever the case I'll just share what I am thinking and I know she will do the right thing! In the mean time she pratices on me...Im luving it!!!!!!

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    You need to tell him.. My husband really helped me get the motivation to do it.. If it wasn't for him, I wouldn't be dancing at all.. But then again, my husband is not the typical male.

    You have the job already, so the tough part will be him accepting the fact that you already hid something from him.. It will be tough, but the more you hide, the harder he'll take it.

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