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    Just a simple quick question. Say I am tipping all of the dancers that come on stage.

    However, one of the dancers doesn't come and say thank you, even though she looked dead at me when I was giving her the tip.

    Am I wrong for not tipping her again the rest of the night, or should I at least still tip her something when she is on stage?

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    I would give that dancer another try to at least say thank you...or maybe shes having a bad day.
    Thank you goes a loong way it seams.
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    but if you keep giving her tips and she keeps ignoring you?

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    Did you want her to come and talk to you for a dance?

    If not then I would stop tipping her. A dancer should always say thank you when you are tipping freely and not being an ass.
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    Quote Originally Posted by songofthesword
    Just a simple quick question. Say I am tipping all of the dancers that come on stage.

    However, one of the dancers doesn't come and say thank you, even though she looked dead at me when I was giving her the tip.

    Am I wrong for not tipping her again the rest of the night, or should I at least still tip her something when she is on stage?
    Are you saying she didn't thank you when she accepted the tip (down right rude) or are you saying she didn't come over to you after her set and thank you (nice but not all that common)?
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    actually neither. I mean, she looked at me when I gave her a tip, and did her thing and I gave her like 5 dollars while she was on stage, not much but enough to show her I appricate the show she was putting on for the crowd.. that and it was a slow night and I think there was only one other guy that gave her a tip.

    However, I tipped her twice, and neither time she came and said thank you, which is what most dancers do once they are tipped, to at least show they are appricative.

    I mean, I have a regular dancer that usually sits and chats with me, I wasn't necessarly trying to get her attention, but she is getting naked for me and everyone else on stage, so I try to tip most dancers if not all, the only time I dont' is if I am sitting with someone.

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    I'm still not following your meaning of "neither time she came and said thank you". If you handed her five dollars, placed it in her garter or whatever and she didn't thank you I wouldn't have given her another dime. Five dollars is a good to great stage tip in any club.

    You sound like a generous guy. If this one dancer doesn't appreciate your generous tip enough to say thank you I would save your money for the girls that appreciate it.
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    I always smile and say "thank you" to the customer when he comes up to tip me. Sometimes if we are really busy or a customer that tips me asks for a dance I don't get a chance to go around and thank everybody.

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    I can definatly understand that 100%.. but it was a weeknight... in arkansas, and like I said I was like only one of 2 dudes that gave a tip.

    It's like, I need to get with all of the dancers at my regular club and bring them here, because they have no clue how to hustle.. drop dead georgous women spend all their time in the back of the club sitting down, when they could be sitting down with men.

    There is one girl that I literarly tried to GIVE 500 dollars to, and she woudn't stick around long enough to take it.

    anyway, thanks, I just read some advice that said you should tip everyone, which makes sense, and didn't know if that applied to if you have tipped them and they weren't appricative

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    I dont know how tipping is done in Arkansas but if you put the money in her garter I think there is no exscuse for her not saying thank you. If you stage tip by placing the money on the stage or tip rail, like we do in Va, and if in doing so she saw you place the tip and did not come and thank you at all , I wouldn't tip her again.
    I've had the same thing happen to me when I've tipped dancers. I know from being in their shoes that sometimes it's hard to make it around the room and thank everyone, even on a slow night. I've had guys grab me for a dance before I can make my rounds. Sometimes money appears on stage and you can't tell where it came from, as I collect my money at the end of my stag set I'll say thank you, wave, wink at the ones who have tipped me. If I don't get thanked after a second tip, no more $$ from me.

    BTW, are you hanging out at a club that has roots in Va? If it is I find it hard to beleive that the girls are sitting in the back not making $$!

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    yeah, paper moon is based in the VA, that's where I go.

    Girl, drop dead freakin georgous.. 20 years old, about 5'7 has a body and the prettiest smile i have ever seen, I mean.. she has on a ton of makeup but hey, I can imagine her OTC and she is still hot.

    Can dance, and is cool

    however, she always complains about how broke she is, but yet she is sitting in the back of the room wtih her dancer friend that likes her as well.

    Another girl, she's black (well I'm black too), fine as can be. no reason for her to not clear at least 300 a night easy, all she does is complain about how broke she is and leave early. She complains, but yet has never asked me for a VIP dance, which I would love to GIVE her if she took some damn inititive.

    My EX actually lives up there... she used to work at the paper moon down here... wait a minute

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    I always say thank you when a guy tips me on stage, and when I'm doing my tip walk after my stage set, I will go up to the guys that tipped my on stage and say thank you again. When my set is over, before I leave the stage, I say thank you again so that everyone can hear it. Since we do a tip walk here, it's easy to make it around to all the customers and talk with each one, but there is really no reason for anyone to not say thank you when you tip them on stage.

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    These gals aren't realistic about their job. Maybe they lazy (whatever that is) or angry or on dope.

    A club around here is, or was, just like that. Their advantage was they did not have CCTV installed, so I would visit and do my best with what was available. Recently they installed VIP monitoring, and they stopped cleaning the club, plus they had a drug bust. I don't know what it's like anymore, other than I don't go there anymore.
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    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by songofthesword
    Am I wrong for not tipping her again the rest of the night, or should I at least still tip her something when she is on stage?
    Quote Originally Posted by songofthesword
    anyway, thanks, I just read some advice that said you should tip everyone, which makes sense, and didn't know if that applied to if you have tipped them and they weren't appricative
    I say pay for what you have your attention invested into. As to why she doesn't seem appreciative, a couple of theories...

    Quote Originally Posted by songofthesword
    that and it was a slow night and I think there was only one other guy that gave her a tip.
    That could be one...

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    Girl, drop dead freakin georgous.. 20 years old,
    I've had similar problems with attractive young gals, particularly if they are new and haven't picked up on the dynamic yet.

    If you're resigned to watching her stage set, then yeah its really only proper to tip her. If there's another stage you can go watch with a friendlier dancer on it, well...feel free to move.

    There is sort of a golden rule inside strip clubs of "you scratch my back, and I'll scratch yours" and when you don't feel that you're getting your back scratched, well, feel free to use a little negative reinforcement. There are always other girls willing to take your money.
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    well the pretty 20 year old got at least 20 dollars.. at least while she was on stage, only to say thanks, sit with me for like 5 mintus, then head back to the back for the rest of the night.. I have gotten dances, VIP dances from her before, but even then I had to like force her, she never takes any inotative

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    Quote Originally Posted by songofthesword
    There is one girl that I literarly tried to GIVE 500 dollars to, and she woudn't stick around long enough to take it.
    Um, I've never seen a dancer turn down $500 for just dancing unless she really thought the guy was more trouble than he was worth.
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    I don't think I am trouble.. I mean, the last time I was there she sat with me and I got a $20 dollar lapdance from her because it was 2 for 1 at the time.. hell if she would have came back later that night she would have gotten a vIP out of me.

    I mean, she is pretty cool, she just whines about being broke, but spends all of her time in the back drinking

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